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How about this one...we sent messages to three different people over the last couple days. They're still sitting there unread but the people have been online everyday. Who goes on sls and doesn't read their mail?

Sex has definitely gotten better since we joined the lifestyle, which we didn’t think possible since it was so good before. I think we are both better lovers as a result of having new partners.

I have a slightly different perspective from being in a poly family, two guys and three women, who are joined by another guy sometimes to play. This is about how often within our closed group, not with new partners. All three girls will take anal from two of the guys; hubby doesn't like it and his dick's too big around (for my bum anyway). We women do anal about once per week and DP about once per month. Lora and Clair enjoy and can come from anal alone; I can't, it has to be part of DP to get me off. The other thing is that although none of us are shy and will lick a dick or each other's pussy after sex, once a guy puts his dick in anyone's ass, playtime ends when he's done. So it is inherently self-limiting.

I have heard several people mention Skyn condoms as being the best. BTW, they are obviously not for me, they are for the unknown guy that may end up fucking my wife...gotta be as safe as possible.

Mrs Doc once had sex on a barstool in a public venue with the husband of a swinger couple we'd just met. It just sort of happened. She was wearing a skirt, no panties and he was standing next to her chatting her up. She turned towards him and he just kind of eased between her legs. Her skirt rode up and he started to fondle her. Before the other wife or I realized what was happening (I had my hand under her bra) Mrs Doc got his dick out and in. She said with a smile, "honey, he just took a dip". We left shortly after and the four of us had a very hot evening. She's often said that she'd like to do that again some time.

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We met a couple for dinner earlier this summer at a very nice place in Naples. We had exchanged emails and private photos and I was certain that we had a really good match and Mrs Doc was completely on board. We had a nice dinner and some pleasant conversation. They had told us up front that they had early morning boating plans so it would be simply a meet and greet. Couple of days later, they contacted us for a play date. Mrs Doc said absolutely no. Her reasoning was this…."We met at an upscale restaurant, you were wearing slacks and a dress shirt, I was wearing a sexy sundress and ONLY the sundress, she was in a short skirt with a loose flowing top and no bra. HE showed up in a fishing shirt, cutoffs and flip flops and hadn't even shaved. No effort no sex". I guess you really do only get one chance to make a 1st impression!!

The situation is much as you describe: men seem to take less and less care in their presentation. Candidly, Mrs. FL notices such things and has no interest in people who do not take the time to bathe, groom, and dress appropriate for an occasion. She interprets such efforts as a sign of respect. It's curious how little care and thought goes into photographs at dating sites. Small wonder that there are few responses. For our part, we look for couples who look after themselves, and that initial presentation matters. We are not saying that a ball cap and jeans are inappropriate--at a ball game they are surely appropriate. But at a social function whose purpose is to excite the opposite sex? Some assembly required.

The best feeling for me are the Durex Real Feel Non-Latex. They are made of polyisoprene and not latex. The seem to run on the bigger side for a "normal" condom, either that or they stretch more. I'm a bit over 8" and find them very comfortable, even forgetting I have one on at times. I have ripped several putting them on, especially if I try to pull it to cover all the way to the base. They cover about 7". They are thin and do tend to break easier than traditional condoms, but have never broke one during actual sex. I also like 'Skyn', but not quite as good as the 'real feel', but they do seem more durable and come in a larger size.

John Sievers or Cocksox for me. They enhance the bulge!

It seems that there is a lot of confusion between cuckold and Hotwife. Two very different things!

Jesus, no. Not ever! We play separately sometimes, but the humiliation aspect of cuckolding? Fuck no! I looked at cuckold subreddit like /r/polyamory and /r/CuckoldCommunity and made the mistake of reading some of the threads there.... That would break me.

Mrs. Wailea and I played separately with the spouses of a very close couple friend of ours many times. And on a few occasions Mrs. Wailea has played with three men alone with my permission. While this has all been fun and erotic it is not our preferred way to play. We would rather have same room full swaps or MFM. I am definitely a voyeur and love to watch Mrs. Wailea having a good time, almost to the point I prefer it more than me having sex with another women. I just find I am so attracted to my wife I would rather do her than any other woman. I guess that is another reason I really enjoy MFM. We fantasize all the time about her picking up a guy in a bar and telling me about it later. Not sure we will ever do it. It will probably be one of those things that makes for hot bedroom talk during sex but never becomes a reality.

Back a few years ago, I was married to a lady with whom I had the closest thing to being in the LS. Actually, it was an open marriage in the truest sense, I think. I had one gf I saw once and a while, and she had a couple bf's. One fellow she had know since they were 5 or 6 and then became intimate with around 13 or so. The other, an older fellow, who was rather shaken up when he met me one day, and knew that I knew all about their fun, and approved. I loved hearing all of the details of their meetings and usually knew when they were together. The guy who she had known for so long, became a friend of mine too, and we actually worked together for quite a while. Needless to say, we had some great conversations. Later he got with my sister too.... This was a great time, and we did try to expand our horizons with others, but were not able to find the right fits. Sadly, other issues caused us to part. If this is being Cuckolded, then go for it!

WE DO IT !!!! you do know that the prostate is the male G spot and her with the strap on is hot as hell. I love it when she uses hers. There are some great role playing that can happen with her strap on. The night she walked out of the bathroom with one of my dress shirts on and a strap on and the look on her face WOW. I can say her attitude is way differant when she has a dick. Guys have you have just wanted to grab your woman and have just a good hard fuck one of those bad mood ones. Well it is out of this world when she is in that mood and takes your ass just like that All i can say is TRY IT ASAP LOL

We do it. The harness we started with uses an O ring so we could use different size toys in it...started with a tiny anal plug and did very little thrusting...just kind of rocked to put pressure on the prostate. Fave position is him on top so he can control the stroke and I can use my hands on his cock. S

We have never used a strap on, like my previous post......Jay probably would end up losing his liver or something he may need. But he is into a good prostate exam every now and then. I think that once men allow themselves to relax and enjoy it they are introduced to a whole new level of orgasm. Yeah, he likes it lol.