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As a woman, a condom does not make a huge difference to me in terms of physical pleasure, but bareback does increase my sense of intimacy and connection to a man when his semen is ejaculated inside me. I do go bareback with very close friends. My husband does lose sensation using even thin condoms. Overall, sex is more pleasurable for both of us bareback, but especially for my husband. However, for the sake of safety we use condoms, except with a few boyfriends whom I know well.

That's pretty much my husband's view in a nutshell. Also like others, he loses sensitivity as he has gotten older and has trouble cumming with a condom, even though we buy the thinnest ones available. As for me, I sometimes have dryness issue when it comes to condoms but not when it's bareback. I know I can always use lube but it just feels more organic and intimate without condoms. And I have to admit, I do like the feeling of a man cumming inside me and cum dripping out.

In terms of stimulation to my cock, there's a lot less when I'm sheathed, so much so that sometimes find it difficult to achieve orgasm. Although when I'm playing with anyone who isn't my wife I almost always use one. (Those times when I'm just not able to come wearing a condom my partners are usually happy to finish me orally or my hand, which is fine with me.) From an erotic/aesthetic perspective, I enjoy semen. I enjoy fucking a pussy that's wet and filled with semen. I like watching it drain from a pussy. And I enjoy cream pies. But this is only with partners I know and whose sexual health I have a high degree of confidence in. It's one of those trade-offs that comes with the lifestyle. I try to make a reasonable rough-and-ready risk analysis.

I'll have to tell my husband that he's nailed #1. I'm sure that will make his day He's already made mine...