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One more thing... I want to move to calif. So why fall in love here ? I'm a very sexual women... my shit is going to waste, and I ain't getting any younger. Lol. I would like some passion and caring intimacy... not just bang bang bang from behind.

Not anymore Gold, we met too young. Learned that a relationship based solely on physical attraction lasts for 4 to 5 on-again/off-again difficult years. Very happy with my wife now though!

So I got into the lifestyle a little over 10 years ago. Before then, I only knew what I read and heard rumors about. At that time I worked with a pretty crazy group of coworkers and we would sometimes talk about it. Someone in the group told me that there was a swinger club in Atlanta. He has never been but he heard it's a lot of fun. He told us you'll have more fun if you're a couple. Within our group was one female, Mary. She was okay looking but very quiet. During one conversation I noticed Mary was listening very closely to the conversation. She never contributed, just listened intensely. I also noticed her nipples got really hard and I think she was rubbing her pussy under the table. Once she immediately got up and went to the bathroom. From that day on my goal was to get her to come home with me after work. Mary was there when the conversation about couples came up. After the group dispersed, I took the opportunity to mention to her that I was traveling to Atlanta to see family and I would love to see the club. To my excitement she said she'll go with me. For the next few days, I had to wear my shirt out at work because every time I saw Mary my dick got hard. When that Friday arrived, we left for Atlanta immediately after work. On the way there, Mary told me she knew a lot about the lifestyle because her parents were swingers and when she got older they didn't hide it from her. She admitted that every time she heard us boys talking about it, she got incredibly horny. The next thing she told me blew me away. She said she's embarrassed to tell me that she's a squirter and it doesn't take much for her to squirt. She admitted she would sometimes feel herself under the table while we're talking. I asked her about the time she ran off to the bathroom and she laughed. She said she was so turned on by the conversation she squirted and had to take her panties off. We first stopped at a hotel near the club to get showered and changed. I was blown away when Mary came out the bathroom. Gone was that quiet, okay looking female. She was gorgeous! She was wearing a see through net top and a semi-see through lace bra. She had a very short tight leather skirt with "hooker" boots. Damn! I told her every guy and female in the club will be all over her. Then she surprised me. She said she only wanted to watch and not participate. It was fine with me because I was nervous anyways. When we got to the club we immediately sat at the bar and drank. There was a bunch of females dancing on stage and porn playing on the TV screens. Other than the porn, it seemed like a regular club. After a while, we noticed a few people kissing and making out. As the night went on, more and more clothing started to come off. We remained in our seat drinking and talking to other couples. At one point Mary tapped me on the shoulder and told me to look. There was a guy next to us getting his dick sucked by two females. I almost came when he came. Mary got up and sat on my lap, which also almost made me cum. She wasn't wearing any panties so she was showing everyone a clear picture of her bald pussy. She whispered to me how wet she was and then guided my hand into her pussy. Yep, she was dripping wet. We heard from a couple earlier that the all nude area was in the back. I told her let's go see what's happening in the back. We went to the lockers and got butt naked, except for a towel. As we walked through the back, people we fucking and sucking everywhere. We were in shock AND getting even more horny. Mary stopped, sat on a chair and said she needed me to eat her pussy right now. We were sitting directly in front of a second bar with a lot of people drinking and talking. We both didn't care. I dive right into that soft wet pussy. It tasted sweeter than sugar. Within 1 minute of me eating her out she scream at the top of her lungs and squirted everywhere. I couldn't believe how much was coming out. She stopped squirting for about 30 seconds and started again- just as intense as the first time. After she finished, with cum juices drinking from my beard I looked at her with a big ass smile. We then noticed everyone at the bar had stopped talking and was enjoying the show. Then they all started to clap. That was only the beginning of a long enjoyable night. I'll give you part 2 later.

We are not having luck at the initial meeting...dinner or drinks, and we are typically disinterested after just a bit of conversation. It's just damned difficult to find a 4 way match. We've come to the conclusion that we are just snobs or too damn picky...but why step outside our relationship for playtime with those who are not a good match?

I'd wager a lot of those of us who, in adult life, are this open-minded about sex, had some fairly adventurous experiences in our formative years that we weren't even aware were pushing boundaries. It'd be an interesting topic, I'm sure.

Don't dwell on it, you never know what is going on in their lives that could be causing a delay. If it happens, it happens but don't sit around waiting for it to happen.

...they did.

The sponsor wrote back to me and at first claimed that she sent me an email about the event. I told her we got that, it was a robot email to her website, where I again signed up for her event. Then she sent me a vague email that said that they had undiscloseable criteria with which they select their guests. I get it. We're 59. Blonde, implants, 32, stripper pole, etc. must be their candidate. Not sure about their business model. We would not go to one of their events if they paid us. We are happy to tell anyone that they do not have the courtesy to tell people who signed up and have their banner on their site that they are not invited. Usually we are confident that there are people that we can at least converse with, but maybe they did us a favor.

Yeah, we will see. I have decided to not mention it to either of them again, but if one of them asks I will let my buddy know the exact dates we are going and where we are staying. If he ends up going, I am going to let it flow naturally, stay out of it as much as I can and let what happens happen. We will see!

Thanks again!! It does put me at ease.

I totally agree with GoldCo. You will be writing your own ticket!! Have a great time

I think if you're that far from speaking openly about this that you're trying to surreptitiously slip her some swinging SPAM, that you should definitely work on communication about sex first. Once the idea is out there, you're going to need to have a lot of pretty frank conversations for this to work.

Hey PSU Keep it away from friends - i say this because you felt you needed some advice and that says to myself you don't want any bad feelings or what ever. The best way not to have them is not to do it. maybe later when you have some marriage time under your belt or maybe never. let us know what happens. PS. Married - to the same guy we have talked about before? good one!

There are two schools of thought about this (do a search for 'friends'). Some think that (and it really depends on the person/people) it's okay while others (us included) think that the risks far outweigh the benefits. If anything goes wrong...bad blood, he falls for you, things just go south, are you ready to lose his friendship and for your friends/family to hear about what happened? He also might not be interested when the offer is made. If you are SURE that the friendship is strong enough that bad things won't happen, then it's up to the two (three) of you. Otherwise, with how many guys looking to swing with couples, it's just easier to find someone who doesn't know your friends/family. Either way its up to you, only you know all of the details. We would rather make friends out of swingers than swingers out of friends.