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Beauty is only skin deep, but sexiness is something that is projected from deep inside and usually has little to do with beauty.

Reading Chicup's post "Reading between the profile lines..." about V-safe being code of bareback play got me thinking. If a couple/single admits to playing bareback as an option do you avoid them due to STI concerns even if you only play safe? If they allude to it, as described in Chicup's post, do avoid them for the same concerns? Do you bail on a couple that states they play safe in their profile, but when you meet, all of a sudden it is optional? What if it becomes optional after getting to know you better? We have seen a few couple profiles that say they only play bareback, usually due to latex concerns, but I don't usually buy that, since there are condemns that are latex free. We have seen 2-3 more that just state that is how they prefer to play. And we have meet a good many that state they only play safe in their profile, but bring up that bareback is an option once we meet. The vast majority we have met do not use any protection during oral. So where do YOU draw the line?

With the rise of bisexual identity on the rise from people and also from celebrities and from characters on tv and movie also on the rise as well. And with swinging also on the rise as well. Do you think girls/women are more likely become bi? In the past 5 or so years I seen a lot more celebrities come out as bi. Stars like Bella Thorne, Rowan Blanchard, Anna Paquin, Evan Rachel Wood, Kristen Stewart and many. Do you think their influence and the mix with your lifestyle (if they know about it) might affect them later on in life?

OK, me and the wife were discussing this and I just decided to turn it over to outside sources. Basically, I have a fantasy of seeing her getting done by a man with a big penis (around 9" or so, and thick). Her main hang-up is why I would want to see that. Let me state, I am average size, but I do not feel inadequate in any way, I know I satisfy my wife easily. I also realize size is not a major issue for most women (at least from what I have read). I fully admit the size thing is from my fantasy and nowhere else. Basically my question is if this fantasy is uncommon for males? Also what might be the reasons for it (if it is common)?

My wife and I started talking about doing this a few weeks ago. After a ton of research, and some advice from the fine folks in this forum, we decided to set up a couple of online profiles. We considered a club, but we're not really club people. We received several messages within the first 24 hours and began chatting with a few of them. Over the past 4 days, we've really been jiving with one couple in particular, and are meeting them tonight! We're starting with a vanilla dinner, but the build up to this point suggests it may lead to more. We've been flirting...a lot! Neither of us are nervous, and the other couple is excited too! Details to follow!

So a couple we've been chatting with just said they don't do the dinner and drinks thing because it's awkward. And they want us to host. Huge red flag, right? Do they really think we're going to give out our address without even meeting first?

We find that that is the case. We had dinner with long time swinger friends and they find that is the case. We played with them several times and we are not feeling it anymore. My wife says that people are in this for something new.

I agree. It's not new or exciting usually after the third time. It was exciting and new the first time but not mind blowing. The second time was hoping it got better. The third time you realize it's not going to get any better. Time to move on?

She ever done anything like this before? like maybe two or three guys or something similar as a lead up? Not necessarily a gangbang but just multiple guys in one night.

So last night was amazing! We met for dinner and got to know each other a little more. It went well, so they invited us over to their campsite afterward (They had pulled their RV to the next town over attending an event, we grabbed a room). We got back to the campsite and did a shot, and talked for a while. As it turned out, myself and the other couple, all went to the same high school together! He and I, actually hung out once or twice among mutual friends! Anyway, we begin a little heavy petting, and things escalated quickly! We ended up doing a full swap under the stars outside their camper! We had a blast! No fears, nerves, or anything. It was certainly not what we were expecting! It seems to have come very natural for us, and we will be getting with them again soon!

My wife and I are going to try swinging very soon. We are both over 60 and use canes to walk. The canes are due to a neurological condition and do not affect our sexual performance. My wife is great at fellatio and I am good at eating women's out (per my wife and I opinion). Hopefully we will not meet any reistance. We can definitely identifywith your concerns.

That people were more honest with their likes and dislikes.

Yesterday was the first time being with him and other friends out for a night. I know all the warnings about playing with a friend and how there is a possibility that others would find out. My husband said I shouldn't worry. Nobody will know. I swear I felt sick just seeing our friend last night. This is a guy who is always fun to be around, a guy who makes me laugh and enjoy our nights out. He most likely thinks I'm a dud in bed and make fun of me. I was making myself physically sick worrying about seeing him. When we finally got to the bar where our friends were I know I acted differently. I wasn't myself. I know it. I guess everyone noticed I was quiet because my friends were all asking if I was okay. I tried laughing and dancing and being myself. I was lucky that our friend stayed away from me. He was being a sweetie not making it worse for me. Finally he quietly asked if I want to talk. I told him I was fine just not feeling well. He said I'm not acting like myself. About a half hour later he came to me and said we Have to talk. I didn't want to but he insisted we talk. We went out and the first thing he said was he was sorry. I told him I was fine. He then said he would never mention anything about that night. He went on how we are his best friends. He wouldn't do anything to come between us. He was almost crying. So was I. He said nobody in the world would ever know. Just the 3 of us. We talked some more, he gave me a hug and said lets go back to everyone. He did joke like he normally would when he asked if I would blow him before we went back. It was a joke he would normally make. He is such a good friend of ours I don't want it to be a strained thing.