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It used to be a thrill being with a new couple, but after doing it for years "new" isn't that exciting anymore. Sure the wife enjoys multiple men, but even that has been done so often, it is just normal sex to her. We used to be in and out of the lifestyle often, just due to boredom with it. For us, it has migrated to being more of a social activity and very little about the sex. If we have sex with others that's cool, but not a high priority. We have always great sex together. So if it is just sex we want, why waste the time and energy to have OK sex with others, when you can stay at home and have great sex?

My wife's sexual appetite is fairly steady, and high. What changes is what she desires, like one guy, multiple guys, a woman, a couple. I'm happy just going along for the ride.

She finally did it! It all began years ago with us sharing rather innocent sexual fantasies with each other which morphed into wife sharing, which really got things heated up for us. Now we did have a good sex life, but we had been married for years coupled with jobs and kids and well you know how it can go. However, with all the wife sharing fantasy talk it was like we rediscovered sex all over again, it was great! Without going into too much detail she was enthralled by the idea of experiencing a larger penis that had some stamina attached to a good guy. Then when she finally realized I was serious about it actually happening. She was both shocked and turned on by the idea of it. So fast forward down the road the road a few months. I had been interviewing a lot of inquiries from one of the sites and found a guy that I thought would be what she wanted. I showed her the pictures that he sent both normal and naughty and she said to set up a meeting. Prior to meeting they texted and talked on the phone and things went really well. So the time came for dinner and we met and had a few drinks. Things were going really well with some flirtation between them so we decided to go outside to the car and have a more in-depth discussion to where we would not raise any eyebrows with our conversation. They both climbed in the back seat and I got in the front as if we were being directed to our respected positions. As it was night we were not worried about anybody observing. So we began talking and I noticed my wife started rubbing his thigh and his crotch. He smiled and leaned over to begin kissing her. That of course really turned her on and she began to take his bulging penis out of his pants. At that point she was pleased to put both hands on it and it still stick out plus feeling it's girth you could see and hear her breathing increase! She was a sight to behold. The kissing began to intensify with her stroking his cock with both of her hands and him pulling her tits out of her blouse. She was on her knees in the backseat and then he reached over to pull her skirt over her back exposing her finally shaped ass. At that point I reached over the seat and began to finger her throbbing wet pussy. She then asked if she could go down on him and without waiting for my reply she began to suck cock. That went on for about an hour when we had to call it a night but not without making plans to meet again at a hotel for the main event. FINALLY, after a long and excruciating few weeks were able to get our schedules to match in order for us to meet at a motel. My wife was very excited as well as I was to be able to witness her forth coming pleasure. He had already gotten the room and called us because we were running late. When we got there she went into the restroom to freshen up and had a brief conversation about my wife and how much we were looking forward to this happening. My wife came out of the bathroom dressed in a short nightie and sat down on the bed beside him and they were all smiles. They begin talking and at that point I excused myself to the restroom and only being in there a moment I opened the door to find them passionately kissing. So I took a seat beside the bed and with feelings of arousal and anxiety watched my wife pull his fully erect penis out of his pants and place her hands one on top of the other with a focused intensity around his thick 7" fully erect penis with all his head and some of his shaft sticking out and saw her begin to orally pleasure him. By the look on his face you could tell he was enjoying it immensely as well as was my wife. Needless to say I was hard as a rock! After about 15 minutes of my wife giving him head she got up on her knees and straddled him gently lowering herself into him while kissing him. You could tell by the look on her face and the sigh that she let out how she enjoyed his entry his depth into untouched areas of her womanhood. At this point he pulled off her short nightie and began squeezing and caressing her 34C tits as she rode him in ways she never road me making sounds as she tried not too while enjoying his manhood! Then at the point when she had tired herself out on riding him, he wrapped his arms around her waist and pulled her down to where her tits were on his chest and began thrusting he engorged dick up into her wet swollen pussy causing her to moan in pleasure with occasional grunts as I watched in disbelief as I saw my wife bent over on top of him being fucked like I've never fucked her by a man with a larger penis than mine that knew how to use it! It was the most incredible thing I had ever seen! As if that wasn't enough.....he turned her over on her back and proceeded to fuck her to her euphoric enjoyment in the traditional missionary position. It was so surreal to watch her clasp onto to him as well observe how much he shook her breasts with his thrusting. After a while he changed positions by laying on his side holding her legs up with her on her back and re-entering her to her undeniable approval. After what seemed like 15 minutes he asked her to bend over and without hesitation she stood up at the edge of the bed arching her sculptured back that tapers down to her waist sticking her oh so perfect ass out for him to grab onto for him to enter deep into her throbbing pussy. Now folks, seeing her ravished in this position was a sight to behold especially when he grabbed her shoulders for her to take the full brunt of his thrusting and that she did! After her legs about gave out she climbed upon the bed onto her knees bending over with him right behind her continuing to deliver her a sexual euphoric experience. This remarkable experience lasted for over and hour and a half and was truly out of this world. Unfortunately, he backed out of wanting a long-term friendship with her due him getting back with the love of his life. So now we're looking for the right guy for her for a long time friendship any advice or suggestions would be welcome.

