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For me, my most memorable swing event went like this. My wife and I were fairly active in the swing community, and we were contacted by another couple. We went back and forth for a couple of months, they seemed reluctant to meet, I didn’t push - after all, if they’re not ready, they’re just not ready, right? So, finally, they agreed to meet for drinks at a bar. We go over, have a great time, we invite them to our home, they accept. We sit around for over an hour, nothing is happening. I’m trying to make some moves on this sexy lady, but for one reason or another, it’s just not going anywhere. They’re getting ready to leave, the lady gives me a nice and very suggestive kiss as they’re at the door on the way out. I whisper into her ear, “Would you like to come upstairs with me?” To my surprise, she agrees and announces to her husband what she’s going to do. We head up to the master bedroom, go slow for a little while waiting for our spouses, and then when they don’t appear, we make wonderful love for over an hour. (The spouses were doing the same thing downstairs.) We became great friends with this couple, meeting with them often and traveling with them. Fifteen years later, our spouses are out of the picture. (One death, one divorce - not from swinging.) And that wonderful lady is now my girlfriend.

Our firs mfm , she has never been with anyone else over 30 years except me, so meet this gentleman at restaurant week before we we gonna meet again so mrs gets comfortable with him we talk flirt then we go home without anything happening, that was the plan just to get to know one another, week of time they text each other with flirting and some pictures, I had seen in he's profile he's private album he was huge? Big and thick, so when he asked mrs to do you want to see what you be playing with tomorrow night, she said yes, and he sent her a picture so I saw the picture and said to my wife wowww honey he's really big so you know, she didn't think much of it and I let it go, figured she will find out soon, the day came we met at the hotel while we were getting undressed he was also but 15 feet away from us , I was facing my wife, I was asking something to my wife she was answering me then she stopped talking, when I loooked her face impression she was like ? I looked back at our friend he was naked and hard very thick, I knew she was going to enjoy that, especially at some point she took him in her mouth she was full I knew what she was thinking, how am I going to take that in me!! But she gladly did and as our firs ever playing was extremely memorable and success, I didn't think I could possibly top my fantasy with a reality, but happened, yes she was little bruised by it the next few days. But never stopped us keep having fun

Same here. I once suggested (very naively) to a friend, who is the female half of a couple that frequently hosted parties, that it would be a good idea to have those "Hello My Name is ..." sticky tags, and her response was "have you seen the hair shirt on my husband?"

By age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have been infected with genital HPV infection.If you swing you are exposed to hpv.

