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Congratulations! Good judgement emerges from unhappy experiences. The lessons of life--and the lifestyle--are often hard-won yet help in so many dimensions. Blessing to you both.

Well, we decided to get back in the saddle. Life is good. Thanks for all the good advice!

Club 51 was purchased by another owner and became Pleasure Palace 51. The club has gone a complete overhaul the last few months. It has became far more active and is currently hosting parties every Saturday night with themed events.

While there can be dangers, we feel secure enough in our relationship that I have been doing this for a few years. Quite early after we started swinging, my husband would leave me alone in the room with the other man after a threesome, letting the two of us play some more. However, more recently, I have traveled alone, even out of town, to meet up with friends. (This is only for men whom I know well. I would never meet a new man alone.)

Our whole outlook changed gradually after we started swinging. Sex didn't always have to be "meaningful", sometimes just fun and sometimes one of us just wanted it….bad. Mrs Doc, over time, became much less embarrassed if the wind blew up her dress and ceased to mind strangers giving her the once over at the local Giant. I discovered that she had a few little kinks that might have taken me years to find on my own if modesty and inhibitions hadn't been blown up by our swinging experiences. Post swinging play by play is another benefit that invariably leads to excellent reclamation sex. Vanilla couples don't have that. Even now, with that damned storm bearing down on us, we've joked that we ought to have planed an Irma Orgy! Damn, too late now!

My husband and I have been together for a long time and have developed a rich and varied sex life. Part of the credit goes to our play partners. Other men have done things to me that have so thrilled me that I have had my husband do them at home. Or they have asked me to make moves on them that I have later tried out on my husband. The same is true for my husband, who has brought back moves from his swinging experiences. Of course, some activities work only with specific partners. Still, our marital sex has definitely benefitted from our extramarital experiences.

Now every time I've watched my wonderful wife having sex with another man, I've been playing with his wife. But, honestly, I've enjoyed watching her/them as much as I've enjoyed his wife. She doesn't want to play anymore but, if she did, I think I'd want to explore threesomes with a guy and us more than couples swap. Enjoying another woman is, of course, great but it was rather distracting too.