We disagree! "Playing the game" is much like taking one for the team. Would you suck a dick if the male was bi and you wanted the wife? Mrs Doc has a standard answer to the pre-sex question, "are you bi"?. Her reply is "I'm not, but hubby will eat my share".

I think that personality is the most important for me. Although I am looking for a sex partner, not a friend, and although the guy is obviously most interested in me for sex, it helps if he is respectful and at least a little interested in me as a person. If we happen to share some vanilla interests, for example in music or movies, it can be an icebreaker, so to speak. However, I am not ashamed to say that physical attributes do matter. I prefer good looking, well built guys. And yes, size does matter to me a little. My husband is actually a little above average for an Indian guy, but, all things being equal, I prefer penises that are a couple of inches longer and thicker. The situation often dictates whether a guy is the right fit for me. When planning a playdate (solo with a guy, MFM threesome, or foursome), I will first chat with someone online and then do a meet and greet in a public place. We then have time to see whether our personalities mesh. On the other hand, at a party, physical attributes probably take precedence.

Both. A swinger club should have a hot tub and a pool and showers for people to wash themselves before and after using them.

I think the odds of meeting a heavy stoner in the LS are very slim. Every one we have met so far has been very educated with good hygiene. Like someone mentioned we seen more alcohol addiction then pot heads in our life. From our experience outside of the LS, the aggressive behavior has always been 99% alcohol related. I guess if you were a heavy addicted user like Sun&moon was...we would feel the same way towards it, and wouldn't want anything to do with it. We don't see it as a negative to see "420 friendly" in a profile. Someone mentioned as long as it's not emphasized. Even us as a couple that can partake in 420, we would "not" reach out to a couple that emphasizes the use of it.

PSULioness, nothing wrong with you whatsoever! In fact, non "squirters" are the norm. Nothing wrong with squirters, if that's what you're into. Personally, I'm not. I prefer the natural wetness of a woman when she gets excited. That REALLY turns my crank. In that case, the wetter the better! Sounds like you're one of those. Hot!

I don't know if I have a type I look for. I am not a fan of those big bushy beards. Some guys are so proud of a full thick beard, it doesn't do anything for me. Talking about hair I rather if a guy trims down under too. Not fully shaved either. My husband trims and is shaves his face almost every day. So I would say that way I look for someone like him. In the few times we have done this I never said no to a guy. We have only been with groups where we know a few or all of the people. Personality means plenty too. I am on the small side and smaller guys are fine too.

I thought there was something wrong with me. It looked like everyone on here "squirted" and I was missing something.

We have seen all kinds of activities going on in Rooftop's pool. Even walking around the pool made us both thankful we don't eat with our feet. Cleanliness or an apparent lack thereof is why we've never gone back. On the other hand, we have had wonderful times in the hot tub at DJ's, the one at TPA and the biggest and best we've ever seen in a swingers club, TJ's near Harrisburg. All three of those places are well kept and seemingly very clean. Still, it only takes one guy with a bad case of athletes foot or a sufficient lack of self control to make egg drop soup to ruin your evening.

There are two basic methods to do this. I guess there is no end of ways to get it done as long as one man is in front of the woman and they are facing each other while another man is behind her. The first method would be for one man to lay on his back with the woman on top facing him. After they are engaged in vaginal intercourse she lays over his chest and the second man enters her from behind and engages in anal sex with her. The second most used method would be for one man to be seated and scooted forward toward the edge of the seat and somewhat reclined, the woman straddles him while facing him and they engage in vaginal sex. The second man will move behind her and enter her for anal sex.

In this is the answer to your question, PSULioness. You are young and your friends are young. No surprise that you have never experienced or witnessed a "squirt".

