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What sexual or swinging event do you remember constantly? Something so hot, off the wall, or out of character that it is etched in your memory for life. One of mine was at a hockey game with my wife and her friend. My wife was drinking and acting all alpha to her gf. At one point her friend looked at her with a frown and said "You would love to grab a strap on and fuck the hell outta me wouldn't you?" My wife's eyes glazed, "Yes I would". Screw the hockey game, we made a bee line for the toy store.

There's a subtle difference again from hotwife, where there's no humiliation intended but the female takes the lead. This isn't something I get into much detail about on this forum, but in general, Mrs. E has always been the submissive partner. Having a conservative background, it makes it a little easier for her to open up if I take charge and coach her to where she wants to go. Even if she wants to do something, some anxiety will take over about her upbringing and why she shouldn't. It helps a lot to have me there leading her along so it's not all her idea. I know some people raise their hackles about power dynamics in sex, but this has really turned out well during MFM play, as having both me and her friend's husband leading her keeps her mind busy and it's easier for her to relax. Hotwifing/cuckolding is this whole other scary thing where she has to take charge of it all and that's pretty off the wall for her.

Oh, boy. I already posted in the 'fantasies fulfilled' thread, but since this one is open to non-swinging... I'm about 22, I used to fool around with a 30-something latina who hated her live-in boyfriend's guts. She'd drop by my apartment downtown maybe once or twice a week. (Not the most ethical situation, but the guy really was a clown and I didn't give it a second thought, being at an age where I was more than happy to get in wherever I fit in.) One day, she's riding me and when she gets a glimpse out the window, goes "oh, shit". It's a third-floor walkup and she's looking down at her boyfriend on the sidewalk, trying to figure out where she went. This doesn't stop her, she just keeps an eye on him while she keeps working my cock. After she cums, biting her lip and all that, while looking down at him, she gets off, removes the condom, finishes me in her mouth like it's an emergency, spits into my kitchen sink, gets dressed and goes out the back window and down the fire escape to sit in a bar on the other side of the courtyard behind my apartment and text her boyfriend like that's where she's been the whole time. We timed our meetups a little more carefully after that, she finally kicked him out not long after.

The concept is intriguing. No two woman's genitalia and vaginal canal has, however, the same geometry. Unhappily, We-Vibe seems to be available in one size only. My wife tried but it kept falling out.

Absolutely! This is NOT a sign of a loving and trusting relationship and shows that there is a huge lack of communication going on here. This is more of a sign of insecurity and childish behavior on his part. And yet he has no problem with hurting you. When it comes to swinging, just about every guy knows it's the woman who is in control of everything (or at least she should be). The guys are usually just ecstatic that their relationship is great enough that they can be doing this together as a couple. Any man who doesn't feel this way most likely thinks the sun still revolves around him as well. He's a damn lucky guy and needs to be reminded. If he can't play by the rules (and the rules should always be set by the slowest member), then he shouldn't be able to play at all. I'm not trying to be harsh on him, but he needs to realize how fortunate he is to have a woman and a relationship that is traveling down this path. BTW, lustiness is very sexy in a woman. Good luck with your talk and please let us know how things turn out.

I love her taste the morning (or evening after the morning) after too!!!!! We're not swinging (yet? ever?) but this topic is a great one while we're in the heat of the moment, with me cleaning another man's load (or several other mens' loads?) out of we well-serviced pussy. She loves the taste of her own cunt the morning after, and has fantasies of licking my cum out of another woman too. Or another man's cum out of the woman. The taste & thought is ****so*** erotic, for both of us!