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I'm right there with you @funcoupledayton, It's called "safer" sex (not "safe" sex) for a reason. Condoms and other safer sex practices minimize risk, not eliminate it, and they need to be used conscientiously and correctly. Will wearing a helmet keep me from breaking an arm in a bike accident? Nope, but I'll still wear one. And I'll use condoms (and use other barriers when negotiated), and change them between partners, and wash my hands, and rinse my mouth, and any number of other things, because I want to protect those I play with as much as I can. I cannot make it perfect, but I'd prefer to know I did my best. FWIW, the risk of transmission for many STI's via oral is much less than that via penetrative sex, and then the risk is often far greater for the penetratee than the penetrator. Finally, not all STI's should be judged the same. HSV? Pretty much a non issue medically. Annoying bumps on your junk. Whoopee. It's the social stigma that is the killer there. HIV? That one's going to have a serious life long health effect for you. Can you guess which of those two diligently using a condom is amazingly effective at protecting against? Yeah, I'll continue to wear one thanks. D

We've been on the road again, scheduled a week of intensive sightseeing in southern Europe and then a week of quiet on a couple of Mediterranean islands. When we got on the ferry after the first week, we were exhausted, and Mrs. E was feeling thoughtful since it's been a hectic few years and this was almost like a second honeymoon time for us. She surprised me talking about how she felt like time was passing and we weren't making enough time for spontaneous fun, and the swinging subject came up again. We've played a few times with another couple over the last year or so, but she still didn't feel independent enough of some of her hangups to move beyond that, and she was finally feeling like she'd escaped the stresses at home. We talked a bit about what she meant, and she protested that she felt like the dresses she brought were a little prudish when all the other women she'd noticed seemed to be wearing almost nothing at all, so I offered to take her shopping when we got into the port. She liked that, and said that she felt like everyone was there looking for sex and that she didn't want to be a wallflower anymore. I asked her if that meant she wanted to pick up a playmate and she wasn't sure, but I was supportive and we encouraged each other to be keep things flirty and light this week. When we went shopping, I picked out a few breezy, see-through, short things for her. That first night she wore some little tunic type of top with a white bra and panties, and at 5'9", it was pretty risque. It barely covered her ass, but it was typical for the women we saw walking around and we went out to hear some music. When she went up to dance, a couple of men got aggressive with their hands, but she connected more with a Finnish woman who initially assumed she was Finnish, too. Both were tall and blond, and I could see them dancing for a while before Mrs. E brought her over to introduce her and have a couple of drinks. The woman was maybe 40, there on her own and very flirtatious, but I could tell it wasn't likely going anywhere. She kept touching Mrs. E's hair and skin and kept giving me compliments, but after they parted ways Mrs. E said the same thing, that she couldn't figure out if something might happen there and had brought her over just to see where it went. I didn't want to press what she'd had in mind, but it was clear that she'd thought about it and was turned on by the woman, and I was really turned on by how bold that was for her and told her so. The week wore on like that, a lot of flirting and groping, and we had a lot of sex between the two of us, but things took a turn on about day 5, when we went sunbathing in the morning. She wore a black bikini and went topless to even out her tan. She's fair skinned but turns a nicely bronzed color when she gets some sun and evening it out was a good idea. We'd only had coffee to start the day, and when the sun got a little higher and it was pushing lunchtime, I got up to go find something for us to drink and by the time I got back, there was already a man there talking to her and she was smiling and chatting back, not really looking up from behind her sunglasses but not hiding her breasts, either. I decided to hold back for a couple of minutes to see what happened, drinking my Coca-Cola at a shaded table, probably fifty feet away. After a minute, her new friend sat down on my chair and she finally around a bit, and saw me at the table. She turned over onto her stomach and I could see they were still talking, and then he said something and put his hand on the small of her back and she started laughing and waved her arm at him to get his off of her. Then took out her phone and seemed to ignore him. I have a fitness tracker that's tied to my phone, and when it went off, I realized she was texting me, but my phone was still in the bag by the chair. The message that scrolled by just said "come back :)". So I did, and when I got there she sat part-way up showing her cleavage and introduced me and told him he was actually in my chair, then smirked to me. "This is D, he says I don't have enough sunscreen on my back and it's almost the sunniest part of the day. He was going to help me with it." D was a little startled and tried to make friendly goodbyes, but I told him it was fine and to help himself to some of our water while I helped her with the sunscreen. We made idle chat about the beach and the island, and Mrs. E was still face-down with her big white sunhat over her head while I was rubbing her back. I couldn't see her expression but could tell from her voice that she was pretty amused. Mrs. E made some comment about all the hard partying on the islands, and I decided to poke her a little, teasing her about being too conservative to ever have a one-night stand. That made her scoff. "You don't know everything", then she turned over, exposing her breasts again. That emboldened D, and he asked her what she had against one-night stands. "Nothing." Then she squeezed her breasts between her arms a little, smiled, and asked if we thought her tan was evening out OK. (It was, and she told me later that she'd noticed D was visibly hard, something I'd missed.) Then she admitted the sun was getting too intense and that