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3 pointsIt is my opinion and it comes from the last 15-20 years of viewing hundreds of profiles, reading hundreds of discussions on this forum, and having active discussions with people that I've met at parties and beyond. Have I seen an increase in open male bisexuality in group rooms at parties? No, (and this is a guess) but I'm pretty sure that has more to do with bi guys knowing that many wouldn't be OK with it and not wanting to make waves. That said not only have I personally spoken with many lifestyle guys who are totally OK with sucking dick, but also quite a few who are open to more than that in relation to bi play. Are you allowed to offer your opinion if you aren't bisexual? Sure. But, to come into a thread on a topic you obviously don't have any interest in and basically shit on the OP with an attitude of "why the hell would you want to do that?" that's not cool, nor warranted. If you came in and said "yeah I don't get it I prefer xyz but to each their own" that's giving your opinion in a reasonable manner. This isn't reddit, here we treat others with respect whether we like their topic of choice or not.
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2 pointsThose don't cure an over thinker's brain. Viagra can't help me if I'm not comfortable and relaxed with the situation. I've started to see my pattern with this issue and if I haven't had time prior to play to make out, touch the Mrs and vice versa playfully, or just go from a club to a room suddenly I'm probably going to have issues with someone new. It's 100% my brain and while I'm sick of it, I'm at least learning what my issue is so I can work around it.
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1 pointWe hosted a house party with 7 couples. We only invite people we have met before so nobody was a stranger to us. Occasionally, a guest will ask to bring another couple and that's fine with us. Everyone plays in one big room and moves between this room and the backyard for drinks and the hot tub. One of the women enjoys dp and apparently while doing so, had an accident on our floor. My husband walked in and witnessed one of the males from the dp pushing it under the couch wrapped in one of our towels that we provide the guests. He didn't know what it was, he simply saw the man push the towel. When we were cleaning up the next day, needless to say we were upset. The couple never mentioned it and acted like nothing happened. Fast foward a month later, we are having another party. We invite the man who pushed the towel (he's a very close friend) but my husband said he would speak with him about it before the party. Turns out, he had invited a couple for the evening and guess who it is?! The same couple who loved dp! Wait, it gets better. We were pissed but couldn't do anything about it at that point but my husband told the guy if it happened again, he would have to clean it himself. Believe it or not, it happened. Our friend was not playing with them but I spotted it on the floor and told my husband. Our friend did clean it up and again they acted like nothing happened. We saw them this past weekend in a club and basically said hello and moved on. Our friend was with us and he and his wife also didn't really talk to them. We were hoping one of them would ask what's wrong, but obviously, they know what's wrong. How would you handle it? Ignore them?
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1 pointWe just returned from a very nice 8 night stay at El Dorado Royale. We met three other couples there. We had met with the couples previously at other resorts or hotel parties. At the resort we all chipped in to have 3 patio parties with 4 standup cocktail tables, snacks and a bar. Our room butlers served and the resort provided a bartender, waiter and food personnel. Each of the 4 couples invited "friends " they met during the day and our neighbors in the 40, 41 and 42 buildings. Robb and I invited the 6 cousins and sisters in the three rooms next to our swim up room, all nurses, PAs and teachers. During the day, about half the women, topless, sunbathed or hungout in the lazy river in front of our rooms with no problems. At the three cocktail parties, dresses ranged from dressy resort wear to really really revealing club wear. There was no total nudity but lots of nipples and boobs were visible as evening came on. Some touching, etc went on but all play was taken back to the rooms. One of the "sisters" ended up in our room two nights after cocktail parties. She is/was the rare unicorn. Very rarely do we have FMF or FFM encounters but this was seriously fun! We like El Dorado Royale and will be back again, but with friends. Julie
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1 pointAfter he finished in her I took my turn. I was so horny from watching them and she was so wet from him coming in her that I came after only a few strokes. I was so embarrassed. He had just fucked her for what seemed like forever. I was getting frustrated waiting for him to get off of her. I could barely feel her and I'm sure that she could barely feel me. It was the first time I felt small. He was the superior lover in the room. I thought things were over. I wanted him to leave but when I got off of the bed he got back on. He was still hard. His cock was bigger than mine and I didn't care about it until I came so quickly and felt so inadequate. I was happy that she was going to experience a cock bigger than mine but now I was feeling nervous and jealous. I had just watched her enjoying herself with him but I came so quickly that she never got started with me and now he was going to fuck her again and she was laying there waiting for him. I sat back down in the chair and watched again. It went on for even longer than the first time. He rolled her around into many different positions. I couldn't believe he was staying so hard. She would look over at me occasionally. The look of lust and enjoyment on her face as he pumped his cock in and out of her is what makes watching so much fun. She mouthed the words "I love you" as he fucked her. That was so incredible. I felt reassured and began to get hard again. She was being used by him in a way that she never experienced. In a way that she never experienced with me. I has happy that she was experiencing sexual things like that. I was happy that she was happy. I wanted another try.
