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Yeah, I'm not trying to be an alarmist about it, but it'd be irresponsible not to point it out. There are a ton of underlying health conditions for which even mild ED is a warning sign, although it's far more likely to be related to general stress/hormone/fitness issues. You can get bloodwork done at the same time which will help answer additional questions about how you're "feeling".

I've used Viagra and Cialis at times, and they were wonderful times. Stayed up longer, the second time came around a lot quicker. Never had any problems with it. With Viagra, I only used 25 Mg, the lowest dose. Don't remember what the dosage for Cialis. Rather than going the Canadian route, talk to your doctor. (Assuming you have health care) You can usually get Viagra for just the co-pay, 4 dosages per month. Get a big dosage (50 or 100 mg) and split it. Your doctor might even be able to give you a sample dosage to get you started, can't hurt to ask.

Non-physician talking: if you feel that you're having any trouble maintaining, there's a chance that it's a cardiac, blood pressure, or diabetic issue and that you should clear this up with your physician. With that said, I've had plenty of times where I get "close" during prolonged activity and my body reacts as if I had an orgasm, even though I didn't: I'm done until it's time to go again. I assume this is a normal thing that happens to most people sometimes.

Swinging is a team sport...something that the two of you do together. Don't you OR her ever do anything that you aren't 100% on board with (that includes taking one for the team...you may be tempted but don't do it). Take your time and take small steps, there's no prize for finishing fastest here. Enjoy the trip and have a good time. If it isn't fun, stop.

I know that was probably disappointing after being all pumped up for it, but I do think it was the right decision. When something seems headed off the tracks from the get-go, then it rarely if ever gets better. That's true in life but especially so in swinging. Like GoldCoCouple said, now start planning another night out to a place you really have a good feeling about and can have a fantastic first night out.

Try and change your outlook a little, you should want her to have an amazing time, whether that's because he has a bigger dick or great technique shouldn't really matter, but it might take you time to see things that way, your other half needs to understand that a lot of reassurance may be needed. Your wife was probably stressing that she's not gay because she's worried that you may see her differently and she doesn't want things to change between you, again you need to provide plenty of reassurance that it's ok.

In Northern CA. there's Laguna Del Sol near us in Sacramento. It's where we first went. Pretty nice place and it is considered a resort (that on Saturday nights is L/S friendly, or so we've heard). Then there's also our back yard...and front yard, and side yard It's great having acreage and good fences.

A lot has happened in the last ten days. I showed my blog and comments to my hubby. He was so surprised and excited, he said, “Why did you not tell me earlier, we wasted so much of time” We both were so excited that most nights we kept awake till well past midnight. The very first night, we talked and talked. We surfed so many websites. We even put in our profile at different websites. We emailed to some of the couples and thereafter even met a couple but did not find them compatible On my suggestion he emailed the couple with whom we had SRSP. We got a prompt reply from them; they said that they had relocated to another town, not very far from us. However, they said that they were open to our suggestion to get together; they invited us and said if we can not travel, they can come down here. This Friday night they were here. It all went on very well. We decided on same room. However, when it came to sex, hubby noticed some hesitation in me to have sex in front of him, so he said that they are moving to the other room and they left us to ourselves. After that there was no problem what so ever. We got together again at four in the morning We both are now in such a heightened state of sexual excitement. We are unable to think of anything other than sex. I don’t know what the future has for us