we needed to get back to our hotel room. She sat up and put on her bikini top, then smirked at me and mentioned wanting to open the bottle of wine the hotel had left in the room. "Maybe D should come hang out with us?" "Sure." Mrs. E only told me later that she was teasing and didn't think I was going to agree. Apparently she doesn't know everything, either. Either way, Mrs. E had put on a kimono-style coverup and when we got back we sat down on the couch in the front of the room, then things proceeded very quickly. We barely got the wine poured and she was already breathing heavily just from getting nervous, and soon I had her coverup open and her bikini top off again, with her breast in my mouth. With another man watching, it made her blush and laugh and squirm like she was ticklish. Then D kissed her neck from the other side and went for her other breast, and at first she froze up and squealed, then moaned. Soon she had her legs spread and we were probing her with our fingers, while she reached for our cocks. This isn't the first time Mrs. E had serviced two cocks, but it was the first time she'd picked a man up like this and she was really giggly and excited to feel him, especially knowing how horny he was for her. I got my swim trunks off and so did D, and Mrs. E went skiing for a few minutes while we licked and sucked her nipples and fingered her. When D tried to go down on her, she demurred and pushed him back, then leaned to the left and kissed him. I was sitting on her right and leaned back while she kept squeezing my cock, and watched as she kissed his chest but didn't go any further, then rubbed her breasts in his lap. They made out intensely and she got sidetracked from stroking me for a minute, her hand sitting still while their tongues mingled. I had to grab her hand to remind her to keep going, then moved her hand down to my balls and let her tickle them and squeeze them before sitting back again so he could bury his face in her chest. She looked over at me and was smiling ear-to-ear, very pleased with herself, then leaned back my way and ran her tongue around my head while he fingered her. I came first, still leaning back on the couch, when she stopped licking me and looked me in the eyes again. I groaned and she started to laugh around her gasps from the fingerfucking, then the first shot hit her neck and shoulder, the rest squirted all over her hand and wrist. She didn't bother to wipe it off when she sat back up, and then guided D's hand out of her and gave him the same teasing tongue treatment she'd given me. He was slower to finish, maybe more nervous, and the groaning lasted a while. She got down on the floor to jerk him off while on her knees. When he finally shot, she was looking him right in the eyes and his first rope hit her on the neck, too, making her squeak in surprise, something I'd never heard her do before, then kept stroking until he was done and tried to wipe her hands off on her breasts, which just made a mess of her. She was still laughing. There was a moment there where we caught our breath, then she got up quickly and said she needed to wash up. She said goodbye to D, and he took the hint. We both put our swim trunks back on, and after the water was running he thanked me for inviting him over and wrote down his phone number if we wanted to meet again. I looked at the clock after I shut the door, it was about 2:30, and I jumped in the shower with Mrs. E. We shut all the blackout curtains and passed out on the bed, then woke up, made out for half an hour, and I held her arms down over her head and fucked her brains out. She came repeatedly and, very out of character for her, was playful and trying to talk dirty to provoke me about what had just happened. She's not usually the type to talk confidently about sex but she was really laying it on thick about feeling him throb before he came and licking us both off her hands before she showered, smiling as she said it. (I asked her later if she was just teasing, she still refuses to tell me.) I gave it back to her, told her I had his phone number, and when she tried to say something about him fucking her bareback, she just ran out of air and came again. After we were done, it was 7:00 pm. I asked her if she would really want me to text him, and she shook her head and said no. I picked out a black net dress I'd bought for her and she put it on over her black lacy panties and bra, and we went out for dinner, we shared a delicious whole fish while I admired her body. She seemed fine with everything and dinner conversation was light and breezy, no worries about home or anything else. It was a great night, and afterwards I walked her to a cocktail bar I'd seen down a hidden corner, and we started talking about sex again. Something clicked and she asked if I really had D's phone number. He ended up meeting us at the bar an hour later, and we went back to the hotel room and probably destroyed that poor mattress: what started as her giving us both head quickly ended up with me sitting up on the headboard with Mrs. E's face in my lap, squeezing her breasts and rubbing her nipples, while D had her ass in the air pounding away at her from behind (with a condom, of course). We had all had a little bit to drink when we got to the room, and neither of us finished fast and she wasn't smiling and laughing this time. No kissing or eye contact. She was sweating, groaning, and choking on me. When he came hard, she came hard, and feeling her spasm in climax unable to get the noises out around my cock made me cum hard a few moments later. She missed most of my load, distracted by her own orgasm, and ended up drenching my lap in my own cum. She was still staring down, trying to catch her breath and ended up gasping when D pulled his cock out of her. After a couple of minutes she rolled over and kissed his cock and wished him a goodnight. I walked him out and she was out cold when I got back to the bed, I deleted D's number and passed out with her around 1:00 am. We sat down when we got back to Athens a couple of days later to try to post about this, but we gave up and waited until we got home to give her time to collect her thoughts. She was turned on by her own rule-breaking and that second session was her throwing out the rulebook and finishing the job, even if she couldn't look either of us in the eye while she did it. She's not convinced she's ready to do it again, but pretty proud of herself for going that far.

