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I believe that Hedonism is what you are looking for. There is only one Hedonism, Hedo 2. (Hedo 3 closed several years ago.) The staff does a great job of keeping it clean. You should understand that the place is over 30 years old, but the new owners have spent millions on upgrading the rooms, fixing infrastructure, better food, etc. Part of this has been replacing air conditioners which now work quite well, and also putting a screen on the window to keep the bugs out. Honestly,you will be having so much fun hanging out with all your new friends, you will only be in the room to shower and sleep. You can look at the Hedonism website, click on group events, and see which groups will be there during which weeks. If you book with a group, you will get a better rate. We have gone with Jon's Fluffernutters (fluffernutters.com) several times, and will be there Nov 10 - 18. The Fluffs are a great group, normally people of various ages, some couples and some singles, non-judgmental folks from all over, friendly and inclusive people who want to party and have fun, some nudists, some swingers. You can make Hedo what you want it to be, and I'm positive your wife will not have any trouble finding a guy to play with. If you go with the right attitude, you will make friends that you'll stay in contact with for many years, and it may be the best vacation of your life. Feel free to ask more questions if you want and we'll try to answer. Good Luck!

You know, we have a fairly new truck and car. I'm completely satisfied with both. But if a friend offered to let me take his Porsche for a spin? Why not?

Madly, there have been nights when we have done exactly that, and we are a veteran (15 years), full swap couple. Some nights, we just want to be naked and play next to and around other naked couples, enjoying the sights and sounds around us. We particularly like the multi bed section under the mirrored ceiling. Swinging is really about you two as a couple and what YOU enjoy. If you're in your fun zone and the couple next to you starts to touch, a simple "no thank you" or "not tonight" is nearly always sufficient at Trapeze. Being naked in a group setting does not necessarily indicate that you're looking to boink anyone. You ALWAYS have a choice and the final say in the matter.

Have you looked into the November Bliss cruise? it does not allow singles, unless a couple brings them. But we encountered a few couples that were into the hotwife play only. They also have meets & greats for hall pass couples where you could find a 3rd. In some of the playrooms hall passes were allowed. Although bliss security will not allow the single guys with hall passes to hover for too long around a couple during play. It's not a resort but it's a thought, and cruises are usually very well maintained. If you have questions you can call Toplesstravel travel, they are very friendly, and almost all the agents are in the LS they also do all the resorts.Topless Travel | Swingers Travel and Lifestyle Adventures

Breathless is not clothing optional and not swinger oriented (if that is what you are looking for). For a nude resort that allows singles (usually men), then you are kind of limited to Hedonism II. If you are just looking for a party atmosphere, then that is kind of what Breathless is marketing. We haven't been there so we can't say for sure. Desire RM is smaller (LOTS smaller than Breathless) but every night has evening entertainment that seems to run longer than we can stay awake (we would rather head to bed early anyways...but not necessarily with just the two of us). There's also the play room and the Jacuzzi for more late night excitement. We hear the 2am pizza from the bar is incredible. No singles, but we consider that a plus. They have top shelf, but you need to ask for it by name or they will give you the (surprisingly) cheaper stuff. Bottom line: it's up to you as to what you are looking for. If you just want the four items on your list and nothing more, then there are dozens of resorts that offer that. If you want clothing optional, then that limits things to Hedo, Desire, Desire Pearl, Temptations, and Hidden Beach. If you want swinging, then Hidden Beach shouldn't be your first choice (there may be some that happens there, but they seem to be more clothing optional only).

...we expect to hear back as to how it goes.

There is a podcast called We Gotta Thing. They have been to some of the DoyouknowGeorge events and really enjoyed them. They sound very nice and upscale. The couple on the podcast are in their 50's. After I heard about their Just for Dinner events I started my own version and it went really well.

Life is a little short to spend it trying to screw somebody you aren't enjoying. If you want him to keep going, that's OK. If you want to stop it, you are 110% justified. Our sessions are hardly "even", but it works for us because of what we're there for. Everybody is different and you can reasonably ask your husband to slow down and play at the speed your needs call for.