HEDO II in Jamaica has a huge pool and hot tub. They clean it regularity. Never heard of any issues, and there have been thousands of people through there.

I replied to this question on another thread "Help me settle an argument"... OK, I've stayed out of this for good reasons, I don't want to offend anyone or cause an uproar but here goes...squirting is urine! And there's nothing wrong with that! In an albeit small study out of France, this was determined to be the case. Check where the fluid is coming from...the urethra (urine). It is a well known fact that women can have some level of incontinence as they age. Orgasms will naturally increase the odds of "squirting" as control is lost. I am not trying to pass judgement here, only trying to clear up a misunderstanding. I know I will receive flack for this post and some will respond to the contrary, but I will go with the medical evidence available. By the way, my first wife was a "squirter", and it didn't take long to determine what the fluid was and where it was coming from. There's my opinion (for what it's worth).

We both love cum! My husband loves it when a guy fills my pussy with his cum then eats me. He also likes to suck cock and get cum in his mouth from a guy. I love licking pussy a lot and love licking my husband's cum out of another woman.

I have to agree with njbm. Once there is a lack of excitement, it's best to put it on hold. Even group sex can become monotonous. I was guilty of overloading us, instead of letting the excitement build. The result was what I thought was impossible, burnout.

Doesn't everyone's interest wax and wane? After a few bad experiences, a few rejections, etc., everyone has to wonder if it's worth the trouble.

I don't know about others but my wife was the same way. Our first time was when a couple seduced us. My wife had been attracted to the husband for some time and she was with him before his wife and I joined. In other words, her idea. Later she said she was drunk. OK? After that we swapped with four other couples over a two year period until she said she just didn't want to do it anymore. Then about 20 years later we delved again and she enjoyed it but, again, after a year or two she lost interest again.

In one class in high school we had assigned seats and I was put in the very last row (given a choice, I was a first or second row girl). Next to me was Mark, and directly in front of him was Cathy. All year Cathy would turn around and place her large breasts on Mark's desk, often on his hands. He would always politely pull away, until once near the end of the year when he just kept them there. After that I saw several times where he had his hands forward, she turned around and placed her tits on top, and he would feel as much as they dared. They became a couple and the classroom play stopped.

We had a good time with them Saturday, and we will see this couple on a regular basis! I took things a little too fast with her. It turns out she is super sensitive, and I got her off too many times, too fast. So she and I, never actually got to intercourse, but a great time nonetheless, and a learning experience for me for the next time. My wife is not so sensitive, so I can play with her for hours and never get her off. As a couple who has been together as long as we have, it's all I know! He took my wife to the bedroom, and it went well. She told me they had multiple positions. She can be vocal, so I know he was pleasing her! This lifestyle has not only reignited our sex life, but has almost given us a new lease on life in general. So far, it's been very positive, and refreshing. We are looking forward to continuing our journey! Thanks again to all for the advice we've received from you folks in this forum. It's not a decision we took lightly, and as you already know, once we pulled the trigger, we dove straight in!