Here's part 2 of our first adventure at the swingers club. Mary had just finished squirting all over me, the floor, the small table next to me, and the couch. I attempted to dry everything off with our towels but unfortunately our towels were soak as well. Lucky a waitress had stopped to enjoy the show as well and offered to clean up for us. We found our drinks and looked for a place to talk and drink. I wanted to make sure Mary was okay with what had just happened. We went outside near the pool and hot tubs. We sat on an outside cabana with a bed. There were several people in both the pool and hot tubs. Some were just talking while others were playing. We watched the action and talked. Mary said that was the best experience she has ever had. The pleasure of being touched and knowing so many people were watching was so overpowering. She said she felt free. Now she understands why her parents were in the lifestyle. As we continued to talk and drink, we noticed a lot of the people from the bar had followed us outside. They were waiting for us to start playing again. Because we both lost our towels we were both butt naked. Most of them were still masturbating, probably still thinking about what they had just witness. I asked Mary how far she wanted to take this. Mary response was, I'll let you know. She then said, she needed to return a favor to me. She turned around and started to suck my dick. Wow, she can suck dick. She licked everything inch of it and then started to suck my balls. She then shocked me again and deepthroat my dick. I'm not bragging but I don't have a small dick. She swallowed it all the way to my balls. A man closest to us introduced himself as Mike and asked if he could feel Mary's wet pussy. She said please and he began to massage her pussy. She continued to suck my dick and gave out several moans. At that time, several men and females came closer to the table and started to feel her tits and her ass. Mary stuck her ass high into the air. Mike stuck several fingers into her pussy and her moans got louder. Then, suddenly she was squirting again. I couldn't see it but I could hear what sounded like someone spraying a water hose. Mike took his fingers out and allowed the juices to drip onto her back and ass. He then pointed his fingers towards a woman (assume his spouse) behind him. He told her to suck her sweet juices. He placed his fingers into her mouth and she sucked. The sight of all this almost made me cum so I pulled out of Mary's mouth. When Mike turned towards his wife, it gave enough room for another man to sneak in and lick Mary's ass and ass crack. Mary said her legs were weak so she climbed onto the table and turned onto her back. He began to eat her pussy. I slide to the side of the table to drink and watch. Mary instantly had two dicks on both sides of her face. I asked her again if she's okay and she smiled and grabbed one dick by her hand and starting jerking it and she inserted the other into her mouth. Mike came over and started sucking one tit while his partner sucked the other tit. He said something to her and she reached over and started stroking my dick. This continued for about 5 minutes and then the man sucking her pussy took a condom out and began to fuck her. He was very quick. As soon as he pulled out, Mike had a condom on and was fucking her. His partner was going back and forth between sucking Mary's tits and now sucking my dick. Mike fucked Mary for what seemed like a hour. She came several times but not as hard as before. You could tell because as he penetrated her you could hear the splashing sound. He pulled his condom off and came on her tits where his spouse was waiting to lick it up. She missed a spot and I accidentally touched it. Shockingly (because I'm not gay) I was even more turned on and when she returned to my dick with Mike's cum still in her mouth I exploded with cum down her throat. Someone please explain that??? We took a break after that and got some food with Mike and his spouse (never got her name). After eating, we sat in the corner of the club where couples go to be alone. There were already several couples there already making out. We decided we wanted to fuck our spouses in front of the other couples one last time before leaving. We pushed two chairs facing each other and fucked. The females made out with each other during most it. As we drove back to the hotel, we talked about all the fun. We were both very shocked how then turned out. She got horny again and started to masturbate in the car and squirted all over the dash. Luckily it was a small squirt and a rental. Of course we fucked again at the hotel. This was the first of many times swinging in Atlanta - maybe I'll write about those too.

ErikaAndPeter That's what you found after starting lol, 2Nolimit - Same here, i think most find this out if they go into it with loving harts towards each other. Maybe that is the answer to give.