A few years ago I ran some French swinging sites through Translate and learned a bit about this. It's seemingly considered much more common/recognized in French culture than American. The consensus seemed to be that it was not only normal, but almost expected for a woman to be aroused by proof that her husband is desired by other women and can satisfy women generally, as long as he's doing his job with her, too.

I don't want to belong to a club that would accept me as a member.

I think only you can answer that question. I believe the majority of the couples we have met are very happy!! Including ourselves. Why do we do it? It brings a sense of adventure, and spice into our lives. We are not doing this out of boredom with each other quite the opposite, we want to give more to each other then we can offer. Our communication/trust/love for each has never been better.

We asked. We're in!

I'm fine with one partner having more fun But if one of us didn't enjoy it at all in my opinion thier is no point in playing with that couple again It's just for fun so if it isn't fun I don't wanna do it

Hey Heavenlyass You do have the right to be unset that he does not factor in your feelings - this is not team work, which most of us work out before or very quickly when starting. Also there are many girls and some boys that want some type of attraction involved, i think most people need some thing to go with. but he's not playing as a team and this will effect your take on any and all playtime's and partners, for myself i can normally find something to like in every one - BUT if the old girl says nope then that's it and same for myself with her. If this continues you will end up having drama's while out playing and that will follow you - some couples are just known for drama. So it's back to communication - and if will not listen to your side and take notice / playing as a team. Then Stop until he does.

So after reading this post I took a look at some of your previous posts and in some of them you mention that you're both having fun..yet your husband seems to have lots of issues..so I'm a bit confused....anyway...what really jumped at me right away in your post is that: 1) you both agreed on limits and rules prior to your first encounter and you broke them. 1b) Breaking the rules does not seem to bother you....wow! 2)...I quoted it above...you're looking for a way to focus on your husband's needs and (hint...maybe check on his emotion's too?), which won't make you feel like your slighting the other couple?...really? who cares about the other couple! do you care about your couple?...you know...the one you form with your husband...yes...that one! Stop everything right now. Work on your relationship and help your husband rebuild his self-esteem that seems to be going down the drain slowly each time you guys play. Sorry if I'm harsh, but you seem to be an intelligent woman in a career where you take care of other human beings. Time to take care of your husband and stick to rules. Good luck!

Our visit to Trapeze in FL. Definitely a Sexy crowd every one was HWP as expected from the VIPbliss screening, Although not much happening in the playrooms. Hard to tell the swingers from the non swingers, but according to SDC about 150+ couples signed up for the event. Ran into a few couples that we have talked to in other party's, this was their first time as well. We found the place kinda small, then again it was super packed. The staff was very nice although I think it might have been a bit overwhelming for them as they tried to keep up with the young crowd, and could have used some extra help. The line to get in was large (looked like a Black Friday event LOL), and made us feel a bit uncomfortable. But we talked to a few couples during the wait. A few single guys trying to get in, thinking they can just tag along with a couple and pay at the entrance. Little did they know that tickets were only available on the VIPbliss site. The location is not in the best of neighborhoods that's for sure. Not sure how we feel about the playrooms. The one with the glass facing the dance club was neat. The others are kinda lacking in theme. But it was very clean. Cant say that we see ourselves joining the club. We like the one on one interaction with couples during a private date. But we won't just scratch it off the list. We also enjoyed being part of Trapeze history, as this is the first time it was taken over by a private organization. We didn't play due to that time of the month. But we did get a few offers including a young hot couple that came in with a unicorn. I was ok with my husband playing, but he said we are not going to break one of our rules, we always play together and to never ask that again. So we made some new future connections. We did have a great time after all.

Stop it you guys! You're making me wet! LOL Geez, it's like a porn scene on this thread.... As you may have guessed, I LOVE watching men together, whether I am invited to join or just watch. It's the fascination of not having the same body parts. I can't do the same things they can, so it's interesting and hot as hell!