This gets asked fairly often, ten minutes with google will tell you: Using a condom reduces the risk of getting many diseases. That does not mean zero. Pretty much every activity is a risk and we all choose what is worth the risk. We always use condoms and get irritated with couples that at the moment of truth try the "What protection are condoms really? We're fine without them if you are..." after telling us they always use condoms. Our line is pretty simple: we always use condoms and we try to only play with those that always use condoms. We don't (for example) use dental dams when engaging in oral fun. If we had to make a choice between using a dental dam of forgoing oral we would do the later as it reduces the experience enough that it is not worth it. The risk is lower than barebacking but its still a risk that we (and most others) choose to take.

Communication leads to more trust which leads to greater love which finally leads back to better communication. Work on reassuring her that whatever she says is going to be fine...great even. Don't judge or down play or be shocked over anything she may say. Let her know that EVERYTHING is good. Women especially have been taught that they shouldn't talk about sex, especially sex with someone other than their SO. All too often they are labelled as sluts and whores if they have sex with too many people or enjoy it too much. It's a natural obstacle for them (while men are only really allowed to talk about sex in the context of how many and how great it was...double standard for sure). You also need to do the same. Open up and tell her your fantasies and fears, it may help her to do the same. As my signature says 'when you don’t have to lie about sex, you don’t have to lie about anything'.

Hate those vicious circles...like how communication breeds trust which breeds more love that leads to more communication.

Mrs. E has known the woman we play with for 20+ years. She's still not that good of a friend. This isn't an exclusive arrangement.

