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Velma of Scooby-Doo fame. I’d love to pull that turtle-neck right over her head.

Im by nature, training and experience a very suspicious man. Have you considered that this guy is not some kind of perv but instead a criminal. I wonder if his "wife" is a willing participant or if she has been coerced in to helping him recruite your wife. Taking pictures and then using them as blackmail is a BIG tool in the process. You should immediately (TODAY) contact the police department's sex crimes unit and then follow their instructions. Do NOT allow your wife anywhere near those two ever again and if one or the other or both show up at your house, call the cops. This sounds to me like either prostitution or the tip of the iceberg with a human trafficking ring. Protect your wife!

My biggest fantasy has always been having a woman using a strap-on on me. Am I the only male who wants this?

I have a slightly different perspective from being in a poly family, two guys and three women, who are joined by another guy sometimes to play. This is about how often within our closed group, not with new partners. All three girls will take anal from two of the guys; hubby doesn't like it and his dick's too big around (for my bum anyway). We women do anal about once per week and DP about once per month. Lora and Clair enjoy and can come from anal alone; I can't, it has to be part of DP to get me off. The other thing is that although none of us are shy and will lick a dick or each other's pussy after sex, once a guy puts his dick in anyone's ass, playtime ends when he's done. So it is inherently self-limiting.

Harry and Irma Boyle, from "Wait Till Your Father Gets Home". (NBC/Syndication 1972-1974) I mean, seriously -- watch the opening credits -- how can they NOT be swingers?

how did it go?

I'll never... drink too much before a play date... swing with vanilla friends...

I ordered 3 Lelos from Amazon. Will report back my lab results.

Home and back to mundane life. All went well, and we did get to do some hiking on our own on Monday. The rest of it was mostly screwing and relaxing, and I'd love to say we're all "fucked out" but we've definitely taken some of the energy home with us. Six is a good number, both in and out of the bedroom. It's small enough to get everyone together, but if one couple needs to break off for a while or a couple of people in the group feel like sitting out, it doesn't spoil any plans. I'll try to post some more in the 'adventures' forum later.

My wife and I are both members of a secret Facebook group that is uberactive. Parties are posted months in-advance by the group owner. Other members post occasional dates at various locations. The parties average 50 people but have been as many as 100 for one occasion this past summer. The group owner has an adequate-size home and outdoor pool so that number is practical. We alway have a good time and meet new people.

So a couple we've been chatting with just said they don't do the dinner and drinks thing because it's awkward. And they want us to host. Huge red flag, right? Do they really think we're going to give out our address without even meeting first?

We have been to our fair share of dinners with people who it wasn't going to work with, but we can always find enough in common and to talk about to last the hourish it takes. Even the bad nights we still went out for a nice dinner with our SO. It's a very cheap price to pay to see if there is a connection and SAVES time that so many couples waste with texting and emails for weeks only to finally meet and *poof* nothing. We don't give out our address until we have met several times and feel that we want to welcome them into our personal space.

Ridiculous! We are moderately experienced in the lifestyle and we want a vanilla meeting for dinner and drinks first. Yes, we generally know if we would play with a couple within 5-15 minutes. Yes, we have a non-verbal signal between ourselves to say whether we'd play or not. But we just want to meet with no pressure and go home and privately discuss whether we want play. One of us may have noticed something the other did not. If the other couple is so dead set to play the first time we meet, maybe they are not for us. It's not a hard and fast rule, especially if we meet at an event or resort, but it generally works for us.

This was one of Brian's fantasies for many years. For some time now he enjoyed Jo licking and fingering his asshole. As others have said that can give a man a fantastic orgasm. Jo also uses a vibrator on Brian which he enjoys a lot. A few years ago we bought a strap-on and now Jo will often use it on Brian. It is a very enjoyable experience for both of us. The best for Brian is when we are with another couple so the other female can lick and suck his cock while Jo is fucking him. The orgasm that produces is very, very intense.

Thank you for the endorsement. Nice to know someone is getting close. I like what you have experienced. Good luck!

This has been a fantasy of mine also. I have gotten my wife to use a vibrating dildo in my ass while giving me a blow job and it feels terrific. The anal stimulation really intensifies the orgasm. But, I have not been able to get her to use the strap on. I guess she doesn't have the fantasy of fucking like a man. My fantasy has been to be fucked in the ass while either getting oral, or while doing another woman from behind. Hasn't happened yet.