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This was me, the male. We were doing 69 and I threw it out there that I'd like to see her on her knees sucking another man's cock. We talked about it a little until I came, and then it didn't come up for a few days. Then we're pulling back into the driveway after getting groceries, and she asks me if I was serious or if that was just something I said during sex. I told I was pretty serious, and she seemed thoughtful and said she might be into that at some point. It took a couple years to get there, but we got there.

I am curious about what the difference is between hotwifing and cuckolding. I can't seem to find anything that really makes the difference between the two. Is it perhaps that the hotwife is the woman and the cuckold is the man?

Hello, first post here. My wife and I have had a few MMF threesomes. I am bi (very masculine) and she is bi curious. I love oral both getting and giving. Her and I love to share a cock to suck, it's hot! I have never topped or bottomed yet, but it is on the list. I love women and am not attracted to men. I mean, I can't look at a guy and say "wow, would love to cuddle with him". Before I was with my wife, I had a few male encounters but absolutely no one knew. I would be petrified if someone found out. Guess it was my insecurities. When I met my wife and found out she loved gay porn, I was very happy. One day after porn and sex, she asked me if I ever sucked a cock. I was honest and told her yes. Well, the rest is history and we have lots of fun. My question is, how far do guys like me go? I don't think I could kiss a man, although, I could kiss a passable CD, if he looks like a hot women or a hot shemale. When with a man, I can rub his cock, balls and area around there, but don't have the urge to rub him all over or kiss up and down his body. I do however have the urge sometimes to try all that, but am afraid for some reason. I fantasize about rimming sometimes, I lick my wife's ass and love it, but have a fear of doing it. Anyone else feel like this? I know, don't knock it till ya try it. Wondering if my masculinity is holding me back and I just need to step up to the plate and try it? Best cause scenario I believe would to be one on one with a guy to try things. Sorry for the long rant. Thanks for any help

Just had my first foray into this. I've been thinking about it more the last couple of years as I've let my mind open up about sexuality. Actually my best friend and I were talking a few years ago. He said that he wouldn't be opposed to letting a dude suck his cock. His reasoning was if girls know what girls like then a bi guy should know what a guy liked. I guess I kind of tucked that away for a while and then it came back when an ex GF once mentioned that she liked gay erotica. I guess I started thinking about it more, started watching some homoerotic stuff, pretty tame actually. Just recently I had the opportunity to play with a couple that had a bi guy. I had told them I wasn't opposed to any sword crossing and might be down for more if the situation was right. Well, it was right. The three of us were playing, he was fucking her in a scissor type position where she could suck me as I was standing. He leaned over to kiss her and really, I think, to get closer to me. She pulls my cock out of her mouth and he sucked it a little. It was fucking hot. We eventually got in reversed positions so I was able to return the favor. Not bad. I'd say it's not something I would seek out alone. Having her there as the buffer was nice and made it easy to fall back to focusing on her( We ended up fucking her in multiple DP positions, all three holes) but the eroticism of it was really a turn on and I'm glad I gave it a try. Might be down for some more next time but some light oral is probably about as far as I'm ready to go at this point. Now if she wanted to force him down on me that might be hot too. Again, I think for me having her there was an important component to it being a turn-on. She was enjoying it too and that's really what it was about.

Nice problem to have.

If you have limits, it is always good to discuss them in advance. As stated, if people know that you are a newbie, they will hopefully treat you with kindness. We met great people in the beginning, nothing terrible ever happened to us, have fun!

I was 17. My girlfriend was too and she had a female cousin of the same age. We went to her large Polish family home for easter weekend. The house was crowded so the girls were assigned a bedroom with a double bed which they were to share. Wonder of wonders (and the parents vodka) the boyfriends were told they could sleep on the floor in the room with the girls. The girls got changed in the bathroom and the other guy and I both rolled out sleeping bags. We had decided to wear our underwear and were in the bags when the girls came in wearing robes. My girl shut off the light but there was enough residual light from the window and the crack under the bedroom door that we could see that both girls were wearing long t-shirts and panties. The girls got under the covers and we four continued some of the conversation we had prior to going to bed. We also shared some of the vodka we managed to liberate from the adult party. After a bit, it got kind of quiet in the room and I know that my hand had traveled under the covers and up my girls thigh and under the t-shirt (That's how I knew there were panties involved). She and I whispered a bit and I got on my knees so I could involve both hands and lean in to kiss her. We started to make out and I eventually worked the covers off and the t-shirt up. As I looked across the bed, I could see that her cousin had lost her shirt completely. Her guy was standing next to the bed fondling her tit's which I was seeing for the first time. Her boyfriend was naked and she was stroking his cock. I whispered to Chris, my girlfriend, "look at Nancy and Rick". She gasped but then turned on her side to get a closer look at the 2nd dick she'd ever seen. I stood up and began to rub her ass and finally worked her t-shirt off. I tried to climb in the bed but she hissed "no, mom and dad are right below us". I then worked my hand under the waist band of her panties. She moaned before I got below her pubic hair, only the 2nd time ever, and when I looked up, Rick had his hand on her boob and his dick in Nancy's mouth. Chris eventually rolled on her back and I got her panties partway down her thighs. Her hand went to my crotch and she yanked at my underwear saying, "take these off"!!. I did and she started to stroke me as I gently found her clit. I couldn't take much more stimulation and leaned over the bed to put my dick to her lips. As I did, Rick moaned loudly and came in Linda's mouth. I guess she swallowed because she then rolled on her other side facing us as Rick leaned up against her and played with her ass. She said "Chrissy, let me watch you". I couldn't resist leaning over a bit more and touching her tits as I did, she pushed her ass back towards Rick who I think must have been fingering her. Chris gave me a little suck and about three strokes and that was it. I grunted and came, squirting on her hand the side of her face and almost to Nancy's boob. Nancy said, "Chrissy, you should have swallowed, now we'll have to sleep with all this goop between us". Chris made me clothes on and go down the hall to the bathroom for toilet paper to clean up my mess. When I got back, both girls were dressed and Rick was back in his sleeping bag. That never happened again, Chris never wanted to talk about it and about 6 months later we broke up and I went into the service. My next experience didn't happen for another decade.

