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Your instincts are correct that playing with married men (or men in a committed relationship) who are cheating is nasty, with potential drama as well. I would look for an married couple who has the same approach as you do. If your not looking for swapping sex for you, only MFMs, then look for another couple that mirrors your situation, whether that is a bi experience for yur wife, for you or for both. Patience, the right couple is out there.

I think it's great that things are right now working out for both of you. But I'm sure you know that as human beings keep on evolving and changing, so do relationships. They have a life of their own and what seems without risks today will change and maybe become very dangerous. You mentioned non-loving sex, but no one can predict what happens when 2 people get together repeatedly and how their feelings for each other will evolve, particularly if the sex becomes very intense and passionate. It can be intoxicating to the point that all the good intentions disappear. Also how your husband feels right now about you and more particularly how you feel about him letting you enjoy other men will undoubtedly change you and the way you perceive him, because nothing remains static, especially where sex is concerned because of the powerful emotions it can create. Thinking things will stay as they are would be naive.

So we returned from a weekend in Holland. We were going to attend fun4two swingers club, noted as the best swingers club in the world. An amazing sexy place that we were both so looking forward to visiting again, our first visit there was 3 years ago and we had a great first ever experience where we met a great couple a little older than us who we played a little with. They became close friends from there and indeed we were now staying with them for the weekend, we'll call them Ron & Jane... On the Friday night at the club we hung out with Ron and Jane for most of the evening, we got chatting to some other couples but didn't connect with anyone enough to go any further... We had a few drinks and then went to the Jacuzzi area, a large Jacuzzi big enough for 10 or 15 people, we chatted in here for a while, surrounded by naked couples, some just chatting others sucking cocks, others fucking just a little. We then headed into the steam room the four of us. It was very hot in there, literally. We were all naked, chatting with sweat running down our bodies, my wife looked so hot in here and I soon began to lick her pussy, Ron began to suck on her tits while Jane was sucking on Rons cock, my wifes body was moving and wriggling in a way that I knew she was enjoying my work and the extra attention of Ron sucking and massaging her tits, my wife loves her tits sucked when we are having sex together... While I'm licking my wifes pussy I began fingering Jane at the same time nice and slowly and now Jane was slowly stroking my cock, all this was super sexy. My wife came hard in such a new setting for us, it was impossible not to be fully turned on and into the situation. After my wife came, I focused on Jane, fingering her and sucking on her tits at the same time until she also came with my wife and Ron looking on, it was great! I checked in with my wife as we all just lay there in the steam room for a few minutes, she gave me a look that I knew she was ok and comfortable with what just happened. Later my wife and I, Ron and Jane, we all went upstairs to one of the playrooms and got naked, there was another couple in the small playroom also and they were going at it so hard, we all joked after that we were afraid the guy was going to hurt his woman, even though she made noises that she was loving every bit of it! My wife and I got busy, just the two of us, Ron and Jane likewise with each other, it was hot and Horney, there were noises of women screaming in pleasure at different times from different adjacent playrooms and corridors, it was incredible, there were small peepholes in our playroom that people could look into and see all our action, likewise we could see into other rooms, women being fucked in all kinds of positions, it was so cool. At one point a woman was pretty much thrown into the opening of our playroom, half in, half out and being fucked from behind at the same time, it was so funny and hot! This is still all kind of new to us and it was a feast for the senses! We didn't go any further on that Friday night. It was enough for us and totally enjoyable. The following night we stayed in with Ron and Jane, drinks, sexy school girl outfits, candles all over living room, open fire, large mattress on the living room floor, couple of sex toys too just to make it all interesting... After a little while I started going down on my wife, she looked great in her sexy school girl outfit, very sexy! After just a few minutes I asked Jane to help me with my wife and I handed her the magic wand, my wifes favorite toy, Jane worked the wand with my wife, was great to see another woman playing like this with my wife. Ron and I began sucking on my wifes tits at the same time, there was a lot going on, this went on for quite a while, hands everywhere, intense, finally my wife came so hard, as she always does when the magic wand is involved! A few minutes later my wife grabs the other joy, a version of a vibrating rabbit, she put it inside Jane and was working her very good, slow and easy at first and then harder and harder, it was great to see my wife fully involved, and now I couldn't keep track of my hands, Rons hands, all over my wifes body at the same time and me sucking on Janes tits while my wife pretty much pounding Janes pussy with the vibrator, awesome stuff!Jane cums while I'm sucking on her tits at the same time, great experience! My wife then lays down on her back and Ron starts licking her pussy while I'm kissing my wife as passionately as we ever have, we make eye contact and I can tell my wife is comfortable and fully enjoying herself, Ron takes his time going down on my wife as I'm sucking now sucking on my wifes tits, I had a front row seat at a real life porn movie, we were all so into it! My wife came again and later I fucked my wife bent over the living room sofa while Ron and Jane fucked on the mattress, it was some of the best sex my wife and I have ever had! We were done for the night and fell into our beds after an incredible night! We didn't go any further with Ron and Jane. While my wife was extremely comfortable with all she did, she was not ready to give Rona blowjob or do anything else. She was still going at her pace and I was now even more aware of it and fully respected her for it. But even aside from this, what we did get up to with Rona d Jane was another step on our journey into this lifestyle, and to see how naturally my wife was in our playing with Ron and Jane made me very turned on and proud of her at the same time. It is more of a big thing mentally for my wife, entering this lifestyle than it is for me. My wife is still getting her head around allowing herself to let go and enjoy herself in these situations as it is so far way from how she was brought up in society in catholic Brazil. She is doing great. the following morning I checked in with my wife, we didn't discuss the night before too much, just touched on it, she didn't want to go into it too much either with Ron and Jane, they were aware of how big a deal these situations are to her, my wife wanted to chat normally without lots of questions wondering if she was ok after the experience of the night before, she wanted us all to not really go there, that she was cool with everything that happened and almost as if she had graduated into the lifestyle with no issues. I was really happy that she was good with everything genuinely. When we got home a few days later we chatted a little about our sexy night on Friday and Saturday, we both agreed that it was all super hot. My wife said that when Ron was licking her pussy on Saturday night that she felt slightly guilty in the middle of it, guilty that she was enjoying it so much and she thought she should not be, I was v happy she shared this with me and we both joked about it a little too, she was becoming even more comfortable with everything and I reaffirmed with her how much of a turn on it was to see her moaning with pleasure by another man licking her pussy and making her cum! We were both very cool about the whole weekend and I'm sure as we have more encounters in this lifestyle that she will become even more comfortable as we continue our journey.... Big thank you to all who have read our posts and those that have given their advice and experiences which has greatly helped both my wife and I. M

