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RUN!!! Do NOT make this woman pregnant. Don't engage in any more of her games. You have a pension, medical benefits, access to BX and she has a vagina and plenty of access to additional penises. In the end, she will get what she wants and you could lose part of what you have. This is a dishonest relationship and frankly, I think she's a bit of a head case (and not in a good way). Sometimes its better to simply cut your losses and walk away. To me, this looks like one of those times.

OK.. no longer a fantasy

I've always enjoyed house parties as well, and like some of the others have mentioned, having only attended those where a few guys were on the "invite" list. It's a great way to meet people. I have no desire to go to a club setting where anyone who can pay the admission fee is allowed in, at least in certain places. The one drawback is that unlike somebody's online profile, you can't tell what couples are interested in. So just being friendly and non-pushy has always worked pretty well..the people who are interested will find you, the people who aren't interested will just politely ignore you.