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We started out making sure condoms were used. Neither of us really like them. Then we were with the same couple a few times and only them. We had swapped partners and my husband was pumping the woman bareback but pulled out and shot his cum all over her. I licked it all off her mmmmm! Then her husband started on me after I had sucked him. I could feel him better and after a few strokes he said "I do. I have a condom on is that ok"? I moaned yes as I erupted in my first of many orgasms. His cock was smaller than my husband's so after a few orgasms, I said to him 'do you want to fuck my ass?' I turned over and offered him my other opening. He got so excited he came right then!!! Damn it! I wanted his small cock in my ass. The funny part of this is my husband did not know he had fucked me bareback for weeks. He wanted details and wanted to know if he came inside me. I said no, but later I thought hmmmmm, there was no cum on my bottom? I had cum so many times and was dripping wet anyway, so I think he did shoot some of his juice in me. This turned my husband on even more later and wanted a guy to fuck me until he cums inside me so my husband could eat me then fuck me after. Then it happened. The guy was fucking me hard and fast as my husband was fucking his wife. The idea of know this guy was going at me bareback and my husband is watching made me insane with lust. My husband came in the woman then he moved back and I started to eat the woman's pussy after my husband had filled her with cum all the while the guy was pounding me bareback from behind. Then The guy tensed up and emptied a large amount of cum in my pussy and the woman was cumming while I was lapping her pussy. I kept eating pussy and my husband replaced the guy and started to finger my dripping, cum filled pussy, then he ate me then shoved his hard again cock in my cream pie and came again in about 45 seconds. I mounted the woman so she could eat me and when I did this my husband got down and ate her pussy. But I told my husband he needed to clean my cum off the guy's cock. OMG he stopped licking her pussy and started sucking the guys cock!!! This was hot to watch and he did it long enough for the guy to cum in his mouth! Damn it! What a time for all.

So this entire weekend has turned into one big first experience! Of course, we had the first experience I posted about, but yesterday we met up 2 other couples we found online. No kids this weekend, what else are we supposed to do! The first couple we met for lunch. They are a little younger than us, and also have no experience. They were super nervous, awkward, but a really sweet couple. For my wife and I, we didn't really feel a click with them. The second Saturday couple, was much different. They have a rule, no playing on the first date. Which we were ok with, and may institute ourselves. It made everything very relaxed. We met them for drinks, and chatted with them on the bars patio, because it was a gorgeous August evening, and it was nice and quiet, at least until the dj showed up. We left, and decided to walk the streets for a while and chat some more. All in all, spent about 5 hours with them, and my wife and I really felt a connection with them! We have yet to speak to them since last night, but we think they felt the same way! We were hoping to dip our toes in and test the waters this weekend, but ended up jumping in head first with zero regrets!

Does it matter? I think it's a great fantasy. I frequently asked Mr. A for role reversal. I think it's hot what your wife is asking. Of course, it's up to you to decide if this is beyond your limits. I gather you two are an adventurous couple from your previous posts, so I think you should give it try. Just like Mr. A tells me, I can stop at any time, and so can you. If you try, I think your wife will be much more receptive to your fantasies.

We have been to our fair share of dinners with people who it wasn't going to work with, but we can always find enough in common and to talk about to last the hourish it takes. Even the bad nights we still went out for a nice dinner with our SO. It's a very cheap price to pay to see if there is a connection and SAVES time that so many couples waste with texting and emails for weeks only to finally meet and *poof* nothing. We don't give out our address until we have met several times and feel that we want to welcome them into our personal space.

So last night was amazing! We met for dinner and got to know each other a little more. It went well, so they invited us over to their campsite afterward (They had pulled their RV to the next town over attending an event, we grabbed a room). We got back to the campsite and did a shot, and talked for a while. As it turned out, myself and the other couple, all went to the same high school together! He and I, actually hung out once or twice among mutual friends! Anyway, we begin a little heavy petting, and things escalated quickly! We ended up doing a full swap under the stars outside their camper! We had a blast! No fears, nerves, or anything. It was certainly not what we were expecting! It seems to have come very natural for us, and we will be getting with them again soon!

i love it... it is hot and i come so hard with a finger in my butt

I absolutely love a finger or two, or, better yet, a vibrating dildo, in my anus while my pussy is being fucked or eaten. This is true whether I am with my husband or another partner.