I experienced this with my wife as well. After several events, she started to open up slowly with my prodding. She had been hesitant to bring up specific things in consideration for my feelings. She assumed if she talked about how good she was fucked, I'd be all butt hurt. Once she knew I was just interested in her pleasure and experience and was OK with it, she got a little better. I think some folks just aren't wired to talk about this stuff.

I once saw a man at a party have penetrative sex with three women in a mattress room. Didn't change condoms. Hope the ladies were good friends, they shared fluids that night.

Amen. I am starting to understand that success breeds confidence, and confidence breeds success. A vicious circle. LOL

Sounds like it is best to stick with our rule of "no friends, no co-workers".

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Hi Gang, We've been in the Lifestyle for going on 5 1/2 years now, and we've played with couples, single females, and single males. We've enjoyed all aspects of these fun times. Lately, I've been feeling more and more excitement and arousal in seeing my wife being fucked by another man. It's been getting more and more interesting, and I have more and more feelings of compersion (and less "hey, I'm left out"). It's totally hot to watch her take another man, revel in the sexual feelings and lose herself in the pleasure he's giving her. Making sounds she has NEVER made with me, and fucking him for HER pleasure, not mine (although it's SOOO hot to watch). I'm not sure what has cause this rather interesting change of arousal and interest patterns, but I wondered if any of you have gone through this as well. No cuckolding here, but just when there's a guy she wants to fuck, I TOTALLY enjoy setting it up for her and watching (and participating) her be completely satisfied. The change from even Steven to loving when she gets it has been totally non-volitional and I wonder if any of you others, male or female, have gone through the same?

Some bareback players tell us that they go bareback with nice people or people they like or trust. Viruses don't use that criteria.

Uh...wow! Great story (especially for D to try and tell as his friends all call him a liar). Thanks for telling us!

We call the men at house parties who go from woman to woman "bumblebees." Lord, I hope that they are changing their condoms!

My answer stays the same: I will add that I think you both need to put swinging on indefinite hold. It sounds like either you and/or your relationship isn't ready for this. It's not a bad thing, just a thing. Some people are just not cut out for this. Either way, it sounds like there are still trust issues that need to be improved upon (not you trusting him but just needing more trust and security in your relationship in general). Talk to him and tell him you BOTH need to take a break. This couple has been a problem since the beginning and you both keep going back to the same well and wonder why the water doesn't taste different. Quit doing the same things but expecting a different outcome.

Having had sex with our long time real friends, I would certainly advice to tread very very carefully - there are no u-turns. We have had difficulty & things have been stressful ever since - however, we are trying to patch things up and hopefully we are on the path to recovery but only time will tell. If we had to do it over again - I would take a different path!

Condoms are extremely useful in the prevention of HIV. They do offer some protection against even skin to skin sti's like HPV and herpes. Saying that condoms are basically useless is misleading. There are research studies that give statistics for reduction of transmission for many diseases. Just because you are not eliminating risk completely doesn't mean you should throw all caution to the wind.

Decisions should not be made while "buzzed".