Preamble: Katrina & I have been in the Lifestyle and manage our own club (see our profile for details) for many years now. This is a small part of our journey to becoming full fledged swingers... After some gentle persuasion and encouragement from me, Katrina agreed to take a dip in the 'Lifestyle' pool.* To start it would be just her finding a lover, no wife swapping, no threesomes, no other women involved.* She wanted to be sure it was something she wanted to do and that I would be OK with her being with another man without my involvement.* Katrina was looking to have sex, just sex, with a man and no attachments, no strings, no relationship, she just wanted to have a guy she could fuck then go home.*** Past experience had told her that this was something hard to do.* Most if the men in her previous life wanted more than just sex.* Oh sure they wanted sex, but then, in her experience, they would fall in love or at least lust, and want a relationship. We would start by trolling bars.* We would enter together but she would go sit at the bar by herself and buy her own drinks, at least until some guy would offer to buy her a drink.* I was there to be sure she was safe and to drive since I was not drinking.** This plan had its pitfalls... it is not as easy as you might think for a single women, even one as beautiful as Katrina,*to get picked up in a bar.** After several weeks and a few false starts... Katrina is very picky about who she has sex with and it is amazing how many men in singles bars are married and can't get their dicks out of their pants; Katrina pulled the trigger on a young guy*who needed a ride home.* He just didn't know*he had just climbed*in*an 'E' ticket**ride. Katrina explained my existence as a platonic friend who was willing to look after her and see she got home safely after a night of drinking. * Katrina asked me to drive around a while instead of taking her "love" interest streight home. * He had no problem with it and introduced himself as Stan. *Stan was about 5'11" slim build with long brown hair. *He had a nice tan like someone who worked outside and was clean shaven. *He was wearing a band t-shirt, jeans, and lowrise boots. Having been flirting in the bar while playing pool it seemed fine when they both climbed into the back seat and were making out before we got out of the parking lot. *I started driving around through neighoods then out to some under-developed areas that has streets but no homes or businesses yet. *The sounds of heavy petting were coming from the back seat so I positioned the rearview mirror to get a better look. By now, it had been a maybe 5 minutes, I could see that Katrina already had her top off and Stan was sucking on her tits, alternating between the two and her mouth. *As I watched, while trying to drive, his top came off and Katrina quickly unfashioned his pants pushing them down around his knees. *For his part Stan and removed Katrina's jeans and panties in one quick motion. *At this point Katrina took matters into her hands or her mouth, I should say, giving Stan a very enthusiastic blow-job while he was finger fucking her. *I was getting so turned on watching but needed to stay focused on driving... it was "driving" me nuts! While it was late at night and very little traffic there were some cars. *I don't believe anyone could see into the dark backseat it did add to the excitement. * However, driving around also turned out to be a problem. *By now they wanted to fuck but the backseat was a bit cramped and the movement of the car and the turns were making it hard to get going. *Katrina asked me to find a place to park. I parked the car at a dead end street of an office park yet to be built. *My passengers quickly flipped the back seats down to open up the whole back and got going again. I was still watching via the mirror and occasionally turning my head. * Katrina and Stan were totally nude, on their sides, with her facing away from him. *He was thrusting and she was making that little squeaking noise she makes. *I have learned over time, that sound is what she makes when she is on the road to cumming. They stopped to change positions and Katrina asked me if I wouldn't mind waiting outside. *I stepped out into a light rain but with some relief for my boner. *The side windows were fogged up but I could still see through the front window, just not so well. *After about an half hour the rocking and noises subsided and Stan emerged. * He looked like he had been road hard and put up wet. *A minute or two later Katrina stepped out with her top and jeans. *As they both got dressed Stan kept telling me what a great lady she is. *All I could say was as long as I have known her I always thought so. We took Stan to his apartments and after they made out again for awhile said good night. *We rushed to our home and Katrina could hardly wait to get me into bed. *I was just as impatient having had a rock hard dick while she fucked Stan. *I was having a blue balls moment when I got to enter her and fucked her hard. Next morning, no guilt, no regrets, just plans to do it again, maybe the next day or so. *Once the door was open, Katrina was all on board. ** I realized after writing this that some may not*know what an E ticket was.* Years ago, when you when to Disneyland you*bought different levels of tickets that let you*onto the rides.* The E ticket was the top tier!

Interesting this topic came up. As some of you read in my introduction, I am now a single M.Male back in the lifestyle with my wife's permission. When my wife and I swung several years back we started out with couples. I soon realized that the sight of my wife with another guy distracted my focus from the attention I needed to direct to his wife. It wasn't because I was uncomfortable with my wife screwing another guy, on the contrary, it was because watching my wife with another man seemed to turn me on even more that having another woman. Don't get me wrong, I did encounter wives that I was VERY attracted to and things worked great. BUT, I wanted to see my wife screwing another guy so much that we found MFM situations were actually the best sex for both my wife and I. I never knew I had a cuck side until we got into the lifestyle. Now that I recently got back into the lifestyle as a single M.Male my focus has changed. What I want now is to be that "other" guy for men who love the same thing I did and as a side benefit to explore my bi side. I am not after his wife, honestly, I truly want to see both of these people have great orgasms and I prefer they orgasm before I do because that is how my mind works best. Kind of my reward to myself for doing a good job I guess.

If my husband was texting a playmate a lot and it bothered me, I would tell them. Sounds like fairly standard flirting at this point though. Be clear about what it is that bothers you. Too much texting or too much attention directed to someone who is not you? Do you want to set guidelines about how often they can text or have some block out times when neither of you text others? Open communication is key

"so I have let her enjoy herself". Right there is the difference!! Swingers share as opposed dominating. I don't "let" Mrs Doc do anything. We are a team and equal partners in this hobby. The vast majority of swinging couples we know feel very much the same as we do which tends to eliminate jealousy and macho concerns about being disrespected. You may want to spend some time reading and compare and contrast the clear differences between swinging and BDSM before you jump into the deep end of the swinging pool.