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Yes. Most men do try to please the woman we are with. We get a sense of satisfaction from that. Listening to her is a skill. Having said that. Variety is a big part of the LS. When I was a kid my parents taught me that when someone else is cooking your dinner, you don't say you don't like it. You shut up and eat it. As a result, I found out I like a whole lot of foods I would never have tried otherwise. It's OK to tell a guy what you like, but don't be afraid to let him introduce you to new things. (As long as you are comfortable with them)

I think a better question is why don't you try finding another club? If the club you are going to isn't friendly, find one that is...

SO i have to ask, Have you guys done anything with others? Apart from setting it up there are emotions to deal with as well and safe words i would think when many are involved or even one, So you bring it up and now after years she "needs it"? sounds like she is saying it to for fill your needs, giving that you have not done this before how would she know she "needs it" I'm not tiring to say don't do it - just be careful as i am not 100% sure it's what either of you "need" Good luck and let us know.

That is on DDs list of things to do. We're going to hit a club on a night when they are allowing a large number of single males so she at least has a chance to pick a decent group. While it's not the creampie gangbang that she wants (gotta play as safe as possible so condoms will be used) after watching those Czech movies it will have to suffice for the sake of limiting the risk of std/sti.

As others have said - look after what is bothering her be her emotional (and every thing else) rock, Once you two have over come any body issues or what every it may be then ask one more time if she still says no then fine - not everybody wants to screw others - just be thankful you have a wife that gave it ago and gave you some memories to smile at. Best of luck to both of you.

Your problem, Three Way Pleasure, in not playing close to home. It is a lack of discretion. No matter how strong your yen for this woman might be, it is vital that you don't let it slop over into work. If this is allowed to fester, it is only a matter of time before a stolen-kiss in the break room is interrupted by the boss. You should not even be trading nuances which may seem understandable only by yourselves, but are easily interpreted by others. "To play close to home" is less of a problem than lack of discretion. Playing close to home requires discretion in king-sized portions. If your wife will not consider swinging (away from work) you will experience a myriad of personal problems if you persist to acknowledge your attraction to this other woman. Simply tell the lady and her husband (at the club rather than at work) that y'all have discussed the matter and have decided they are "too close to home." Playing close to home requires much more discretion that you have demonstrated.

Yes, very bad idea to use this particular man. As far as the anxiousness, I was on edge for the two weeks leadin up to our first dabble into the lifestyle, a MFM threesome. I mean up to his arriving at our hotel room door. We sat and talked for a bit. He was experienced in the lifestyle, respectful, and our talking alleviated much of the anxiety. And all of that was gone to be replaced by a great love for my wife as I gave her a gift of another man entering her and seeing her pleasure as they played. It was a most amazing experience, one I am not so patiently waiting to see again.