My ex girlfriend and I had talked about having a threesome with another guy for some time but nothing had happened until one night we decided to take our fantasy further. I had been out on the town with a few of my mates when my girl rang to see when I was coming home. She asked who I was with and when I told her that I was with a guy that she had fantasized about playing with she cheekily asked that I bring him back. I just took it as a joke and left it at that. When I got home a few hours later my girl asked where my friend was; it was only then I knew that she was serious. I asked her if she really wanted to do it and to my surprise she said she was disappointed that he wasn't with me then. I called him up to see if he wanted to come around for a drink, not letting him know what we really wanted. He arrived about half an hour later and came inside. We sat down for the next hour drinking and just talking; when my girlfriend said she was going to have a shower but I knew what she was preparing to do. She came back about 10 minutes later just wearing undies and a t-shirt and I could immediately see him starting to perve on her. She came and sat between us and started kissing me. He just sat there not knowing what was going on as I started to rub her tits. She played with my dick till it was hard and started to suck and lick it. I looked over at him and he said if you two don't stop I will have to play with myself! My gf looked up at him and said that's fine. He took his cock out of his pants and just watched my girl suck my dick as he stroked his. After a few minutes she stopped sucking me and to his surprise leaned over to him and started sucking on his. For a second I was jealous but that quickly changed to turned on as she sucked his cock. She looked so sexy. I got off the couch and laid on my back on the floor. She stopped working him and kneeled over my face doggy and went back to work sucking his dick. She was just oozing with juice, I'd never seen her this wet before. He took his cock out of her mouth and said "I want to eat her", so being the good host I am I took his spot and he took mine licking her lovely tight pussy. She was pretty much begging for dick a few minutes later as he stopped tonguing her. He got back on the couch and just watched as I took it out of her mouth and took her from behind. She told him to get back in front of her so she could suck him while I fucked her. We fucked like this for some time before she turned to me and said "I want his dick in me!" He jumped up and took my spot, sliding his cock into her. I still get hard to this day thinking of her facial expression as he slid it into her. She was bucking back and forth on his cock so hard that he couldn't handle it anymore and took his dick out of her pussy and came hard all over her back. This made her suck my cock like she had never done before, just as I was about to unload she took me out of her mouth and pulled me hard until I came on her face and then took the last few drops into her mouth

Hello all, i been reading this blog for quite a few months and then i have decide to write my short store on my first time in a swing club. Me and my wife are in the late 20s, we had a really good sex life and everything is perfect. As always the idea came up for me doing a three some with some girls and she knows that the idea drives me crazy so she make up some stories when we are about to have sex to make it interesting and hotter. One night we decided to go to the Trappeze in ATl, we got there about 10 pm and when to grab food and start drinking, we didnt talk to anybody and then start dancing, while dancing y play putting the little dress up so everybody can see her ass, that turn us a lot so we decided to go into the play room. At the play room we were really exiting because we never been on a club like this before, but after a lot of drinks she start giving me a blow job in front of a few people in the back bar, i really like it and i did the same to her. Then we went to couples room only and start having sex in a big coach where were probably like 5 more couples, after that i notice that she was holding hands with the girl next to us and then they start kissing, it was super hot and she went down on her and to bo honest it was like a dream come true after that they play a little bit more and the couple left. Then we went to the bar and grabbed a few more drinks and start making love again, then we went to the couples room and the same story happened with a different girl, she was like 40 years but it was hot with nice bubbies. they started kissing and she went down on my wife and then for the first time in my life i saw my wife going down on her, that turns me on incredible, while my wife was giving oral the other buy asked if he can touch my wife, i say yeah i think so but i really never talk to my wife about that, when my wife felt the other guys hand she fells uncomfortable a little and the guy stops and just watched with me the tow girls. after like 10 min they stopped and we went to grab another drink, we were super horny i can see her face that she liked it, we fucked 2 more times same night and call it a night. Next day we talked about that and have sex like crazy and talking about all that happen that night, but then she start felling like if she was doing something wrong i told her it was fine, and we moved up. We talked that we want to go again because it was so hot but that have to wait because she got pregnant that night, we had sex a lot of times that night. I want to bad to back but i know that we have to wait a lot of time. When we have sex she whisper in my ear what happened that night with the girl to turn me on and then we have great sex. thank you for reading and sorry for the bad writing but English is not my first language.

I agree that this is a good time to stop swinging, and focus on saving your marriage. Your trust in him has been broken. That trust needs to be rebuilt, and that takes a little time. He needs to be willing to focus on you two and your relationship.

Here is my two cents and it's not the greatest. Some people, predominantly women (but certainly not limited to) have a very difficult time having unattached sex. Particularly long term with the same partner. Luckily for you, your partner has a similar issue. I say lucky for you as he is obviously still very attached to you. Unfortunately for you, it would appear he is attached to his play partner as well, and she is attached to him as well. Apart from getting over your anger regarding his 'behavior' it would be time to reconnect with him. He is obviously getting something from this relationship. So the question becomes, what is he getting? This is where for me this train of thought derails. I have no definitive answer for you. I think time together without outside partners would be the best course of action. The question is will your SO really do it? How will convince him to willingly do it? To those to questions I unfortunately have no answer. Wishing you the best.

