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That's another reason to meet. Photos do not capture a persons personality. I've always said that sexy is something that women radiate from inside and have nothing to do with looks. Photos do not capture that either. More than once has a couple that we thought 'ehh' about in pictures have turned out to be 'Oh YEA' in person. Since there is usually no harm, and even in a worst case scenario (and we have had a couple of those) you spend a night out with your SO and have a story to tell the next couple you meet. Take a chance, you never know what you may find.

Our first kind of hall pass, we were in a hotel room with our SM friend we played couple of hours it was very exciting, when he was done he went to he's room he had, me and my wife went at it again because the excitement was very hot, we were talking about it while we were having sex, I asked my wife if she would like to go to he's room and visit him? She was exited about it and I said hi ahead have fun, even though thought of her been with our friend alone was a huge step to take for both of us since we have never done this before, so she went to he's room and had wonderful time hour and half later she came back to our room, I was anxiously waiting for her to tell me all what went down, so she did and turned me on very much so we went at it again, it was kind of bitter sweet though, because I would have loved to be a fly on the wall and watch her having just sex with someone else besides me with comfort and lust, but still was a great time, looking to expand that the next time maybe a overnight hall pass.

I am all in favor of meeting in person. What's the harm? I love when people our age, height, weight, sexual orientation and experience level shoot back an instant response that we're not a match. You never met us, how would you know!

Generally speaking, we like a bed when we're having sex. Then too, we like sex in our pool or hot tub or on our sofa. If we're at our house and it's play time we NEED a bed or a hot tub or a pool deck or a sofa. We're sharing our bodies with our playmates and really don't see how sharing our bed (or hot tub or pool deck or sofa) is in anyway more intimate or special. Its a venue. Mrs Docs only objection is that sometimes, once the party's over, the sheets smell too much of cologne, sex and perfume. On those occasions, she brings clean sheets into our room and we strip and change the bed before we go to sleep. Nothing beats crawling between clean sheets after a satisfying romp with friends.

yeah...also done the never bother to ask thing as well.

I can affirm what GoldCoCouple say. My own wife felt much better when she had a chance to see that swingers really do come in a wide variety of sizes and shapes.

You will learn more in 5 minutes in person than a lifetime of texts and emails. An hour or so for dinner or drinks is (IOHO) is worth the investment. If things aren't going well, one of us will ask the other if they did something before we left. 'Oops, I forgot to do that...sorry we need to go take care of [fill in the blank]'.

Yep been there done that, even worse is showing up for a party at the condo of playmates and having to tell security you only know there first names.

Actually, I've been a little worse. There have been a couple of times that I never asked their name.

Yes, I asked my doc about that and YES. Hormonal changes will grow more boobs - YAY for getting older EDIT - not more boobs - bigger boobs tee hee. Wouldn't want extras, a pair is plenty

If all parties agree on this then I guess it should be ok but you need a lot of trust and know the limits. I had a similar arrangement when my ex-husband would go away on his work trips for 2-3 weeks at a time. I started out just as sleep over but progressed into the handsome young man doing my shopping, picking me up from work, going to the gym and helping with work around the house. As bad as this sounds I use to look forward to the ex-husband going away so I could spend time with the younger guy. Suffice to say our marriage didn't last too long after that. Just be careful where this could lead and don't get too close!