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1 pointMy wife usually answers the door in lingerie when a guy comes over...that seems to get things going!
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1 pointWhy don't you try truth or dare? It should work well with three people who already know why they're there.
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1 pointActually, the % of bi guys in the lifestyle is pretty high and getting higher all the time, so I wouldn't say they are in the wrong place. I can recall when it was a nonstarter, and almost zero guys within the lifestyle would openly admit to being bi, I've watched the pendulum swing almost completely in the last 20 years, to the point where those who are completely against it are the minority. Even those guys who aren't into it and not remotely interested are mostly accepting of the idea that others are and they can deal with the discussion of it or even the idea of it happening in front of them (so long as it's not too them). This is a forum section for bisexuality, it is not limited to female bisexuality. If a topic offends you it may be best to avoid it.
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1 pointShe came by tonight with her gay friend. I like masculine men. After a minute with this guy, I wasn't interested. She must have sensed it because she said to him, "show him your penis". He did and I must say she listen to what I told her about what I like because this is exactly what I want. I took it in my mouth semi erect. Within a minute I had a raging hard-on in my mouth. She was very excited giving words of encouragement. At her suggestion we moved to the bedroom. I found myself kissing him is a little weird. But he was excited and wanted me to f*** him right there. That wasn't going to happen and I told him so. We continued sucking each other's dick. God he had a great penis. It ended in a 69. With me on bottom.. this is why I suck dick. It was the best feeling I ever had doing it. Afterwards he left and she stayed. She was excited. She had endless questions.
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1 pointSun&Moon display what is probably a fairly popular response to the mfm or swing idea. The idea appeals to the woman during sex, and the fantasy makes her super hot. The actual act with a 3rd person or swap can bring out some amazing sexiness. But the brain is great at torturing us. Women in particular seem to be more influenced by feelings and perceptions. If they feel like a slut or threatened, even socially or religiously, it can have a negative effect. I don't think men are very good at understanding a woman's feelings toward sex. To the guy, it's just another dick, another way to have fun. To the woman, they are putting everything they are out there. The risk is way higher in several ways. I must have read a hundred posts about guys trying to get their wife interested in some group sex. Sometimes it works, sometimes it works for awhile. Usually it doesn't work. I feel that pushing it can have the desired immediate effect but cause long term damage. Remember, your wife want's to please you. Sometimes she will go along with ideas she is not on board with to please. Be careful.
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1 pointIndeed, it sounds like you found the perfect guy for this first adventure, and that y'all have been progressing in a very stable and well thought-out fashion. (Not to mention some good, clean FUN, which is what it is all about.) ;-) Lots of good suggestions here, especially in making the event all about her. I am betting that if you keep the focus on your wife, everyone will cum away happy, regardless of how well you can perform at the moment (she already knows that you got what it takes under "normal" circumstances, so find security in that). Keep the mood light, laugh-off the potentially embarrassing moments (I agree, you cannot "catch gay", even with some incidental contact, especially in the heat of the moment), and always continue forward with HER pleasure. Make her the Goddess that she already is, and I suspect that all will be right with the world. :-D
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1 pointYou will probably be ok with seeing his cock once you start - but some guys do get to that point and oh no you do not get hard. the reasons are many so just in case. buy a cock ring ( rubber not metal yet) Try it with your partner to make sure it fits and does some help, then if you do not rise as much or quickly to the event you know you have a plan B - that in it self may help knowing your going to be fine. What i will say is make sure you have a word or something to stop if one of you needs to and do not be scared to use it, the, if it all goes to bad feelings for either one of you - because that is where more problems come from then not. So make sure you both can stop if needed with no ramifications. Good luck
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1 pointWow. The guy you found is very patient and understanding. Not many would hang in there like that. It's normal to be nervous about seeing his tool. Just relax and focus on her, and if you guys happen to touch each other by accident, don't panic! It happens.
