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My late wife wasn't reluctant to have sex with another man in front of me the first time. I didn't feel jealous; I was too busy having sex with her new partner's wife. After he came in Laura, she was hot as hell. "Have I got a hot pussy for you, Darling!" she said. The next day, Laura and Mrs. Playmate were on the phone, planning our next adventure.

Was anyone surprised by how much your reluctant wife loved having sex with another man in front of you for the first time? Did you feel jealous? How did she act toward you after he came in her and left? The next day?

I hope that this be the case in my first real encounter. We went to a club and things got a little heated between the two of us and we did what we do. In the process I was told afterwards that a couple was watching us for the longest. Before that the way the male approached us was a total turn off. So my man nicely turned down his offer and we cont. until it was time to go. We're not out looking for random sex. A conversation and see if there is a connection would be great. I lost interest. But he is slowly getting me to come back around. I'm thinking a club atmosphere is not the way to go first round. Can someone please shed some light on this Please.

Ya I keep telling myself to just let her go. We all know the saying, Easier said than done. I think she needs help, I have gone to counselors and been open with them in the past. I think there is a part of me that wants her to seek that help I got when I did counseling. You are absolutely right cheating is cheating no matter the circle. Open relationships, Swingers, Monogamous you name it cheating shows a lack of trust and respect for another.

To:Alura Agreed

The only thing I don't give second chance to is rudeness.

We talked quite a bit about getting into swinging. Finally, we went to a "seminar" for beginners in Florida at a swing club that actually helped newbies feel comfortable about getting into the lifestyle. The first experience for both of us was really great. Remarkably, it was separate rooms, and that was as it should be, although I doubt that would work for everybody. Then a couple of days later, we did a 4-some, and that worked out very well. No jealousy, no uncertainty, no regrets. It was all fun from there on for many years.