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A lot of women and some men that swing claim to be bisexual. The question is how bisexual are they. My wife is very bi she could love a man or a women on the same level. Her bisexuality is not only for the purpose of having sex with another women. Given the hypothetical situation of me not being in the picture she could be happy with a man or a women for her next partner. Me on the other hand call myself a situational bisexual, for lack of a better term. Men do not turn me on, but my wife's enthusiasm to see two men having oral sex does turn me on. I have been known to receive the oral pleasure (from a man) and the reaction from my wife really gets me off. So the question is how bisexual are you? Is it just for sex, could it be more emotional, or is it for the people around you to enjoy?

I think I would disagree with the notion that a woman gives better blow jobs. There are a few women that do love giving head, but knowing how most woman's brains are wired, their enthusiasm is more related to how pleased the man is. They pay very close attention to reaction and watch the man. A guy on the other hand, first off is sucking a dick. If anyone thinks this isn't the most terrifying step we take in our life, think again. I thought about doing it from a very young age but never thought I'd ever actually DO it. The risk you are undertaking is monumental, and this one simple act can completely alter your life. Point is, if he's there sucking your dick, believe me... he is enjoying it and he really wants to be there. And THAT my friend, is what makes a great blowjob.

My wife usually answers the door in lingerie when a guy comes over...that seems to get things going!

Is there a video? Can we come to dinner at your house?

Those don't cure an over thinker's brain. Viagra can't help me if I'm not comfortable and relaxed with the situation. I've started to see my pattern with this issue and if I haven't had time prior to play to make out, touch the Mrs and vice versa playfully, or just go from a club to a room suddenly I'm probably going to have issues with someone new. It's 100% my brain and while I'm sick of it, I'm at least learning what my issue is so I can work around it.

Don't think about it! Concentrate on giving her pleasure. Once your focus is on your wife, making out with her, slowly undressing her, arousing her, your dick will take care of itself. You'll be surprised at how erotic exposing her to someone else can be and how hot it is to have sex with your wife with another person or couple watching.

My thoughts are this: When I'm with my wife, my aim is to give her as much pleasure as possible. If there is another male there, that potentially increases her pleasure and allows me to almost take a step back a fraction, or take a moment out and appreciate her pleasure or being pleasured - I can focus on it momentarily whilst not having to perform. Its like his cock can be my cock - get the same (or better ) results and I can observe and appreciate it a little. Also, its a massive turn on for her to be desired by two men - so her being turned on more increases my arousal also. I Don't believe any of this dominant / recessive gene horse shit.