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1 pointSo I'm brand new here, only been swinging for 6 months. But I've/We've had a good deal of interactions. I suppose the one that sticks out at the moment for me was after my daughter's soccer game. We are good friends with a couple whose daughter is also on the team, we've swung with them once at a part we went to very early on. After the game the girls were all going for pizza and that kinda left us parents with some time on our hands. Now honestly sex isn't always on our brains or anything but I guess K (the dad of the other girl on the team) was thinking about it all day. He said it was because of my sports top, a long sleeve spandex purple crop top. My stomach was showing a bit, little bit of a muffin top i'm still trying to get rid of. I'm not a busty girl at best a B but more an A cup. He invited us over to their house which was just a few blocks down the street from the fields so we walked. It was really hot out and so we were all pretty sweaty when we got inside. K invited me into the kitchen for some water while his wife J and my husband L went to the bathroom (not together just to actually go). In the kitchen we chatted about the game, drank some water and then K, as bold as I've ever seen sat in a dining room chair and asked if I'd ride him. I was stunned to say the least. I mean we are still really new to this life and hadn't been so very upfrontly asked something like that. Well it was why we were there after all so, blushing like a little girl, I started to take my top off. He told me to stop and keep it on. It was stained a bit with sweat and really clinging to my breasts, I wasn't wearing a bra so my nipples were poking through. He told me he loved seeing my breasts bounce when I was cheering on the girls that's what gave him this, and he pulled down his track shorts. K isn't especially long, maybe like 7 inches at best, but he's thick. And wow he was as hard as I've ever seen a guy get. Well i pulled my yoga pants down, i was wearing some simple seamless purple lace panties with a wide waist. They were kinda sweaty too. Honestly at this point I still wasn't used to the whole, other man inside me thing. It was still and still is like some kind of strange dream. He told me to leave the panties on too, so i straddled his lap. He pulled my panties just enough to the side to see my vagina and complimented it. Telling me he loves how smooth and tight I looked for a mom. Surprised me a lot but was kind of a turn on. His penis was straight up and so he very gently but firmly put his hands on my bottom, half exposed in the panties, pulled me to him and lowered me on. I told you he's thick so it was intense. I'd only had sex with him one time before and that was after I'd had a load of semen inside to help lube me up. Now it was just me, my sweat, my already warming juices and him. His eyes were locked on his tip pushing my lips open, entering me, slowly sliding in. I'm kinda tight so it was slow, pushing in a little sliding back out then going further. It took several minutes but soon every inch was in me and it was soooooo intense. He was long enough to just tickle my cervix but it was that girth, stretching me that was making me shiver. K just sat back his hands on my bottom and slowly helped me rise and fall on him. Going about halfway up then down, hitting my cervix. Then almost all the way up to the tip and back in slow. He kept that pattern and pace up for a while. He'd alternate watching his penis slide into me and watching my breasts gently bounce in my top. We were already sweaty from being out in the heat at the game but this worked up more of a sweat, like we were dripping on the floor more than my juices, which themselves were dripping down his balls to the floor under us. My tummy was bouncing a little too as I rode him. He has some incredible staying power and I think we were like that for nearly ten or more minutes before I couldn't hold back anymore and I orgasmed. I'm a little bit of a crier when I orgasm so I teared up whimpering, crying, body shaking and vagina squeezing down hard on him just making the orgasm more intense. I'm not sure if it sent him over the edge or he just let himself go because right in the middle of my orgasm he pushed deep into me right up against my cervix and blasted thick streams of semen. He's a very heavy thick ejaculator and i felt it splashing inside so hot it was amazing. We just sat for a minute after that, dripping sweat and now some other fluids. Then we saw the clock on the wall. Our girls were due to get done with the pizza party soon so we were going to need to pick them up. K pulled out of me and put my panties back over me before anything could drip out. He patted my stomach and kissed my stretch marks and said he loved filling a mom's tummy. Totally made me blush. I put my pants back on went to check on my husband and J. I walked in on L orgasming onto J's beautiful C cup breasts. She kissed his tip and thanked him, waved to me and got up. Gave me a kiss on the cheek as she walked by going to take a shower. I left with my husband to go get our car and pick up our daughter and the entire ride home my vagina was FULL of semen. My panties were a total mess! I'm just glad it didn't leak and show through my yoga pants. That's a stand out experience for me.
