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We have played with our first couple for several years and we are still enjoying. I still get a tingle in anticipating seeing them. My husband has told me he enjoys our vacations with them. Our relationship has even grown. In the beginning I was adamant about separate rooms. Now we have even more fun together.

Coincidentally, my husband and I had a related conversation a few days ago. He said that, as much as he enjoyed being with other women, if he could have sex with only one woman he would always choose me. I feel the same way about him. Intimacy is a major contributor to sexual satisfaction, and neither of us could have the same degree of intimacy with a temporary play partner that we have developed with each other over decades. On thee other hand, swinging and hotwifing has exposed me to a wide variety of men of different physical attributes, races, attitudes, and sexual skills. From a purely physical standpoint, I have had mindblowing sex that far exceeds what I get from my husband. I have discovered sexual activities and likes that I can teach my husband. Thus, sex with my husband and sex with other partners are complementary. Having one kind of sex does not mean that I am dissatisfied with the other.

Single professional female (travel for work) looking for a male swing partner (over 45). I am looking to explore the lifestyle.

My first LS experience happened too young for me to even realize it was a LS experience. When I was a teenager, I was allowed to go on a weekend trip with my girlfriend’s family. We were traveling with her parents and were going to visit her cousins who lived in a small coastal town about two hours away. Once we arrived, the parents all sat in the family room drinking wine and catching up while all the kids were left to their own devices. All in all, there were 8 teenagers there between family and friends and we were all in an oversized hot tub. It was extremely loud with 8 of us in there, the jets running and several conversations going on simultaneously. Since we were young and our whole relationship was based on how hot we were for each other, it was barely a surprise when I felt my girlfriend’s hand slide into my trunks; she began to stroke my cock. She continued talking to her cousins and I had to continue to try and respond in the right places when others spoke to me. Since I felt it was a little unfair, I worked my hand into the bottom half of her suit and began to finger her. She smiled at me and continued talking to her cousins. A few minutes later a couple of the other boys were roughhousing and distracting everyone enough that my girlfriend decided to try something more daring. She pulled my cock out of my swim suit unbeknownst to anyone else in the hot tub. She then rose up a bit and sat on my lap. While the boys continued to distract, she pulled the bottom of her suit to the side and stuck my cock in her. We could not actively fuck in this situation as it would have been far too obvious what was going on but she sat on my lap with my cock in her rocking back and forth a little with the jets. Nobody else knew what we were doing and everyone continued to talk normally including my girlfriend who was clearly getting off on doing what we were doing in front of everyone and not getting caught. Eventually she slyly slid off my lap back into her own seat as people started to talk about getting out. I quickly stuffed my dick back into my trunks thankful that I’d been too nervous to cum. I had to wait out the hard-on and exited the tub a few minutes after everyone else. My girlfriend and I never discussed this event afterward. It was not our only LS related experience and I certainly wish I had been in possession of the knowledge I have now back then... Please note that this was a long term relationship and in the attachment, she is 22.[ATTACH=CONFIG]8580[/ATTACH]

So I got into the lifestyle a little over 10 years ago. Before then, I only knew what I read and heard rumors about. At that time I worked with a pretty crazy group of coworkers and we would sometimes talk about it. Someone in the group told me that there was a swinger club in Atlanta. He has never been but he heard it's a lot of fun. He told us you'll have more fun if you're a couple. Within our group was one female, Mary. She was okay looking but very quiet. During one conversation I noticed Mary was listening very closely to the conversation. She never contributed, just listened intensely. I also noticed her nipples got really hard and I think she was rubbing her pussy under the table. Once she immediately got up and went to the bathroom. From that day on my goal was to get her to come home with me after work. Mary was there when the conversation about couples came up. After the group dispersed, I took the opportunity to mention to her that I was traveling to Atlanta to see family and I would love to see the club. To my excitement she said she'll go with me. For the next few days, I had to wear my shirt out at work because every time I saw Mary my dick got hard. When that Friday arrived, we left for Atlanta immediately after work. On the way there, Mary told me she knew a lot about the lifestyle because her parents were swingers and when she got older they didn't hide it from her. She admitted that every time she heard us boys talking about it, she got incredibly horny. The next thing she told me blew me away. She said she's embarrassed to tell me that she's a squirter and it doesn't take much for her to squirt. She admitted she would sometimes feel herself under the table while we're talking. I asked her about the time she ran off to the bathroom and she laughed. She said she was so turned on by the conversation she squirted and had to take her panties off. We first stopped at a hotel near the club to get showered and changed. I was blown away when Mary came out the bathroom. Gone was that quiet, okay looking female. She was gorgeous! She was wearing a see through net top and a semi-see through lace bra. She had a very short tight leather skirt with "hooker" boots. Damn! I told her every guy and female in the club will be all over her. Then she surprised me. She said she only wanted to watch and not participate. It was fine with me because I was nervous anyways. When we got to the club we immediately sat at the bar and drank. There was a bunch of females dancing on stage and porn playing on the TV screens. Other than the porn, it seemed like a regular club. After a while, we noticed a few people kissing and making out. As the night went on, more and more clothing started to come off. We remained in our seat drinking and talking to other couples. At one point Mary tapped me on the shoulder and told me to look. There was a guy next to us getting his dick sucked by two females. I almost came when he came. Mary got up and sat on my lap, which also almost made me cum. She wasn't wearing any panties so she was showing everyone a clear picture of her bald pussy. She whispered to me how wet she was and then guided my hand into her pussy. Yep, she was dripping wet. We heard from a couple earlier that the all nude area was in the back. I told her let's go see what's happening in the back. We went to the lockers and got butt naked, except for a towel. As we walked through the back, people we fucking and sucking everywhere. We were in shock AND getting even more horny. Mary stopped, sat on a chair and said she needed me to eat her pussy right now. We were sitting directly in front of a second bar with a lot of people drinking and talking. We both didn't care. I dive right into that soft wet pussy. It tasted sweeter than sugar. Within 1 minute of me eating her out she scream at the top of her lungs and squirted everywhere. I couldn't believe how much was coming out. She stopped squirting for about 30 seconds and started again- just as intense as the first time. After she finished, with cum juices drinking from my beard I looked at her with a big ass smile. We then noticed everyone at the bar had stopped talking and was enjoying the show. Then they all started to clap. That was only the beginning of a long enjoyable night. I'll give you part 2 later.

