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HornetToronto is correct in what he said and I'm glad he said it before me. I said much the same in a rather contentious exchange of a few years ago and was figuratively tied to a pillar, hung up-side-down and verbally whipped. What he said also matches my personal experience. Squirting is for me neither a turn-on or a turn-off. It's just something that happens. It seems perfectly natural.

Ok. I know this is a taboo topic to some people, but I'm curious what you guys and ladies think. I've been on social media reading a lot about squirting. It seems like so many people (male and female) are weirded out by it, grossed out or say it is piss. Some people even say it is unnatural. This makes me incredibly insecure as I am a squirter and, I can tell you, it is a totally involuntary response by my body when I am extremely comfortable and being fucked right. Anyone here have opinions or insight as to what it is? Also, what are your thoughts? Turn on or turn off?

Charles Schiltz of Peanuts comic fame created a poster that as a child I had in my room it was a picture of Linus and said "I love humanity, it's people I can't stand".

Mate just be her cuckold that;s what this story is about right. But on the off chance it's not and this is what really happened then you are screwed my friend. Because she has no feelings for you at any real level - her agreeing to help you is only her way of getting away with fucking you over. dump her and get someone that loves you for you - and if you don't find swinging that interesting so what - there are girls that don't also and would give their left ovary to go out with a man that loves them for them. If this is real then sorry man.

Western Swing, thanks so much for your informative and factual account. People on this website, and you are a good example, are so helpful, kind and well-informed. Plus, they often speak from a position of knowledge or at least experience. I so wish that I could say the same for the stuff you get on the news. The 24-hour news cycle has provided us with a lot of opinion...but don't get me started.

Reading-up on it may ease your mind a bit. According to the CDC, bacterial vaginosis is the most common vaginal infection in women ages 15 - 44. It's sometimes put in the STI category because it could make a woman more susceptible to other STI's, but it is not an STI in of itself. Although BV can be triggered or aggravated by sexual activity, researchers don't feel it is passed through sexual activity. It appears to just be a natural issue with sexually active woemen and most sexually active women will have it at some point in their life. Monogamous women get it as often as women with multiple partners. So you could of had it forever and coincidentally this is just the first time you've had a problem. It could be triggered by your husband because maybe his sperm was off that day due to alcohol or smoking and that reacted poorly with your natural bacteria. Or too much chlorine in a pool could trigger it. Douching is known to cause it as well as women who smoke are more susceptible to it. It's a bacterial imbalance, not a sexually transmitted infection.

I would say stop. You are clearly not able to control your self - and while i believe you love your husband you clearly don't give a shit about him or his emotions. Other wise you would of stopped this and focused on you two. ( and you would of stopped the play time because he is more important ) and the worst part, i bet he knows it - and that's why he can not get anything going. You make it sound so loving in your post about how can i help hubby - well try this - let your words also be your actions. but i doubt you will think that or give it some thought .

You are blessed with an amazing gift, be proud! My wife is as well and it is so erotic. As a man, being the reason she is gushing is one of the most rewarding moments. I'm also a kinky guy and fluids dont bother me at all. I can understand why others assume it must be piss but i am confident its not, this is based upon experience not just theory. We have played the whole watersports game and there is a definite difference. I could go into detail but i will spare you. There will be people who love it and others that avoid it. I would suggest being upfront about it during initial discussions. This way you can gauge thier reaction before getting to deep and possibly having an uncomfortable situation. Definitely a turn on, to bad your so far away.