I can't answer about the swapping part only my experience in dating. I have never given a blowjob to anyone wearing a condom. I don't think it has ever been brought up. It is hard enough to make sure it is used during sex. As a matter of fact if we didn't have a condom, oral was all we were going to do before I was on birth control. About guys going down on me, not all guys have done that. Especially when I was younger. I read in another thread about dental dams and I laughed. I used to be afraid that I wasn't clean or smelled like flowers. I would make sure I would wash with sweet smelling soap. It is funny that I had no problem putting something in my mouth and worried about that. If I can take him in my mouth, I am not putting a rubber sheet on me. I enjoy getting oral sex. I have joked about breaking guys jaws and have been very satisfied with just oral. Recently for the first time in my life I went down on a girlfriend. no protection used. It was quite different than giving a blowjob and I think I want to again.

A lot of women and some men that swing claim to be bisexual. The question is how bisexual are they. My wife is very bi she could love a man or a women on the same level. Her bisexuality is not only for the purpose of having sex with another women. Given the hypothetical situation of me not being in the picture she could be happy with a man or a women for her next partner. Me on the other hand call myself a situational bisexual, for lack of a better term. Men do not turn me on, but my wife's enthusiasm to see two men having oral sex does turn me on. I have been known to receive the oral pleasure (from a man) and the reaction from my wife really gets me off. So the question is how bisexual are you? Is it just for sex, could it be more emotional, or is it for the people around you to enjoy?

Single professional female (travel for work) looking for a male swing partner (over 45). I am looking to explore the lifestyle.

With the rise of bisexual identity on the rise from people and also from celebrities and from characters on tv and movie also on the rise as well. And with swinging also on the rise as well. Do you think girls/women are more likely become bi? In the past 5 or so years I seen a lot more celebrities come out as bi. Stars like Bella Thorne, Rowan Blanchard, Anna Paquin, Evan Rachel Wood, Kristen Stewart and many. Do you think their influence and the mix with your lifestyle (if they know about it) might affect them later on in life?

I have set a few up and it is really hard work. I am very protective and it is hard screening guys....sometimes really nice guys just turn into rude asses. I would build up from MFM and add a guy or two or three until you are where you want to be. Most importantly, be safe about this.

First off, welcome to the site, we're happy to have you as a member. I'm sorry it was something bad that brought you here, but you have come to the right place to get safe and sane advice. What you describe is very one-sided, and as already mentioned, that isn't going to end well. I think the starting off with different levels of enthusiasm for it isn't all that uncommon. Through poor choice of playmates or whatever, some people are just slower on hitting their stride and really enjoying themselves, or maybe it's not that at all, they just aren't going to enjoy it period (and that's perfectly ok). What concerns me more though is this has moved well beyond those getting started bumps in the road. This seems to have moved into something where he is using you to get what he wants. What he did at the club was disrespectful and wrong on all counts - it was to you, it was to her, and it was to the other husband. You don't mention anything about any permission being sought from anyone for what happened. It was all about what he wanted. The good thing from a larger perspective is people like that don't last long in swinging. There are rules to this game, and if you don't follow them, you will soon find yourself on the outside looking in. That's the larger perspective, but what is more important is your perspective and what it's doing to you and to the relationship. I agree that it's time for all swinging to come to a total stop, and counseling would be a good idea too. This one area may be his weak point and that's his only shortcoming, but honestly, I doubt it. If he is that way about sex, sooner or later he will be that way about other things. Two years being married really isn't long enough for everything to have shown itself. It would be wise to try to get a handle on those things now and start working on them if you want the relationship to be a long one. If he refuses, then sadly you are in a place where it may be decision time. It's a difficult place to be in, and wishing you the best on getting it worked through.

i had a threesome in a girlfriends pool with her best friend ...the funny part was not knowing when her parents might show up and find us lol

My wife's daughter has had bi-sexual experiences. Not sure if it runs in the family, or just because some people are more sexual than others.

Awesome!! Have fun

Couldn't agree more.

If you're looking for sex without the drama of the guy, or girl, getting attached, then couples are good. Just do a social meet first to make sure one's not dragging the other into it. Before we married my wife used to have sex with married guys for the same reason, they were interested in sex and didn't want to leave their wives, so they served their purpose and didn't brag about it. That was the one thing I insisted on though when we got married, no married guys unless the wife was in on it, and several were. There's too much headache getting involved in a divorce or worse otherwise. Good luck, you got your pick of the bunch. BTW, are you bi? Changes the dynamics some.