My wife has no issue with a woman performing oral on her, but unlikely to return the favor. It has never been a problem. With anything in the lifestyle, you should never feel pressured into doing something your not 100% comfortable with. If someone does something without asking and your not comfortable, stop them right there and then.

No, allowing someone to pleasure you orally does not automatically mean you're willing to do the same to them. Many times a woman approached my wife, kissed her, fondled her, even gave her head. Except for one time, my wife never reciprocated, and no hard feelings ever resulted. Go, have fun, do what you wish to.

Thanks for the replies, everyone! Yep, I have come to the same conclusion. Gangbangs are not what I like. Now if it were someone I had known for a while and played with before then I think I could get into it. The whole atmosphere really got to me as well. Let's have fun! Laugh, dammit! This isn't a solemn religious rite we are doing here. We are getting slippery and shoving our parts into other peoples parts. Lighten up! I knew exactly what I needed to get going but sadly it was the exact antithesis of the event. Kinda hard to ask the other guys if they would mind sitting out for a while while I got some one-on-one time in. Nope, not happening. This would have been my second mediocre hookup in a week where I figured out specifically what I like. The first was with an extreme sub who was morally opposed to safewords. Yeah. I should type that one up but I'm not sure it fits with the theme of this site.

Discuss risks: Check! Decide on safer sex practices: Check! Get tested regularly: Check! Get treated if necessary: Haven't needed to so far, but my Doctor is on speed dial, just in case So, we're good. My thoughts: All of the STIs in that list are all treatable (well Gonorrhoea is getting harder to treat, but still is), so the only reason that the numbers are on the rise is that folks don't know they are infected which means they are not getting tested and treated. Safer sex protocols help cut down transmission rates, but the only real way to stop the spread is to identify and treat those infected. D Edit to add: The first comment on that story though. Geez, whacks forehead never read the comments.

Love when I get to join a couple who is totally open and sharing like this. So many things we can enjoy together.

First of all, while I don't know about anyone else, I'm willing to give ANY woman a pass the first time they 'cheat' with another woman (as long as she tells me about it later). As for your husbands friend. Other than saying this is one of the reasons we don't recommend bringing in friends (most of the time they are just not ready for this type of relationship), your husband needs to let him know the ground rules. Rule one is: everything is the same as before and the two of you will let him know when (if) anything else will happen again. If he wants to act differently, then he will fid himself being left out of more and more activities. You and your husband have the relationship, he is just (for lack of a better word) a sex toy for the bedroom. If he can't accept that, then you can always find another toy. This may all be new and exciting to him, but this isn't about him.

Cuckolding almost always involves humiliation of the husband. Hotwife may or may not involve humiliation of the husband. Minor difference but until stag and vixen becomes a more recognized term hotwife covers everything that involves the wife having sex with another man while the husband usually doesn't if he likes it or not.

My wife Laura and I are attracted to couples and guys that are muscular, tan (prefer all over), smooth and not afraid to try new things and like group play (gee, sounds like me she says). Masculine, Feminine, we are both, you know yin-yang. I can take a guy and turn right around and be the bottom while my wife watches, films or joins in.

I think I'm situational bisexual. I love the taste of cum and I love sucking cock, however it only turns me on when a woman is involved.

Even though two couples are 'involved' with each other doesn't mean that they are really involved with each other (especially the every day life things). Could be anything that caused them to take a break (or even leave). As pointed out it could be anything from illness or surgery to problems in their relationship to them just not wanting to do it anymore. They may come back...they may not, but as always you should wish them the best and let them know that you are there if they need any assistance...but then give them the space that they have requested. Enjoy the moments as they happen and only look back to revisit fond memories.

It's not uncommon. Sometimes life just gets in the way but sometimes underlying reasons are the cause. Knowing the reason may not help, and the wife may not want to discuss that. She may not even know why the drive is gone. When my wife wanted to quit, I just said ok and that was that. I figured if she wanted me to know why, she'd tell me.

We had been married about four years when we were seduced by another couple we had known for several years. I knew that my wife had liked, and maybe even had a crush, on the other husband all along so it was pretty easy for him to seduce her. I liked the other wife and she and I both had no problem with our spouses enjoying each other. After that, we swapped with four others, all were friends first. After our last time, probably three years later, for no particular reason, my wife told be that she just wasn't interested in doing these things anymore. I was disappointed but respected her decision and wedid quit. About twenty years later her interest seemed to return and we had a few more years of, mostly soft-wing, adventures. She sort of just lost interest again and that was the end. I hope that gives you some insight to what might be happening with your wife. Sometimes, some folks, find it exciting enough to give it a try but not enough to continue. And, of course, it also could be that she was just trying it for you.

If your wife understood your concern and agreed to do better in the future, let it go and move on. You may make a boo-boo at a later date and you will appreciate your wife's forgiveness!

First, I see you are new to Swingersboard so I want to extend a hearty I want to say as well that I send my best wishes that this not strain your relationship. Third, I will tell you that there was a point in "our" swing journey that I was very envious of my wife's success in attracting attention while I was attracting no attention. To make a long story short, we eventually abandoned the same-room rule and decided that the idea of house parties, anyway, was to be able to separate and have our own fun. The same room rule still exists for us when having two-on-two meetings. Wishing you the best.