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So we had our first hall pass experience. A male that is part of a couple and we have played with got a hall pass so he asked if DD could play separately. We discussed it and figured why not. I've been working a ton of hours so they had their encounter while I was at work. Dd took the lead and laid out the plan. She wanted to walk in, bend over the back of the couch, get nailed and leave, no small talk or anything, just sex. Dave (not real name) asked if she could wear a sundress with no panties for the meeting, so DD went and bought one for it. It went well and according to the plan, and both had fun. I was concerned how I would feel about it but I was fine, no negative feelings. Now DD wants to set something up for me, she started trying to pick a woman out for me, luckily I like her taste in women. Lol. Never thought we would end up playing separately; while fun, we both prefer same room full swap since seeing each other have fun is a big part of the fun for us. Just thought I would share a success story as opposed to some of the negative stuff on here sometimes.

My first experience with another man was in our marital bed. At the beginning, my husband was with us, so it was in a sense a shared experience and an extension of our own sex. Later that night, however, he left the two of us alone until the morning. I was in the throes of wild sex at the time and thought nothing of it. In retrospect, perhaps we should have kept the bed reserved as our own special place. To be honest, it does not really bother me. We have had plenty more experiences with others in that bed since then.

We upsized from queen to king to accommodate special friends. Not a problem, although we gave it passing thought at first. Now, not a problem. We have an adjacent bedroom if one couple finishes first or needs privacy and quiet to accomplish something.

Over the past weekend we invited a couple we met at a friend's party to stay with us. My boyfriend had been with her at the party but I never got to be with him. They are from out of state and we had plans to go to NYC and the Jersey shore. Things changed somewhat due to a nasty weekend. This gave us time to have some more time with just them. The fun started pretty much the way I thought. On the second night a suggestion was made that we play in separate rooms. I didn't think my bf would be good with that. Surprise, he was. I ended up in the bedroom with my partner for the night and the door closed. I'm not sure how comfortable I was with it and I also was excited too. I just figured it would be the same as what we did before then he became more romantic with more kissing. Things went much slower with nobody watching. I can't say it was much different than things I had done in my life, it was different than anything I did while swinging. I enjoyed the change. After they left on Monday I asked my boyfriend if things were different when he was alone with her and he said not really. I promised to be truthful and told him that the pace was much different without anyone watching. What have others experienced?

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LOL when did she talk to this man about sex? at work? did you know before hand she was going to ? i think she has done it already now wants him and you for the mfm. to many red flags here man. I know for sure if i can home and told the wife i wanted to do a fmf and that i had already done texting , talking and found out there history in regards to the ls ( which means she is talking to a work fellow about your sex life - did you know ) - i think she would have something to say lol

A bed is a bed.

Hi there, Mr. C and I have discussed this and though it has never happened, the idea is ok because it's convenient. Additionally, in the heat of the moment if we were hosting, it would be petty to say, "No, anywhere but there." But to sit and ponder on it, I'd say I don't necessarily get turned on by it. However, it is just a material thing and to place a weighted value on a bed is just about as empty as placing restrictive value on sex. In a sense that Mr. C and I have had sex a number of places, both with each other and others. The sex with Mr. C in a club or at a party or in the car or the den is just as awesome and valuable to me as it is when we are in the seclusion of our own bed and other people have been on the beds in clubs or at parties. To make it short; it isn't my "go-to" spot, but it also isn't a deal breaker. We also wouldn't be cuddling in our bed with play partners though, so...different discussion there.

We had a some friends that we liked so much we had a years long relationship with them, swapping regularly. But, at the same time, we sought out other couples, and single men for her. It was the best of both worlds.

I know that most people here try to tell stories that are "hot," but once in a while I find one to be romantic or touching. This is one.

I would offer to meet them at a club or meet and greet.

We have played with our first couple for several years and we are still enjoying. I still get a tingle in anticipating seeing them. My husband has told me he enjoys our vacations with them. Our relationship has even grown. In the beginning I was adamant about separate rooms. Now we have even more fun together.

If we 'click' with the other couple, then no. We are looking for FWB so the friends part is important to us. We want to take the time to get to know them first before jumping into bed. The one main couple that we've been 'dating', well we've been dating for over 3 years now. We've gone on vacations together and weekend get-aways. We are careful to keep romantic entanglements separate and have rules to prevent them from happening. This is what works for us and probably doesn't work for some others, but it's all good. If we meet a couple and there isn't a connection, usually we all know it and it ends naturally.

Would I like it - YES Has she done this - YES Was it hot - HELL YES!!! Always was one of her fantasies and she went out and bought a special harness where she can take care of her female partner while I can take her from behind. She also has one of those double vibrating dildos that has a dual clit stimulator. Talk about getting hot. Mr D.

Just bored tonight; thus the topic (certain to draw flames; hopefully not resulting in getting banished). With all the experiences being posted (and some indication that some people have been caught or nearly caught in the act by in-laws), it might be safe to assume that swinging family situations have arisen (a few have been posted). This is merely a hypothetical question (although it would be interesting to hear about any real experiences), so treat it like an unscientific poll. Here's the question: Under the right circumstances, would you ever participate in a swinging experience with a sibling? This might be having merely having sex in the same room (say, two brothers or sisters on vacation having sex with own spouses in same motel room without swapping); it might involve swapping spouses with sibling; it might have been a double-dating experience in which you observe sibling having sex). I guess the truly extreme kinkiness would involve bro & sis swapping partners in same room or even participating in a full swap (I think this is called "incest"). Since most undoubtedly would not consider any of these acts, there's no need to ask about parents/parents-in-law. If a sibling started getting frisky with husband/wife, would it be possible to get caught up in the moment and start fooling around with your spouse in front of your sibling (to the point that it would lead to openly having sex)? Or is this totally off limits? Again, don't waste your time flaming...this is just a curious question regarding the limits to which your swinging would go (realizing the repercussions that might follow at the next holiday gathering). Myself, I would never consider this with brother & his wife...she's a bitchy control-freak and he's annoying enough in real life (and my wife can't stand being around him, much less being intimate with him). Anybody comfortable enough with sibling to get naked and do the nasty in front of them? Or have you heard about anybody who has done this?