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1 pointI'm always amazed when somebody describes an experience that seems so consistent with our own. Very well described. We had initially met up with our friends in the pool for our first soft play night as a couple, and her first time touching another man in almost ten years. She had to literally get out of the pool and collect herself for a minute when she touched his cock for the first time. Then she was on board and ended up topless between his legs on a pool lounger, same wide-eyed "I'm really doing this" expression. As first she was just touching it, but then he pushed her hair back and she wrapped her lips around it. Every muscle in my body tensed up for the duration. When he came, she missed the last spurt. When she stood up she looked like she was lost in a strange town and wandered around for a moment before we had to break the news that the she had her friend's husband's cum all over her chin. Our first full swap was with that couple the following evening.
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1 pointOne of my favorite memories is the time that my wife and I had her first full swap with another couple. Up until a certain point in that night, we had to been having a soft swap out with the other couple. Lots of wandering hands And oral between both couples. At one point my wife looked up and said "all right now, I don't care whose dick it is but somebody is going to fuck me now! " it was so hot to hear my wife be so blunt and into the experience. I promptly obliged and began to slide inside her briefly. I then watched another man have fun with my wife for the first time :-)
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1 pointThis is a pretty fun thread!! This past New Years Kiko and I were at Couple's Choice here in Chicago. Typically New Years is fun but not a lot of play, people get pretty drunk. Anyhow clock strikes 12 and we figure nothing was going to happen. I go to the bathroom and on my way back notice a couple is playing in the bondage room with the doors open, so people can watch. I run over and give Kiko the heads ups. We go over to the viewing area/ door and start watching this naked red head getting whipped with a belt while she was strapped to the wall. I suggest a blindfold, which she eagerly agrees to. So myself and her partner blindfold her( not even sure what article of clothing we used). Then I suggest he mix in something soft with the belt. We use my shirt with he and my wife using the belt and me driving her wild with the shirt. So at this point a bit of a crowd has gathered. So now the girls ( there were like four including the red head and Kiko ) are taking turns spanking each other bottoms while I gave them the soft sensation of my shirt!! So now the guy in the couple that originally has the room kicks everybody out and asks us to stay. Kiko and I agree, he begins to introduce himself and the red head yells...'No, no names', that I remember DISTINCTLY. In fact Kiko and I still joke about it. So the red head demands to be locked up again and spanked harder. So until this time I hadn't really spanked anyone, but since she wanted to be spanked harder, everyone looked at me. It's not really my thing, the soft part earlier is definitely, but hey she was a hot naked red head demanding me to spank her. Anyhow my wife, Kiko and the other guy start entertaining themselves on the one side of the big bed in the room, the red head and I, after a good spanking did likewise on the other side. and 'no names'...great night.
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1 pointWe've only had a total of four play sessions with the same couple, but our first full swap was very vivid. Mrs. E bent over one side of the bed and Mrs. E's friend bent over my side, both getting it from behind. I'm not sure who Mrs. E made more eye contact with, me or her friend while her friend's husband fucked her, but it was one of those dazed "desperate for cock" looks that I really prized.
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1 pointI'm a single male with experience in swinging and polyamory. Did some swinging in my 20's, then was a poly secondary partner to a married woman for 6yrs +. I'm now moving back to the swinging side of things. Hopefully, hopefully, I'll have a spouse that wants to be non-monogamous in some way, in the coming years. I'd like to play seperately and together. As I think of my past experiences, I wonder what "rules" could be set in place to stop the drift towards egalitarian polyamory? Well, I came across a podcast called Why are People into That?... with some suggestions as to how to keep things casual. The guest on the show was Reid Mihalko. The host, Tina Horn. Why Are People Into That? The tips: Don't wake up by their side. Don't fuck them all weekend. Don't hookup with the same person more than once a month, unless you're a black belt at open relationships. Twice a month if you're a black belt. Last, group sex keeps things less intimate. Looking at these 4 tips we can see that 2 of them are used by swingers as a generalization. In poly, we called such rules "guidelines and expectations". That seems to encompass more. I think the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd tips are very sage advice. I do certainly think that guidelines and expectations can be a huge help in keeping the other lovers at the level of play partners or friends with benefits, and reduce the slide to deep romance. Really, the people involved have to trully believe that the FWB type relationship(or even more casual) is the holy grail. That's what they'll likely stick to if that is their belief, I think.