Why are you wasting more time on him? What is he giving you, what need is he fulfilling? Why are you even THINKING about doing anything else with him? You are his admission ticket, nothing more. Please, realize that you don't need him, that you are so much more without him than with him. Let it and him go! As I posted (just before this) in another forum about you: ...You and this guy are more f*ck buddies than even FWB...and barely even that. You are just his ticket to getting into someplace that (probably) doesn't allow single guys to go. You are doing the right thing and you will quickly find that you have your pick of almost anyone there. It WILL be okay and you will probably enjoy yourself more since you will be the one making the choices. Embrace your inner unicorn and just go for it. You are the diamond here (rare, beautiful and valuable)... You deserve better that a guy using you as an admission ticket. Stay where you are and you won't find what you deserve...

Long term committed couples. It takes time to develop the STRONG trust required. You and your guy are more f*ck buddies than even FWB...and barely even that. You are just his ticket to getting into someplace that (probably) doesn't allow single guys to go. You are doing the right thing and you will quickly find that you have your pick of almost anyone there. It WILL be okay and you will probably enjoy yourself more since you will be the one making the choices. Embrace your inner unicorn and just go for it. You are the diamond here (rare, beautiful and valuable)...

There is a game called ipassion on the Google play store, you play it together by logging in on your mobile phones, you invite your spouse to the game by email, it's a Mr and Mrs style question and answer game, most of the questions are just about naughty sexy stuff but some are about swinging, it's a good way to get each other revved up while your apart anyway and if it turns the conversation to swinging then it's done what you need. One of the early questions we had was "would you like to try a foursome with another couple?" I answered yes, she answered maybe, we met at home after work and couldn't keep our hands off each other, pretty sure the kids got put to bed early that night lol, it's kinda tame but it was one of the things that nudged the door open for us. A few weeks later we downloaded a new game called "nudge" that's basically a sexual exploration game that ramps up the naughtiness each week and its good because eg one week it might say "she must pick some porn for you to watch together and you have to eat her pussy while she describes what is happening on screen and which bits she finds exciting" because the game is telling her to do it the pressure isn't on you both as to who's idea it was, keep it light hearted and see if you both enjoy it

I think again it is going to go back to you talking to her, just like everyone has said. I would suggest trying to draw it out of her if it is a possibility at all. Draw her out about her fantasies. Most likely she will not on her own suggest anything involving her having sex with another man. Her first thought will be to protect your "manly ego." Of course if you are sharing fantasies you will have an opportunity to share yours. This is where you might suggest that you have a fantasy of seeing her have sex with another man. Of course she is probably going to be incredulous and start talking about you getting jealous if you saw that. Then it is your turn to convince her that you really believe it would turn you on and you wouldn't be jealous. From there talk talk talk and remember, the biggest obstacle you will likely have to overcome is the thought in the back of her mind that you might someday find someone you love more than her and will leave her for them. Only way to overcoming this is to let her know every day that you LOVE HER and that she can TRUST you implicitly. With never a thought in her head that when you come home late from work that you were doing anything besides working. If possible, that is how you convince your wife to try swinging, and there is absolutely NO GUARANTEE that she will try it even then, but who cares, if you do those things you WILL HAVE a great marriage anyway.

If something like this happened once, then it's something that happened once. In a few years, regulars will remember that you have a wild side, but probably won't remember exactly why or believe the story if they hear it. That's not a bad situation, and anybody who gives you grief about it is the problem, not you. Any husband is now envious of your husband, and any wife who doesn't like it is just pissed because their husbands are thinking about you when they screw now. I think you can relax, you're the crown princess of that bar now.

I think if you're that far from speaking openly about this that you're trying to surreptitiously slip her some swinging SPAM, that you should definitely work on communication about sex first. Once the idea is out there, you're going to need to have a lot of pretty frank conversations for this to work.