Oh my god, this morning my hubby and I are exhausted, a little hungover, and can't keep our hands off each other. We are officially no longer swinging virgins! So last night we went to Saints and Sinners in Philly. We went with zero expectations other than a fun night of dancing, and a commitment to get out of our shells by having sex with each other in one of the playrooms with others watching (which would be a total first for us both). We figured anything else would be a bonus. After a few drinks and some dancing, we met up with a couple that we had chatted with on sls a few times. The wife and I hit it off right away, and we spent an hour or two talking mixed with some dirty dancing while the boys watched. At one point she comes right out and asks me if we want to head downstairs to one of the playrooms. I didn't hesitate in saying yes ;-) We found a semi-private playroom (closed off, but open door and one open window) and, feeling a bit giggly, settled in. We both stripped off our skimpy clothes and jumped right in to kissing and touching. I loved the difference in our two beautiful bodies (I'm short and very curvy, big booty and 36DDD tits, she was taller, slender, with small perky tits). As the boys watched, she laid me down and licked my pussy. I LOVE my husband's tongue, and the feel of his rough bearded face, but I had forgotten how amazing the soft mouth of a woman feels (although this was our first swinging experience, I have been with women one-on-one, before my husband and I met) My husband began to kiss me and suck my tits while her face was buried in my wet pussy, and then pulled his thick cock out for me to suck while she licked and sucked my clit. As we switched, we kissed and touched some more, and I could taste myself on her tongue. I eagerly put my tongue on her sweet pussy (oh my god I'm going to be so jealous of my husband every time he eats me out now- I totally forgot how fucking spectacular the feel of a pussy under my tongue is!!!) and as I licked, sucked and nibbled, my ass in the air, my husband started to fuck me doggie style. I was so absorbed in eating her out that I didn't even realize my husband came not once, but twice! He said as soon as he saw me start to eat her pussy he exploded. She began to moan and cry out louder and louder, and I felt her cum all over my tongue. Her husband then moved in and started to finger fuck her to make her squirt, and my husband laid me down to lick my pussy and fuck me some more. All this time I can see people out of the corner of my eye, watching, getting turned on. Apparently one couple even came in and sat down for a little bit to get a closer look, but I didn't even notice. Our play finished with her husband fucking her doggie while she leaned over me as my husband ate me out. We were kissing, both each other's mouths and tits, and I worked her swollen clit with my fingers as she was getting fucked. So. Fucking. Hot. After we said our goodbyes, they left the club and hubby and I went back up to the dance floor. It was an all out fuck fest! Everywhere we looked people were sucking cock, eating pussy and fucking. We started making out again, and ended up with my tits in his mouth (my tits are large enough that he can put both nipples in his mouth at once, drives me WILD). We ended up back downstairs again, this time just the two of us, where we fucked some more with others watching, and I finished him (for those counting, that's #3!) in my mouth. After we got home, he couldn't keep his hands off me, talking about how insanely hot our experience was, and he made me cum with his fingers on my g spot and a vibrator on my clit. As soon as we woke up this morning, more fucking- lol I know I keep saying it, but we really can't keep our hands off each other! Last night has lit a fire under our already red-hot sex life and brought us even closer, and we can't wait to do it again

Haven't been logged in for a bit. Made a custom "Attachment" before Christmas. Carved it out of a large candle; One internal G-Spot thingo, & a bit that presses externally. Poured Plaster of Paris around it, then melted it out in the oven making a mould. Got a kilo of nice pink silicone compound to pour in it, but that steps been on hold, too much Teenage activity present for the past few months. Might need to get myself back to that... Cheers.

I made one for my wife for a anniversary surprise. She loves it. I'm working on a 2 person one now. I'm calling it the saddle though.my version of a diy sybian.

