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We always politely say no when a couple we aren't interested in messages us. A lot of our messages go unanswered. What is the general opinion...don't respond or nicely say no thank you?

I am curious about what the difference is between hotwifing and cuckolding. I can't seem to find anything that really makes the difference between the two. Is it perhaps that the hotwife is the woman and the cuckold is the man?

Are there new things that you never thought you would enjoy before that you now look forward to doing? And what have new partners done that have turned you off?

Hi everyone! I finally read the post regarding single men and swinging. I definitely want to work on my profile so that any interested couples can get to know me. Is there anything you would like to see or would like me to elaborate on in my profile? I'd love any feedback I can get as long as it's constructive.

Hello Everyone. We are curious about the swinging scene and have discussed exploring it a little bit. We have had friends in the past that were swingers however they were already into it prior to marriage. We both think that the best place to start would be in a club atmosphere where we remain with each other. Neither one of us have a problem having sex in front of others and are very turned on by it. However we both feel that we need to build up a friendship and trust before inviting others to join us. What are your thoughts on this?

We still are relatively new to this. Less than a year. We only played with my college friends. I had no idea that these friends were into this. They live 4 hours from us. I was the one who talked my husband to go and this was before we got married. I kind of cheated with one of my girlfriends before telling him. It was my first time with a girl. I think on our first time he was excited to watch me with her and he got to be with her too. Up to a very recent time nobody near us knew. My husband recently asked if his best friend could know. I was very hesitant and I reluctantly agreed. I am not a pushover though I gave in. He is a great guy and I enjoy being with him socially. I was very passive in our first time with him. My husband and I talked about that after. Forward to this past weekend when we were invited to a football weekend and he came with us. I know it was exciting to him. He asked so many questions on our trip up there. He never even had an idea what he was going to see. Now that he has experienced this he wants to be with us again. It's not that he is annoying but we need our space. Don't want to lose him as a friend either.

I think I finally understand what a hotwife is. I'm wondering if there is something that is similar but applies to the man. Such as "hot husband"?

The hotwife is the woman and the cuckold is the man. There is a situation described as cuckqueen. In my opinion, a hotwife situation is where the man in a married relationship willing shares his wife with other men and the wife is a willing participant. A cuckold is a man who is powerless from keeping other men from having sex with his wife. She may degrade him for not stopping other men from having sex with her. She may enjoy humiliating her husband by having sex with other men in front of him. A cuckqueen is a woman who is humiliated by her husband having sex with other women in front of her or with her knowing about it.

Perhaps. What you're probably not getting from your husband is attention and affection as well as sex. You need to work on that with your husband. Be helpful and understanding and work together. In the meantime, it's between you and your husband whether you and/or he getting sex from others would help or hurt your relationship. Keep an open mind, in my relationships (in a poly family) us having someone else to have sex with during a tiff with another actually helps a lot.

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