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Oh my god, this morning my hubby and I are exhausted, a little hungover, and can't keep our hands off each other. We are officially no longer swinging virgins! So last night we went to Saints and Sinners in Philly. We went with zero expectations other than a fun night of dancing, and a commitment to get out of our shells by having sex with each other in one of the playrooms with others watching (which would be a total first for us both). We figured anything else would be a bonus. After a few drinks and some dancing, we met up with a couple that we had chatted with on sls a few times. The wife and I hit it off right away, and we spent an hour or two talking mixed with some dirty dancing while the boys watched. At one point she comes right out and asks me if we want to head downstairs to one of the playrooms. I didn't hesitate in saying yes ;-) We found a semi-private playroom (closed off, but open door and one open window) and, feeling a bit giggly, settled in. We both stripped off our skimpy clothes and jumped right in to kissing and touching. I loved the difference in our two beautiful bodies (I'm short and very curvy, big booty and 36DDD tits, she was taller, slender, with small perky tits). As the boys watched, she laid me down and licked my pussy. I LOVE my husband's tongue, and the feel of his rough bearded face, but I had forgotten how amazing the soft mouth of a woman feels (although this was our first swinging experience, I have been with women one-on-one, before my husband and I met) My husband began to kiss me and suck my tits while her face was buried in my wet pussy, and then pulled his thick cock out for me to suck while she licked and sucked my clit. As we switched, we kissed and touched some more, and I could taste myself on her tongue. I eagerly put my tongue on her sweet pussy (oh my god I'm going to be so jealous of my husband every time he eats me out now- I totally forgot how fucking spectacular the feel of a pussy under my tongue is!!!) and as I licked, sucked and nibbled, my ass in the air, my husband started to fuck me doggie style. I was so absorbed in eating her out that I didn't even realize my husband came not once, but twice! He said as soon as he saw me start to eat her pussy he exploded. She began to moan and cry out louder and louder, and I felt her cum all over my tongue. Her husband then moved in and started to finger fuck her to make her squirt, and my husband laid me down to lick my pussy and fuck me some more. All this time I can see people out of the corner of my eye, watching, getting turned on. Apparently one couple even came in and sat down for a little bit to get a closer look, but I didn't even notice. Our play finished with her husband fucking her doggie while she leaned over me as my husband ate me out. We were kissing, both each other's mouths and tits, and I worked her swollen clit with my fingers as she was getting fucked. So. Fucking. Hot. After we said our goodbyes, they left the club and hubby and I went back up to the dance floor. It was an all out fuck fest! Everywhere we looked people were sucking cock, eating pussy and fucking. We started making out again, and ended up with my tits in his mouth (my tits are large enough that he can put both nipples in his mouth at once, drives me WILD). We ended up back downstairs again, this time just the two of us, where we fucked some more with others watching, and I finished him (for those counting, that's #3!) in my mouth. After we got home, he couldn't keep his hands off me, talking about how insanely hot our experience was, and he made me cum with his fingers on my g spot and a vibrator on my clit. As soon as we woke up this morning, more fucking- lol I know I keep saying it, but we really can't keep our hands off each other! Last night has lit a fire under our already red-hot sex life and brought us even closer, and we can't wait to do it again

Laura and I often started in separate rooms with our playmates. Well, there were variations. For instance, my wife once fucked Mr. Playmate in his pickup truck parked in our driveway, while Mrs. Playmate and I were in the den. Then we'd do a "same bed" thing for an encore. They were different events! Although we certainly would not call "separate rooms" love-making, it was a bit more personal with our switched partners, no one to think about but each other. We'd keep the same partners when together as a foursome but laughing, joking, doing outrageous things became the focus. After we had fucked ourselves silly for an evening and were in bed just the two of us, Laura and I always managed to talk about the evening and make love. (Our swing friends did, too.) That glorious feeling was our reason for being swingers.

Hi Gang, We've been in the Lifestyle for going on 5 1/2 years now, and we've played with couples, single females, and single males. We've enjoyed all aspects of these fun times. Lately, I've been feeling more and more excitement and arousal in seeing my wife being fucked by another man. It's been getting more and more interesting, and I have more and more feelings of compersion (and less "hey, I'm left out"). It's totally hot to watch her take another man, revel in the sexual feelings and lose herself in the pleasure he's giving her. Making sounds she has NEVER made with me, and fucking him for HER pleasure, not mine (although it's SOOO hot to watch). I'm not sure what has cause this rather interesting change of arousal and interest patterns, but I wondered if any of you have gone through this as well. No cuckolding here, but just when there's a guy she wants to fuck, I TOTALLY enjoy setting it up for her and watching (and participating) her be completely satisfied. The change from even Steven to loving when she gets it has been totally non-volitional and I wonder if any of you others, male or female, have gone through the same?

Literally got done double stuffing my wife for the first time with her good friend....

