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I'm just about ready to give up on this whole "online profile" thing... It says, right in the damn profile, we go to the local club and are look to meet people there. So why message me only to say that you refuse to go to the local club and insist on meeting at my house? No! I do not let strangers into my house. OK, sure, it's probably weird that I'm more willing to let a strange man into my wife than into my house. Still, I think the profile was pretty clear.

we like to meet for a vanilla drink or dinner first. Scope out the psychos without pressure, have a chance to mull it over and discuss with my spouse privately. It says we are generally vanilla in our first meet in our profile. One suitor said that I am led around by my woman and we are practicing morality by not doing it on the first meeting. I thanked him for completing our vetting without having to spend the time to meet.

Damn right!

Please read some of the threads about swinging with friends. This can open a completely different can of worms (I never even knew worms CAME in cans). Also, before you take the plunge, re-read this: Until you can openly talk to her about anything and everything, don't be in too big of a rush to get started. One needs to be careful before you open Pandora's box. While swinging can make a great relationship reach unimaginable heights, it will also magnify any flaws or weaknesses the relationship has. Make sure that the relationship is as strong as possible before proceeding. Let us know how things go.

This is a pretty fun thread!! This past New Years Kiko and I were at Couple's Choice here in Chicago. Typically New Years is fun but not a lot of play, people get pretty drunk. Anyhow clock strikes 12 and we figure nothing was going to happen. I go to the bathroom and on my way back notice a couple is playing in the bondage room with the doors open, so people can watch. I run over and give Kiko the heads ups. We go over to the viewing area/ door and start watching this naked red head getting whipped with a belt while she was strapped to the wall. I suggest a blindfold, which she eagerly agrees to. So myself and her partner blindfold her( not even sure what article of clothing we used). Then I suggest he mix in something soft with the belt. We use my shirt with he and my wife using the belt and me driving her wild with the shirt. So at this point a bit of a crowd has gathered. So now the girls ( there were like four including the red head and Kiko ) are taking turns spanking each other bottoms while I gave them the soft sensation of my shirt!! So now the guy in the couple that originally has the room kicks everybody out and asks us to stay. Kiko and I agree, he begins to introduce himself and the red head yells...'No, no names', that I remember DISTINCTLY. In fact Kiko and I still joke about it. So the red head demands to be locked up again and spanked harder. So until this time I hadn't really spanked anyone, but since she wanted to be spanked harder, everyone looked at me. It's not really my thing, the soft part earlier is definitely, but hey she was a hot naked red head demanding me to spank her. Anyhow my wife, Kiko and the other guy start entertaining themselves on the one side of the big bed in the room, the red head and I, after a good spanking did likewise on the other side. and 'no names'...great night.

My wife and I are totally new. We have been talking about it the last few months and are traveling to our first clubs in a few weeks. We are excited, scared and intrigued by everything we will see and experience. I am trying to go with no expectations and enjoy whatever comes our way. But I get so excited about the possibilities of watching my wife play with another woman.

I am a bisexual man. That info is given out in very limited quantities. I wouldn't worry about him if you let him know you are straight. Trust me, the LAST thing we would ever do is try to seduce a man who is straight. It just doesn't happen.

That's great and I hope it leads to a lot more fun and a much closer friendship for all four of you. My wife and I started when our best friends seduced us in the mid 80s. That was the only thing my wife and I could talk about for the next week. It is really great to have good friends you can also play with. The couple eventually divorced but we are still close friends with both of them. The husband is still our best friend and we still play with him on a regular basis. Sex with friends is great.