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One "no thank you" then no more responses. Our thoughts exactly. However every once in a while it does hurt, but the risk is worth it.

My wife's sexual appetite is fairly steady, and high. What changes is what she desires, like one guy, multiple guys, a woman, a couple. I'm happy just going along for the ride.

We always respond, you never know when you are going to end up meeting someone at a party out in the real world they may be friends of friends it never hurts to be nice. As to people not reading profile of being what we are looking for we each see our self's in our own way so just because someone is not what we are looking for does not mean that they don't see them selfs as what we are looking for. Over the years we have learned that you never know about anyone untill you know them. Sometimes those we though would be hot from their profile or email are not and those who we thought were not turn out to be WOW.

Good for you that you are enjoying a new sexual life. My wife and I have met so many women that have suppressed this curiosity to expand their sexual experiences. Keep on enjoying and exploring new things. If you find you don't like something, cross it off your list.

PeterJ does an excellent job of explaining the distinctions between swinging, hotwifing, and cuckolding. While my husband and I are involved in "traditional" swinging, I am also a hotwife sometimes. He has encouraged me to have sex with other men while he has minimal contact or while he merely watches. I have also had sex with other men alone. In fact, our first lifestyle experience was actually a hotwife experience. Both of us derive emotional pleasure from it. My husband is part of the experience even if he is not there, because he is part of the planning process and I tell him all the details of the encounter at some point afterwards. However, we are not involved in any humiliation or cuckolding.

Phew!!! I was worried that I could be considered a "cuckold" because I encourage my hot wife to enjoy other men. Humiliation is certainly not my thing. I don't understand the feelings, but watching my wife ride and a suck a dick is one of the most exciting experiences of my life. Seeing him turned on by her, she by him, his dick hard, her pussy dripping wet, their guttural moans and dirty talk and then the joyous climax of both. I am SO glad we tried this a few years ago. It's amazing how it's changed our lives.

Only when in Europe at the baths and spas where nudity is common and nonsexual. It's not even considered "adult," there are plenty of families with children there. After a short while, it all seems pretty normal.