One of my favorite memories is the time that my wife and I had her first full swap with another couple. Up until a certain point in that night, we had to been having a soft swap out with the other couple. Lots of wandering hands And oral between both couples. At one point my wife looked up and said "all right now, I don't care whose dick it is but somebody is going to fuck me now! " it was so hot to hear my wife be so blunt and into the experience. I promptly obliged and began to slide inside her briefly. I then watched another man have fun with my wife for the first time :-)

So after reading this post I took a look at some of your previous posts and in some of them you mention that you're both having fun..yet your husband seems to have lots of issues..so I'm a bit confused....anyway...what really jumped at me right away in your post is that: 1) you both agreed on limits and rules prior to your first encounter and you broke them. 1b) Breaking the rules does not seem to bother you....wow! 2)...I quoted it above...you're looking for a way to focus on your husband's needs and (hint...maybe check on his emotion's too?), which won't make you feel like your slighting the other couple?...really? who cares about the other couple! do you care about your couple?...you know...the one you form with your husband...yes...that one! Stop everything right now. Work on your relationship and help your husband rebuild his self-esteem that seems to be going down the drain slowly each time you guys play. Sorry if I'm harsh, but you seem to be an intelligent woman in a career where you take care of other human beings. Time to take care of your husband and stick to rules. Good luck!

If it happened to me, since I'm really not interested in hotwifing or cuckolding, I would wish her the best and separate. I've never accepted being number 2 sexually with any of the women in my life but I also understand that we all change sexually through our lives and that when/if a partner see their sexual needs change to something very different than what I bring to the table, it has nothing to do with but it is best to separate. Other men have different attitudes and accept compromises. I do not.

Trust/Love! To us we can be with the top models, etc, doesn't matter. We know that no one can make us feel better then each other, and there's only "US" in our hearts.

Cheating is not swinging. I agree with megabyte, you both need to slow down and work on your relationship before continuing (especially her). Swinging is not for everyone and it may not be for you, but cheating usually doesn't work for anyone (other than those doing the cheating).

To me, this is a pretty huge red flag and should be addressed before you continue with the lifestyle. Honestly, 2 months wouldn't be enough time for most people to repair the damage of an affair. I'm not saying you can't do in that amount of time, but I could feel from your post that you and your wife clearly aren't on the same page. If it was me, I'd pump the breaks and work on the both of you before jumping into swinging. I think you'll find from a lot of the other users that success in the lifestyle REQUIRES a strong foundation.

It is super sexy seeing your wife with someone else, I have never sat back and just watched. I have always participated in the action, we have only did MFM 2 times but both were very enjoyable. My wife was so turned on that when we tried dp she took the other guys dick in her ass so easily. But we also role play her with other guys at home. I write spicy sex stories for her and then I blind fold her while she rides the dildo and I read her the story she had some good orgasms

I love watching my wife fucking another guy. It's one of favorite aspects of swinging. I like to watch and she loves to perform for an audience. We've had times where I watch and she plays and I fuck her afterward. We've done threesomes, where the other guy and I play with her together. We've had times were she and I play and other people watch. We've had times when she goes out and plays by herself then comes home and tells me all the details while she and I play. Lots of fun all around. In short, there are a lot of options in swinging and very little "normal." What is key is making sure that everyone involved understands the rules, expectations and boundaries and abides by them in good faith.

You're not alone, pal. We've been married 31 years and I've always been hot to see her get it with another guy (with me right in there too). All the things you describe, well, that's our fave. So you're not alone. My theory has always been that the ladies have way more stamina than men. So, we like there to be more men then ladies. MFM, MMFFMM, MMMF, etc. Maybe if we had started when bi was big we'd feel differently, but when we started bi was pretty darn rare. The other thing is that when you really love someone, their pleasure and happiness is essential to your own. Indeed, the more turned on she is, and the better a cum she has, the more turned on I am, and the better time I have. So my feelings are both altruistic and self-interested. More bang for the buck. If you read the "singles in swinging" forums a lot of the discussion is about MFM and how to set them up. Plenty of good advice there. If you're both open and up-front, and you talk this all out, you should be able to turn fantasy into reality without too much trouble, and no risk to your relationship. Just go at the pace of the slowest partner, but keep smiling and keep facing towards where you want to go. MFMs have added a tremendous amount to our sex lives, and given us memories we'll treasure forever. Highly Recommended.