Since you built this I think it would be awesome to build a two person unit. One where the girls are both riding it and facing each other and kissing, and pinching, and pulling nips and tits.

Lol, It's mm in my world for building, inches for other things. Took a little while to decide it's dimensions, but just checked... 22" long, 12" high & wide, and we tapered it up to about a 4" radius at the top, not just rounded off in a half circle. Didn't seem right if the sitting bit was too wide. Sounding like Mr GoldCoCouple is on a mission. Can't wait the hear about the results... Cheers. PS, I'm surprised at how quiet it is really.

Good point to mention. Clean forgot all about the "Rubbery Legs" Syndrome, That seems to go hand in hand with riding it. Happens almost all the time.

We have one and we love it. It's a great "ice breaker" - for example, we always take ours to Naughty in N'Awlins and have photos of it on our phone, we'll be chatting with a couple and mention we brought it, and often they will be interested in trying it out with us. We also have a photo of it on our profiles on boards, and have had couples say the wife would really like to try it out. We just had a couple we met online and have played with a couple of times come to the house and we had it as part of our play. The other wife had never ridden one, so she started. We started with her hubby running the controls and my wife and I sucking on her tits and kissing her as he slowly ramped up the speed until she came HARD. Once we all laughed as she collapsed and then got enough strength to get off, my wife got on it, I ran the controls, and the two women made out as my wife rode it, then she gestured and the two guys stood next to her and she took turns sucking our cocks while the other wife sucked her nipples, and it didn't take long for her to cum. One of our favorite times with it was at Naughty in N'Awlins, where we had 3 women playing on it, two women kissing on the woman who was riding while one of the guys ran the controls, then when one would cum they would switch places. I wish I had that on video, one of the hottest things I've ever seen! We do pull it out at home for just the two of us once in a while, but not every week. It's not a toy you can just grab in the heat of the moment! And our den is on another floor from our bedroom, so if we play in the den the Wifey has to have some time before her rubbery legs can make it up the stairs!

Actually you can make a dildo out of food grade silicon and fashion a clit stimulator (bump) as well in the same piece. just make it an overlay and let it thin out on the sides. You could smake the mould for the dildoe from a 7 in (18 cm) vibrator and do quite well. The silicone is easily available.

I doubt if he is cuckold (and I really don't like that word). Cuckold usually has the woman in charge and the man is just along for the ride (with little or no say in what the wife is doing). There usually is some amount of humiliation involved as well. Instead, a Hotwife (or just call it wife sharing) is where the husband enjoys seeing or hearing about his hot wife being shared with another man. I know it's a small difference, but the 'cuckold' title seems to be used way too broadly and (as I said) I just don't like it. My $.02.

Watching my wife with another man during an MFM is wonderful. Watching her arousal, which can be much higher in a group situation, especially if it's with someone she's knows and is comfortable, is fulfilling for me beyond the sexual arousal I feel. Maybe it's simply watching her enjoy herself and feeling a bit of satisfaction in that we are in this situation because of me. Mostly, though, I think it's being deeply in love with her and happy that she's able to do this which she clearly enjoys without fear that I'm going to think less of her for it. I definitely prefer seeing her having sex over another woman.

You hit the nail on the proverbial head for us as to why the MFM threesome works so well for us. It is almost like a euphoric sexual drug for me when I see Mrs being flirty and getting sexual with another guy in front of me. The peak to this sexual high comes when she looks at me and asks me when I am going to join in on the sexual fun with her. She is totally aware of my arousal and really plays to the situation for myself, and the other guy. Totally and very sexually arousing for myself and the other guy when she is sucking his cock while looking at me and she stops just long enough to ask me how much I enjoy seeing her doing what she is doing. No, this is never a cuckolding situation. Nor is it ever a bi-curious or bi-sexual situation. Rather, it is an experience that myself, my wife, and the males we usually play with all enjoy together. As myself and the other male always agree that the Mrs is completely in charge when it comes to play (what she does or does not want based on her mood and arousal at the time), we all feel that it enhances the sexual experience.