Cplnuswing, hubby and I absolutely are, glad that came through

I've never actually "gone there", but I just recognize that I have the capacity to lose it on someone if I need to. Let's just say I don't have a stitch of submissiveness in me. At least not outside of Mr. intuition's influence. The "take no bullshit" attitude is one of the key things I've found about women in the lifestyle. It's a great equalizer of the sexes; men have to learn how to be softer and more at ease with their vulnerabilities, admitting when something is emotionally painful, or recognizing that they might be the ones who put more stock in monogamy than they thought. Women, on the other hand, learn that they can't play the coy little head games anymore, can't pout when someone didn't read their mind, and can't blame anybody but themselves if they didn't speak up if they weren't okay with something. Both halves are equally invested in it, and neither person's feelings or needs are greater than the other's. This is why I laugh when I hear the BS myths about how women are "exploited" and dragged into such a degrading thing by their sex-addicted husbands. Pft. Please.

For us it's easy. Kissing is part and parcel of a great sexual experience. Barring kissing, which is, in many cases, and automatic impulse when you are aroused and physically interacting with a partner, places land mines all around the room....one moment of solid focus on NOT kissing my partner, and I'm going to break someone's rule and cause drama...something we studiously avoid. Most importantly, Angel LOVES a good kisser, and orgasms from kissing alone. One of her criteria to play with someone a second time is how well they kiss. So.......... We pass on any couple with a no-kissing rule. T

The first thing you need to do is find examples of the type of male shots you like. These days you can get examples by searching the web using terms like 'Male erotic photography', 'male nude photography, etc. There are also books of male nude photography on Amazon. You and Mr. intuition should then look through the pictures to get a feeling for what you would like. After that just shoot a lot of pictures to get yourselves used to photographing and being photographed. You should try to find a room in your house that is well lighted so you don't have to rely on using flash. The room should also not be cluttered. Try everything from fully clothed to various levels of nudity. In other words, what ever you feel comfortable with. This can also be a lot of fun to do. My wife are I are avid nudists and I am an avid photographer. Over the years I have photographed her and other female and males in various stages of dress from fully clothed to artistic nudity and beyond. It all boils down to getting him used to being photographed and used to the idea that you are going to shoot a lot of photographs. Most will not be that good, but a few will have promise and you will both learn how he looks best. Once you know what works, you can go from there. I hope this helps.

I am a wife of a Bisexual couple, both in the Lifestyle for 12 years, and I have always gotten off on watching two guys having sex, thank goodness that my hubby is as emotionally secure as I am, and we share guys for a good MMF, as long as I can either watch or join in.. We both believe that all humans are innately Bisexual and that it is society that judges and keeps others insecure in their own sexuality. Being both Nudists and in a very Open Marriage, there are no rules. By the way, if other women say they don't like seeing two men together, they are LYING!

My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for many years and we veered to MFM because it´s not always easy to find another couple with the same interests and level of arousal. We love MFMs or MMMFMs both in 3somes and Clubs and for me it´s very exciting seeing her being sexually pleased by man/men. I do not consider anything like cuckolding because we do it together, and the sheer expression of lust in her face outlasts any sentiment of jealousy or the like. She loves to lose herself in group rooms, and once we got into a cabin with me and 5 other guys, she did all 6 of us during over 2 hours nonstop.

I never thought of my husband as a cuckold but I know he likes to watch me with men. He said he likes watching me tease or come on to men and bring them to a room. We have done this a number of times. I can tell you it is not easy to pick up a guy ( well it is easy to pick up a guy) when you tell him your man wants to just watch. We have gone to several hotels with that in mind and most men run when I tell them my husband is on the other side of the bar and he wants to watch.

I LOVE watching my wife flirt with other guys, feeling the sexual tension building, wondering who will make the first move. When we play with another guy I love watching her help him undress and vice versa. We usually play in our hot tub and my heart skips a beat when I reach down and find his fingers buried inside her already. The best is positioning my wife between us so one of us can take her from behind while the other plays with her clit. Or having her stroking both of us while we take turns fingering her and playing with her clit. It has taken years to get her to this point and she still has some reservations but I'm hoping one day to sit back with a video camera and simply record the two of them rolling from orgasm to orgasm.

Watching my wife is really awesome. We simply love MFM with the proper guy. Cannot be described, simply very hot...

Watching my wife with another man during an MFM is wonderful. Watching her arousal, which can be much higher in a group situation, especially if it's with someone she's knows and is comfortable, is fulfilling for me beyond the sexual arousal I feel. Maybe it's simply watching her enjoy herself and feeling a bit of satisfaction in that we are in this situation because of me. Mostly, though, I think it's being deeply in love with her and happy that she's able to do this which she clearly enjoys without fear that I'm going to think less of her for it. I definitely prefer seeing her having sex over another woman.

You hit the nail on the proverbial head for us as to why the MFM threesome works so well for us. It is almost like a euphoric sexual drug for me when I see Mrs being flirty and getting sexual with another guy in front of me. The peak to this sexual high comes when she looks at me and asks me when I am going to join in on the sexual fun with her. She is totally aware of my arousal and really plays to the situation for myself, and the other guy. Totally and very sexually arousing for myself and the other guy when she is sucking his cock while looking at me and she stops just long enough to ask me how much I enjoy seeing her doing what she is doing. No, this is never a cuckolding situation. Nor is it ever a bi-curious or bi-sexual situation. Rather, it is an experience that myself, my wife, and the males we usually play with all enjoy together. As myself and the other male always agree that the Mrs is completely in charge when it comes to play (what she does or does not want based on her mood and arousal at the time), we all feel that it enhances the sexual experience.