I, personally, always enjoyed being second, or third. I've always loved the feel of a well lubricated vagina. It's really just a matter of preference and those preferences can change with experience.

machiavel55 Yes i agree 100% how many poly stories start out the same way - i think that it's best if the two of them can get there normal sex life up and going then explore but - at lest they are thinking and talking about it openly and lets hope for the best.

Wng aboute do talk and we are talking more. His goop moment wasn't with me it was with others. I used the goop because we use that between ourselves. We also use Jackie for ejaculate. It's our play words. I know it's semen. I don't think I ever used the word semen in any relationship I had. I think it was always cum. I can't remember any guy I was with say he was going to shoot semen. Or you have semen on you. I have heard of guys joking about sloppy seconds but this was a first for him to be a sloppy second. I could be wrong but I think a lot of guys are even afraid of their own cum. My boyfriend is far from the first guy I have been with. I think girls have always had to deal with cum. I learned early on that when a guy cums he doesn't care where it goes as long as it's not on him. I know I have friends that don't like to be near cum. This is just from talk I know that some of my friends will not let their boyfriends cum in their mouth. I admit at first I didn't either. I would say it was an acquired taste. I know there is no typical thing or normal thing but I am fine with a guy who cums in my mouth and if he cums in me and he wants I will take him in my mouth again. Most of the guys I have been with will not give me oral after they finished unless I cleaned up and that's their own goop. I have been with guys who won't kiss after oral sex.

I read back through your question and I think maybe you're asking what to say if someone asks about your line of work? It doesn't happen too often, but you can say something general like I own a business or I work for the government, or it's boring. If they persist (very rare), just say you'd rather talk about fun than work.

If it involves a Unicorn people are more willing to over look it. If it's just another stray dog looking to hump something.... I would still be more worried about the husband of a cheater and maybe the wife of cheater also. Bottom line, we don't play with cheaters.

One more thing. If you find laughing a turn-off during sex, don't bother trying dp J