The same girlfriend from my original post had what I like to think of as a naughty streak. I’d never thought about it until now but most of the women I’ve been sexually intrigued with have had some element of this. I think I have a lot more LS related stories than I thought, I’d just never had the proper terminology to classify them as such. The GF from the original post was in touch with her naughty streak early. 1 - Early in the relationship, when we were teenagers, we’d sometimes go on road trips with my parents in their stationwagon. Safety regulations weren’t what they are today so seatbelts were optional. When she was “tired” my girlfriend would lay down across the backseat with her head on my thigh. While my parents drove on completely oblivious, my girlfriend would stroke my cock through my jeans until I forced her to stop so I wouldn’t cum. After she did this a couple of times, I learned to wear shorts in the car if it was even remotely warm and we were going to be on the road awhile. 2 – One night we were out with her friend Nancy third wheeling. I was 16 and they were both 15 at the time. A friend of mine was out of town and had given me the keys to his parents’ house in case my GF and I wanted to make use of the place. The three of us headed over there with a little pot and some wine coolers (we were teenagers). After we’d all indulged a bit, listened to some records and talked for awhile, Nancy jokingly brought up playing strip poker. She believed my GF and I to be much more sexually innocent than we were so she was taken aback when my GF said “okay” and looked at me. I, of course, said it sounded good to me. Nancy was not as voluptuous as my GF but was cute and had a nice figure. Nobody backed down and we played. After a few hands, my GF was down to her bra and panties, I was down to my underwear and Nancy still had on her bra, skirt and panties. I lost the next hand and was the first nude player. Due to the situation and being 16, I was fully erect. I’m not sure that Nancy had ever seen a real live penis before, she kept stealing glances at my cock. Fortunately for me, my GF’s naughty streak kicked in and she dealt another hand. Nancy lost and removed her skirt, she was in a white bra and panties and looked a little uncomfortable for the first time. My GF lost the next hand and removed her bra. Nancy looked at me and then at my GF’s breasts smiling. My GF’s breasts, full 34C’s, were much larger than Nancy’s with fairly large areolas and very small nipples. Nancy lost the next hand and, blushing, removed her bra. Her breasts were creamy white like the rest of her skin, they were smaller b-cups and she had pert, pink nipples that were fully erect. I must’ve looked as if I were watching tennis looking at the girls’ breasts. We were playing on the carpeted floor of an upstairs loft with throw pillows, I laid back on some pillows making it easy for the girls to watch me as I watched them. My GF lost the next hand and removed her panties. Nancy and I looked at her soft bush as she laid down on her side with her arm propping up her head, letting us take in her stunning body. I dealt another hand to the girls; to my surprise, they played it out and Nancy lost! She removed her panties seeming hugely embarrassed. Her bush was smaller than my GF’s and her skin was so milky white I couldn’t take my eyes off her. She curled up covering herself as best she could. “Your girlfriend is naked right over there!” she said gesturing to try and take attention away from herself. I put my hand on her knee and pushed outward a bit. Nancy sat back in a crouched position and let us look at her pussy. Not to be outdone, my GF rose to a similar position. The three of us sat there, nude and fully displayed for each other. Nancy was dividing her viewing equally between my GF and I. My GF scooted closer to me so that our legs were touching. “I’d better leave you two alone” Nancy said as she quickly gathered her clothes and walked downstairs bare-assed. We heard her turn the TV on, she had left the door open at the bottom of the stairs. My GF and I stayed up there for awhile with a lot of foreplay leading to short sex. Nancy never came back upstairs and we never called her up. About a year later, during one of the many off-again periods with my GF, Nancy and I spent a pleasant afternoon together culminating in a 69. A year or so later, she began to explore her bisexual side and I realized how much more interesting strip poker night could have been had I been experienced enough to read the obvious signs. This was the only time I recall my GF seeming open to a bisexual experience or at least the only situation we were ever in where it seemed realistic that it could happen. 3 – My GF and I spent one very uncomfortable night with her best friend Katie and their gay friend Martin. Katie and Martin had left us at Katie’s parents’ house alone while they walked to the store to find someone to buy beer. About forty-five minutes later, they came back empty handed and laughing. My GF and I didn’t think much of the laughing since we’d all smoked pot before they left. Eventually Katie told us that they’d never actually left, just snuck outside and watched us through the cracks in Katie’s bedroom window curtain on the side of the house. They saw us blush and said they were kidding that there was just nobody around to buy beer but we never knew for sure. If they weren’t kidding, what they saw in some capacity was me pulling up my GF’s shirt and sucking her tits while I reached up her skirt, pulled off her panties and began fingering her hard. Then they would have seen her get up, panties around one ankle and in a mini-skirt, pull out my cock and give me head in a crouched position until I came in her mouth. We’d cleaned up and re-arranged ourselves about ten minutes before they’d returned.

So this entire weekend has turned into one big first experience! Of course, we had the first experience I posted about, but yesterday we met up 2 other couples we found online. No kids this weekend, what else are we supposed to do! The first couple we met for lunch. They are a little younger than us, and also have no experience. They were super nervous, awkward, but a really sweet couple. For my wife and I, we didn't really feel a click with them. The second Saturday couple, was much different. They have a rule, no playing on the first date. Which we were ok with, and may institute ourselves. It made everything very relaxed. We met them for drinks, and chatted with them on the bars patio, because it was a gorgeous August evening, and it was nice and quiet, at least until the dj showed up. We left, and decided to walk the streets for a while and chat some more. All in all, spent about 5 hours with them, and my wife and I really felt a connection with them! We have yet to speak to them since last night, but we think they felt the same way! We were hoping to dip our toes in and test the waters this weekend, but ended up jumping in head first with zero regrets!