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1 pointOur relationship is all about kindness, affection, compassion, sharing and working together to have fun. And we both equally give and receive. From the beginning it is she that wanted to submit to me. If I didn't allow that I would NOT be providing her with what she wants and needs. During the day, she has an important, powerful job and makes decisions that can effect literally thousands of people. When she comes home she doesn't WANT to make decisions...that's what she does all day at work. Also, in her first marriage she did everything she could to make her husband happy...and he still left her. She WANTS and NEEDS me to tell her what I need and then provide that for me. She can't be wrong or make a mistake if I'm telling her what I want and need. If there is a misunderstanding and someone is at fault, it has to be me for not making my requests clear. At the same time, this is a sharp double edge sword. I have to be sure that she is doing things that she also wants to do instead of just doing something to make me happy. Swinging is one of those things...she came to me about this and that's also one of the reasons we keep the D/s and swinging separate. That I CARE as strongly as I do for her, I would NEVER want her to do anything she doesn't enjoy. I only want her to be happy and what makes her happiest is knowing that she is making me happy. Yes its complicated, but anything less would be less than what she wants, needs and deserves. One thing for sure, there is NEVER any disrespect or contempt in our relationship.
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1 pointIts a emotional time when you share sex with others. It takes a while to be able to sort it out in your head.. I was jealous of my wife when we swung for a while. I wanted to do it... did it but still seeing my wife with another man was hard to get use to.. After one encounter I told the guy about my experience in martial arts.. how silly is that. I would be critical of my wife after we would play. Lets face it that women seem to get more out of swinging than the men do. Swinging is not a equal deal.. different people do different things when making love. It always seemed to me my wife would have more orgasms longer sessions and more fun than I. Tell him how you feel and when he does go negative gently steer him to the positive side of things. My wife and I have a agreement not to awfulize things and if we do we stop each other.. You can come at him from a total different direction by showing him when he is awfullizing things that are not related to swinging first. Often other problems and insecurities from other areas of his life pop up when swinging.. Good luck.
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1 pointHas your wife expressed her reservations to you. Sometimes, overcoming the reluctance to open up requires patience on your part. I would possibly think the two of you are not open with each other on this topic and other topics of living together. Do you run the family, and she is only the cook? Do you raise your voice and does that offend your wife? Are you pained when your wife cries. Do you know what to do when she cries? Do you know there is a benefit of crying for especially a woman? What is the last thing a woman will get angry about when she comes home from a hard days work. She might ask you to please listen and as she gets into her story about her snotty female bitch of a supervisor, she begins to cry. What do you usually do? Offer to go to her workplace and smash her supervisor's face in? What response would please your wife? Did you know she only wants you to listen? Men are fixers. This fixing ends when the SO woman is crying. Don't get bored. Your job is to listen and even you might say only this: "and how did you feel when she said this demeaning comment?" Notice what the key word is: FEEL. Women are deeply feeling. They will ask a lover or husband to understand them by keeping their mouth shut and not try to fix them. In every case, I know of in failures of mutual open marriage, someone is being ignored. The fun of sexual play is 2nd and never will occur if one spouse downs the other spouse, and does not know how to listen. All marital strife represents a lack of communication between two spouses or two SOs. The nature of life today with subprime debacles shutting down financial institutions and closing factories and jobs will cause more strife in the lives of lovers. I would recommend give up the alcohol. Alcohol and anger produces battered wives and abused children. A man on alcohol is a threat to a spouse. When men wake up, they do not remember what they said or did to their sweetheart. Do a complete inventory of life at home and work on improving this life. Then you might find your spouse wants to play with you at that swing place. She might say "I need your help, and I do this because I love you. Please take care of me."
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0 pointsWhy would any man suck cock when there are women in the room? There have been several threads like this lately and neither I nor Mrs Doc understands the trend. The OP may want to pay attention to the laughter or the disgust from women, there's a message in laughter and it's not encouragement. Unless of course the OP's primary goal is sucking cock. If that's the case, he's looking in the wrong places. There are plenty of cocks to lick, angle your head properly and suck in gay bars (Im sure there are a few in AZ)or on Craigs list.