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The first steps I took were researching the idea online and talking about it with my partner. So, it sounds to me like you're off to a good start. The next step, when you're ready, is meeting someone and there are lots of ways to do that, some of which will work for you while others won't. Some people put a profile online, some people go to clubs, some people just happen to randomly discover a potential play partner in the course of everyday life (that third one doesn't happen often, but it can happen once in a blue moon when the stars are just perfectly aligned ). You have to discover what works best for you as you go... though I'm sire we'd all be happy to answer any questions you might have. The key is to move at the pace you and your partner are comfortable moving at and, as GoldCoCouple said, have fun.

So we chatted with them all is good, he has been having to work overtime and was worn out! Lesson here? Communication!

If you are REALLY communicating, the you could just ask her and she would tell you. If you can't or she can't, then it is most likely a trust deficiency. Either way, it's never a bad thing to try and improve your trust and communication...it all leads back to helping increase the love. She needs to know that no matter what she says, you will always be there for her and with her.

We had our friends K and L down for an overnighter, and it was so great. We've never entertained at home before, actually. We told the kids to find someplace to be for the night, and to take the problem-dog with them (the little yappy chihuahua bastard who likes to pick fights with the other dog). So they did, and other than one of the other dogs barfing on me, it went well. It was so great to not feel rushed and to just hang out, curled up on the couches, chilling and watching TV with good friends. Adjourning to the bedrooms when the mood strikes. Making as much noise as we want because our closest neighbours are a good quarter mile away. Grabbing some cold water and chocolate covered strawberries from the fridge. Those were a total hit, by the way. Amazing what you can do with a couple of melted chocolate bars and a container of berries. Out for dinner, back home for round two - - and snuggling until somebody starts snoring. Then back to bed with your spouse...for round three...and falling asleep exhausted. Round four with your own spouse next morning before a hearty bacon and egg breakfast at a truck stop diner by the 401. We've been blissed out all weekend. It's been a long seven months of all work and no play since we last saw our friends, and we all agreed it's been waaaay too long. Mr. intuition and I were talking about how we like the idea of quality over quantity. It's not often you'll meet friends with whom you'll click so well. They're really genuine people, which appeals greatly to me. I'm a little put off by stand-offish people who keep you at arms length. I don't mean any harm to anyone, and I trust the integrity of my own relationship to feel at ease expressing ourselves as freely as we like. These two are like that, too. We'd love to find another couple or two...or maybe three...whom we could consider actual friends.

Many times we run in to this type of behavior, we started swinging because of communication and open nature of the people in the Lifestyle. We find that many are judgemental, do not communicate well with their other half or potential playmates and tend to think they deserve better than what they have to offer. We have multiple invites and blind KIK chats request, as soon as we exchange pictures (before any conversation)they state they are not interested and disappear. Way too many people consider the pictures to be the entire package, we are starting to think that clubs are going to be the best way to meet new couples moving forward.

There's HSwing.com if someone is interested in finding other couples with HSV.

My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for many years and we veered to MFM because it´s not always easy to find another couple with the same interests and level of arousal. We love MFMs or MMMFMs both in 3somes and Clubs and for me it´s very exciting seeing her being sexually pleased by man/men. I do not consider anything like cuckolding because we do it together, and the sheer expression of lust in her face outlasts any sentiment of jealousy or the like. She loves to lose herself in group rooms, and once we got into a cabin with me and 5 other guys, she did all 6 of us during over 2 hours nonstop.

Don't be silly. Having a preference for what you are attracted to is not racist. Especially when it is in addition to what you already have. No different than liking piercing blue eyes or wanting to try a redhead if you are in a relationship with a brunette. The black and white contrast of skin is hot. Preference is not the same as prejudice and there is no equal opportunity applied to sexual attraction.

The two times my wife and I did DVP with a longtime friend, it was very easy. It was totally unplanned. Our friend just slipped his penis into my wife on top of mine. My friend and I both came very quickly and within a few seconds of each other. We always play bareback with him so each of us could feel each other and the increase in lubrication when we came. It was the most fantastic sexual thing the three of us have done together.

Since very early on in our relationship I have always been turned on by my wife flirting with other guys and have always wanted to watch her with another man then either join in or have her afterwards. Watching live porn, with my wife as the star, is absolutely great. It makes me want her so much more. However, we have not done the MFM thing yet and she is not sure she wants to. Even still, being with another couple was great. I got to watch her be pleased by another man and got to watch him be turned on by watching me with his wife. Being with his wife was pretty secondary to me though. I enjoyed watching her be with him much more and when we swapped back to our own spouses for a bit it was just great. I really do want to have an MFM though. The though of my wife sucking my dick while another guy fucks her is a huge turn-on for me. Watching her suck another guy while I fuck her as well. I've also always wanted to give her a DP with another man. We've done it with toys but I just think with another real cock it will be something else entirely. All of these things though really seem to require a MFM and do not seem feasible when we are with another couple as that would leave the other woman out. What seems really weird about this to me is that it seems most guys have the fantasy of being with 2 women. That doesn't do much for me at all. I mean sure, watching my wife be with another woman is great and it turns me on as well, but not the same level. Knowing that I can switch back and forth and when I need a break they can take care of each other is all fine and good, but just not the same. When we were with this other couple, my wife did play with the other woman for a bit, and it was hot, but I just could not wait to see her with the other man. Perhaps if the other man was not there and not a consideration I could get into the FMF a little more, but to me it was just not all I hear other guys make it out to be.

I used to do this with the ex and one of our playmates. She would straddle him reverse cowgirl then lay back on his chest so I could enter from the front. It would drive her waaaaaayy over the top.

I always said my wife was my favorite pornstar.

OK. I've always been curious about this: how do you do double vaginal intercourse? Is it that one man goes in and then the other joins in or do they both enter at once? What's the best position for achieving double vag? Do both men continue to move or is that too much movement and they both fall out? Feel free to use illustrations, pie charts, graphs..... I've never seen this done, in person or even in porn, but I've read so much about it here. I admit, I'm curious..... Pepper

I have not read the others posts on this string completely, so this may have been written. Male one on his back, woman slides cock into vagina. Male two comes to her back, and slides cock into vagina. Movement is started by male two, and it is an incredible feeling. I enjoyed the penis to penis contract, which was quite sensual. All three of us had climaxes. Otto & Eileen Before we did this, it did not seem that a vagina would take to cocks. It can with no problem.