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Us too. What a wonderful thought to have friends like that to share both friendship and intimacy. I'm hoping for something just like that.

We had our friends K and L down for an overnighter, and it was so great. We've never entertained at home before, actually. We told the kids to find someplace to be for the night, and to take the problem-dog with them (the little yappy chihuahua bastard who likes to pick fights with the other dog). So they did, and other than one of the other dogs barfing on me, it went well. It was so great to not feel rushed and to just hang out, curled up on the couches, chilling and watching TV with good friends. Adjourning to the bedrooms when the mood strikes. Making as much noise as we want because our closest neighbours are a good quarter mile away. Grabbing some cold water and chocolate covered strawberries from the fridge. Those were a total hit, by the way. Amazing what you can do with a couple of melted chocolate bars and a container of berries. Out for dinner, back home for round two - - and snuggling until somebody starts snoring. Then back to bed with your spouse...for round three...and falling asleep exhausted. Round four with your own spouse next morning before a hearty bacon and egg breakfast at a truck stop diner by the 401. We've been blissed out all weekend. It's been a long seven months of all work and no play since we last saw our friends, and we all agreed it's been waaaay too long. Mr. intuition and I were talking about how we like the idea of quality over quantity. It's not often you'll meet friends with whom you'll click so well. They're really genuine people, which appeals greatly to me. I'm a little put off by stand-offish people who keep you at arms length. I don't mean any harm to anyone, and I trust the integrity of my own relationship to feel at ease expressing ourselves as freely as we like. These two are like that, too. We'd love to find another couple or two...or maybe three...whom we could consider actual friends.

I am so jeolous. I want to taste two beautiful woman like tat nad have them both clean me off with their tongues and mouth while i return the favor to both of them with my mouth. My wife says she would like this to happen to us. You are one lucky guy. Bravo.

Thank goodness I had a pint of chocolate covered strawberry ice cream in the freezer because I had to get some before I could write this reply. Very happy for you. I think there is something to be said for quality and familiarity, and the importance of lifestyle friends.

Pleased to read that you had such a wonderfully spontaneous weekend. Sending my wish that you will have many more.

We went to Trapeze in Ft. Lauderdale for a key and lock party. This was our first time at any type of club like this . The club was very clean and laid out well, the food was good and staff were very helpful to us newbies. We met some really nice people and a couple that were not our cup of tea per say, we eventually met a group of friends that met up for the night and they took us right in to the group. We danced and made conversation for a while . Now just some back story ,we said that we could not just jump into full swap the first time out and we had discussed what our rules were for the night and decided that we were up for soft swap at most for our first time. So after we met this couple we made our way to the play area which was very clean and had many areas to play, mind you everything was new to us and it was a lot to take in for one night. The Mrs. is a little more cautious and slow to try anything new , but she jumped in and before we knew it we were swapping and I have to admit I was a little afraid of how I would feel watching another man have sex with my wife, but as soon as it started all my worries went away ,I was really turned on by watching my wife have sex with this other guy and to hear her moaning with enjoyment told me she was at ease as well. The other couple was experienced and were very respectful to us and made sure not to push us into anything we were not ready to do. So once we started we all did oral, and then we moved on and had sex for what seemed like two hours, both the other male and myself had some problems finishing but we both did , could have been the alcohol or nerves? The feeling of another person other than your wife is confusing somewhat because you usually know what your spouse likes or wants, with a new person you need to learn fast, they both told us what they liked during sex and it helped alot to get everybody off. We left after we played and checked the time and it was about 3:00 a.m. did not seem that late. Overall it was a great experience and we will be doing it again.

In my opinion, swinging is meant to do together. Alone just doesn't feel right. That feels like cheating. Even if consented to by the non attending partner. If my woman is going to be fucked by someone else, I want to at least be there to see it, hopefully be turned on by it, so I can join in on the fun. For me its together or it doesn't happen period. If there is distain for not allowing her to then there is already a problem somewhere that would have me concerned.