I love the terminology as this most fits my Kink also ! "Cockold" has never been a part of my Kink but as with Swinging and Hotwifing the wife is in control of the kink and I assume that is part of what turns all us fellas on to what ever our Kinks maybe ... There is nothing more exciting than being married to a sexually liberated women willing to explore the fullness of her sexual self !

We were already shaving as Nudists. Back before before American Association for Nude Recreation when the national organization was American Sunbathing Association the guys often looked like Chia Pets although many of the ladies had trims for public beach swim wear. I remember one young woman with a sense of humor/style who trimmed her delta to Gull wings up from her clit, shocking back in the days before things like piercing and full shaving were generally accepted at ASA/AANR facilities. WU had her Bikini trim and I started clipping my wild hairs with a scissors. Then we saw a family at Turtle Lake Resort in Michigan where Mom and Dad were as smooth as their pre-adolescent children. I thought they looked great, went with his crew cut so I went smooth fairly early amongst nudists after that and WU gradually got there too. Now I shave everything but eyebrows and forearms.

My wife had asked me what my fantasy was and I told her a 3 sum with 2 girls, never thought much of it after that, her best friend lived in another city and we always had a good time together when we hung out alittle flirting here and there. When I came back from Iraq on leave it was for my wife's birthday and her friends was the next day, we went out and partied and had a good time, me and the wife rented a hotel room and we all went back to the room after bar close, my wife's sister was with and hung out for awhile and finally left. Out of the blue my wife's friend stood up and said "we should have a threesome" I was in shock and my wife was right on top of it. They started making out and I got right into the mix. No better thing then a white guy with 2 sexy black girls. We had a good time and to this day are still really good friends and she is still my wife's best friend. We have had 1 more 3 sum since then with her and those were our only FMF threesomes. We have done MFM twice the first time was ok we were both a bit to drunk but still had a memorable time. I love FMF but think I prefer MFM.

Know that you are not alone. My husband is the same way. He loves giving and receiving oral, and like you, we love sucking a cock together. He also likes anal, receiving a bit more than giving. But he doesn't kiss other men and also not attracted to them other than having sex. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. If you are curious, give it a try. Go as far as you're comfortable. It's just sex. What matters is that you and your partner find it fun and enjoyable. I'll tell you finding another male or couple that enjoy the same thing you do is not easy. From our experience, it's not as difficult to find a guy willing to receive oral sex from another guy, but it gets more difficult if you want to involve anal sex.

We finally had our first full swap last weekend. We had gotten into the lifestyle after I had confessed one night to Tiki that I would enjoy watching another man fuck her. We had started out with that finally this last weekend at hotel party we met up with another couple. I had seen her with another man but she had never seen me with another woman and we were both wondering how she would feel. Turns out she said she loved watching me with another woman and I thoroughly enjoyed watching her get fucked again. Looks like we're hooked!

If you do decide you would like to swing with them even though they are neighbors, then my suggestion is to use the nude swimming as the intro. When we had a pool and hot tub we had a rule of no swimsuits in the hot tub and we liked to swim nude when we could. I told our next door neighbor that we liked to swim nude and I hoped it did not offend them if they happened to see us. They thanked me for my concern and avoided looking over the fence when we were in the pool. If you take this tack then the worst they can do is tell your other neighbors that you swim nude. On the other hand if they are interested, you can invite them for a swim party and after sufficient adult beverages suggest everyone take the suits off and get comfortable. Over time one thing may lead to another.

Inside.

I broke off the engagement with my ex-fiance, but we were still seeing each other and enjoying sex. I started dating another guy, who became my husband. He knew about the ex and the sex and allowed me to keep my boyfriend. Eventually it became an MFM in one place at the same time.

HPV infection of the throat is pretty common. Usually it is asymptomatic, but it can lead to throat cancer. https://www.cdc.gov/cancer/hpv/basic_info/hpv_oropharyngeal.htm

