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Selectivity is the key. Random partners and mechanical sex has never been for us. We share intimacy with our playmates and are more than reasonably certain that they are disease free. Condoms reduce the level of intimacy for us and are a firm rule on those few occasions that we attend and play at on premises clubs. All of life is a risk, most hobbies, even knitting, entail some risk so we strive to eliminate the risk of STD through our selection process. So far its worked..

Brand new. Hit one event. No full swap but got to watch Tiki with another guy which is a huge turn on for me.

I used to be a pirate and am arguably a pervert and I don't have any. I must have done it wrong

Some of the playmates whom my wife and I know have told us of a near-death experience and relate their experience to a desire to have fun while time remains to have fun. I have, myself, had a near-death experience. Stapholycccus in my blood stream and three months in a hospital almost did me. Do you suspect that such an experience might make you or people you know more receptive to consensual non-monogamy?

My girlfriend really likes inside her. Even during mfm threesome she prefers myself and the other guy to cum in her.

Find a cute fluffy adorable kitten. Now put on a glove to pet it.

Sex with a condom just isn't nearly as good for me. The loss of sensitivity can make it hard to both keep an erection and orgasm. I've tried various condoms and some are definitely better than others in those regards, but even with the best condoms, it's still not quite the same. Another thing I hate about condoms is just the hassle and how it interferes with the flow and spontaneity of a play session. She's been giving you great oral and now wants it inside her...time to fumble around getting a condom on. You've been fucking and take a break to focus on her nipples or go down on her. You're totally focused on that so your erection fades a little bit but then when you're ready to get back to fucking...time to fumble around getting the condom on. For her, she really likes the feeling of a man coming inside her, it's just the cherry on top of some good sex. Condoms obviously take that away. Having said all of that, we realize condoms are part of swinging, and we are in favor of them in most cases.

In terms of stimulation to my cock, there's a lot less when I'm sheathed, so much so that sometimes find it difficult to achieve orgasm. Although when I'm playing with anyone who isn't my wife I almost always use one. (Those times when I'm just not able to come wearing a condom my partners are usually happy to finish me orally or my hand, which is fine with me.) From an erotic/aesthetic perspective, I enjoy semen. I enjoy fucking a pussy that's wet and filled with semen. I like watching it drain from a pussy. And I enjoy cream pies. But this is only with partners I know and whose sexual health I have a high degree of confidence in. It's one of those trade-offs that comes with the lifestyle. I try to make a reasonable rough-and-ready risk analysis.

I also prefer it inside, especially my mouth as I can then kiss my lover (or lovers) and share the cum. I got my hubby to go with my fantasy, and now we share his yummy cum, but also my other lovers'. We both like fine wine and cum. Laura Laura and Dave

I prefer it in me. First choice in my vagina, second in my mouth (I swallow), third in my bum. Outside is ok and somewhat interesting, especially if the guy produces a lot of semen, but I like the feel of his dick pulsing and the flow of his cum.

Oh know I'm a pervert!!

Mrs. EastInWest prefers it inside and will never ask for it outside, although she doesn't mind a bit. She consistently orgasms when a man orgasms screwing her, and the more she screws, the more she wants to. It's kind of a spiral where once you start, it's going to be increasingly disappointing for her if you don't finish inside her. I enjoy both depending on my mood, but really do love seeing a messy facial/breast shot, whether I'm delivering it or not. The first scenario we ever discussed as a possible swinging-type situation would be her sucking a couple of men off and letting them finish on her face and chest while I kick back with a nice glass of whiskey. That was just dirty bedroom talk but it took a couple of days for her to ask me, in the car, if I would really like it, because she thought she'd been thinking about it and could actually probably get into it.