Our first and only at this point was a Mfm with a friend of ours. It wasn't really planed our friend was crashing at our house that night and a few night prior my wife had a dream about us having a threesome with him. Any ways we where drink a few beers and he had a bit before he showed up. We where our side talking and my wife brought up the dream. ( I did warn her that If she brought it up he would more than Likely be down) and he said he was down. This convo took place at midnight. And after more drinks and talking and laying ground work such as rules and my wife making sure she wanted to do this (I was down as well by the by) we set off first to do some trimming then up the stairs to our room. We laid there for a little bit watching tv and the we started messageing her and four play. My wife ask me what she would do and I said I'm going to go down on you why don't you give him a bj. Well tha clothing came off and I was eating her out whille she gave head to our friend. I then percided to penatrat my wife and before long due to the hot situation we where in I came in her. I then pulled out and he moved in to take my place with condom on. He looked at me with the can I put it in your wife look and I gave him the ok. He mounted my wife and she gave me a blow Job to bring me back to life which she did. Now our friend had pulled out and taken off his condom which was a hard rule of no for us. ( we are pro condom unless we really know you and trust you. Know that your fixed and std free then we can talk about bareback and cream pies ) he took off the condom then tried to penetrate my wife which I look at him and said you have to have a condom on. Which then he stoped and put one on and remounted my wife. He was having a really hard time keeping it hard so he really couldn't penetrate her very well. At which time we switched and I went in doggie style and my wife gave him a blow job. Then I guess he got frustrated with the fact that he had whisky dick and went to the guest room whille I finished off my wife with a great orgasm. It was fun but not what we wanted. We wanted to try double penitration and thought it would be more fun. We talked since then and there are some things we still want to do and we did enjoy it but almost wasn't worth it in one since and worth it in others. We are still interested in double pentration and full swap. We've also talked about a gangbang and reverse gangbang. We want to try a fmf and my be a full swap next. We talked a bout doing a swingers Cruz or maybe a hotel take over. Over all our experience was fun. But keep to your rules is all I can say and don't drink to much.

I don't want to discount the dangers in swinging, but through life we do things that are dangerous. I ski. When I ski, I drink heavily and smoke a lot of pot. I am easily the most effed up person on the hill but I am having a blast. I don't hurt anyone and I take responsibility for my own injuries. I have the option of skiing straight, slow, and only on groomed runs. But I wouldn't go skiing. You can take all the danger and fun out of swinging. A dental dam is perfectly safe way to perform cunnilingus. And I can't imagine the feelings of the person you are doing this to. If I remember correctly, about 90% of our immune system is located between our lips and stomach. If your mouth isn't bleeding, you are probably safe enough to eat without fear. If you are too skeeked out, maybe a different hobby?

Mrs. EastInWest prefers it inside and will never ask for it outside, although she doesn't mind a bit. She consistently orgasms when a man orgasms screwing her, and the more she screws, the more she wants to. It's kind of a spiral where once you start, it's going to be increasingly disappointing for her if you don't finish inside her. I enjoy both depending on my mood, but really do love seeing a messy facial/breast shot, whether I'm delivering it or not. The first scenario we ever discussed as a possible swinging-type situation would be her sucking a couple of men off and letting them finish on her face and chest while I kick back with a nice glass of whiskey. That was just dirty bedroom talk but it took a couple of days for her to ask me, in the car, if I would really like it, because she thought she'd been thinking about it and could actually probably get into it.

I find that I really love feeling a man cum inside. I'm pretty tight and sensitive so feeling him swell and then explode with heat is amazing. Personally I hate it on the face. My husband did it once and I felt so disgusting I cried and we didn't have sex for like two days. Though in contrast I love when he decides to cum on my little breasts, he's a heavy enough cummer he pretty much covers them. I've only recently had a man cum in my asshole. I'd done a little anal but my husband had always pulled out and either gone back to my pussy or my breasts. One of my new guys came really deep in my anus and it actually felt really good.

YES YES YES! Age play is my big fetish. There are bad things in my past that I can get a 'do over' with where I am in control. With the school girl fantasy I see it able to go three ways - loss of innocense, school sl-t or bad girl being punished. I am always happy to play any of the them.

Deep Float. Or maybe some kind of non-vanilla ice cream reference. The Banana Split, or something like that. Put a graphic on it: two big bananas in a gooey, anything-but-vanilla sundae.

My husband and I both had bisexual experience before we went out, and shared our Free-Spirit way of living. I am equally into women and men, and my hubby likes a good cock, but has more of the love of good. fit women. In our relationship, we share both sexes without reservation, as there is some getting to know them, usually share with dinner and a pool party at our home. We believe that all humans are innately Bisexual, and as we love to share opposite sex lovers, same sex can also be exciting if you've never experienced it.

We are pretty bi-comfortable especially when it comes to play. The wife likes looking at and playing with women, I like looking at and playing with men. I think we are both pretty comfortable in saying it's the opposite sex that moves us most. Same sex interplay is a bit of icing on a sweet cake.

I have never had any trouble with licking, sucking, tonguing, flavors, juices, touching, being touched, fingering being fingered, toying, etc.. I do not kiss women for kissing sake but I have snowballed for the guys. I love their reaction. Also 69 with other women always seem to drive the guys batty so of course I am up for that as well. I have no problem burying my face in a woman’s v and vice versa when the need arises. Honestly my fav with other women is oiling our breasts, mushing them together and slipping them back and forth (I know goofy but ohhhh so much fun!). More recently I have discovered that I love to grind with another lady in the X position. I also do so love getting my nipples sucked as well as my V, so it doesn’t matter the sex of the mouth, just do it well. I love putting on a show with other ladies to get the guys to do whatever we want. That is almost always my main motivation but as you can see occasionally others take over… :0 I'd do anything my husband wanted to see or be a part of. I have never desired another woman but I have desired p***y, does all this make sense?

That explains the relationship we have with the two guys my wife and I have threesomes with. In both cases they are good friends. The bonus is that they are fun to have sex with too.

Like oral No kissing or anal with another guy.

I prefer in over on: (Mouth or pussy I don't have a preference) If it is on: #1 Breast #2 Stomach #3 Ass. I don't do facials! Hubby likes "in" and "on" he changes it up....

Don't know how bi I would be but I couldn't ever be romantically involved with another dude. Everything else sexually speaking would be good to go tho. Top, bottom, doesn't matter. Just throw everyone in a pile and dive in! So, I'm guessing I'd be an 8 out of 10?

I like the guys to do it where they like since its their orgasm! But I do require condoms for sex so most of it ends up on me!

Back in high school I would skip the gym classes and take swimming as often as they would let me. My senior year I took a lifeguarding class. Teacher would swim out and have to be rescued, when it was my turn I dove in the water and rescued her. As I was pulling her back to the wall I took a few liberties. She just smiled. Fast forward 15 years, we got to my stepsons open house and find out she's still teaching. I fell on the chair when she still remembered my name.

We do not know if we are bi or bi-curious or not. My husband would love to see a cock fucking my pussy while he is sucking my clit and I think he would suck the guy's cock if he slid out of my pussy and into his mouth, and I know he likes the taste of his cum because he always cleans me up after he cums (I think he likes the taste of his cum better then I do). And for me, I do love the taste of my pussy juice a lot. Whenever my husband fingers me he always feeds me my juice from his dripping fingers. I will also make him put his cock in my soaking wet pussy and then suck my juice off of his cock. I just love the taste (I am getting so wet now). I really never had the desire to lick another woman's pussy or suck on her nipples, but we both love watching group sex porn. Another fantasy of my husband's is to have one guy in my ass, one guy in my pussy, and a woman licking my clit. Now I really like the thought of that too except for the thought of her pussy in my face. Would it be rude not to return the favor?

My wife absolutely loves to watch me with a guy, and she has seen me suck cocks, kiss several, and top one of our regular lovers. She will usually lay back and watch us and masturbate while we play...it's pretty hot watching her too...LOL I have met with two of them several times without her and she loves to hear about it later...gets her sooo hot.

Truly bi. Love men and women equally.

mine and my hubby's fave...we both do it ..of course only with our long time couples who are like wise married. My man loves to eat his own or someone elses ..it is all the same to him...hot and erotic... facelick

I saw a listing somewhere on the net for 'hedonistic bi-sexual'. It's definition was that the bi-sex was erotic and enjoyable to the participant(s) but not a total lifestyle regimen. That is what I call myself. I love to watch hubby with another woman and just want to jump in and have some fun. When not in a swinging situation, I don't think that much about being with a woman by myself unless it's the fantasy to surprise hubby when he gets home.

My wife is very bi in a swinging situation, loves the touch and taste of another woman and has had bi experiences with no males present but would never consider another woman for a long term emotional relationship. I am situationally bi and will trade oral with another male while swinging with my wife but would never consider a one-on-one with another guy.

I love it....when the situation is right it is quite erotic. I especially like DP. We haven't been real successful having a DP with another male, but enjoy it with a dildo.

If done properly, I LOVE IT! I must be laying down on my side to get the most pleasure from anal sex. Sometimes I use a dildo first to warm me up, other times when I'm especially horny, my ass hole just opens up quickly for cock.