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So here we are been talking about entering the LS for some time now.. Been married over 25 years she's 47 and I'm 48 and high school sweethearts both of us have never had another partner. I guess most would wonder why even brought this up? Our sex life in incredible we at least have some sort of sex 5 or more nights a week sometimes it's spontaneous. I could be watching tv setting on the couch and she will just walk over pull my shorts down and start blowing me and never say a word!! I'm always running my hand up her skirt feeling her soft satin covered pussy while we are out at diner etc.. We are not ken or barbie but in decent shape and run a half marathon each year for the last 15 years.I'm no porn star below the belt but always make sure she is satisfied. I always want to leave her smiling and toes curled up from having the best sex we can. She has always poked my side when we are out and say would you like to have sex with her or what do you think about that lady over there so she's been giving me suttle hints for years finally clicked in my mind!! I asked her several months ago while she was using her magic wand with her back pressed up against my chest sitting upright my mouth so ever close to her ear both of my hands busy caressing her boobs, as the wand worked its magic, I whispered in her ear would you like another man eating you out while I hold you just like this her response sent cold chills down my back "oh god yes please" asked her would you placed both hands on his head and guide him like you do me to that perfect spot that sends you overboard? "Please tell me more" her breathing growing faster and faster the more details I whispered in her ear of another man bringing her to a orgasm.. several minutes later its a wonder the kids upstairs wasn't scared out of their minds LOL never heard her that vocal coming before!! She gathered her self and turned around and buried her head in my neck and said I'm sorry should have never let myself go like that please don't be mad about me coming to another man!! I said honey I want you to have the best and would never be mad.. She stated Ive always wanted see if another man was attracted to me and what it would feel like having someone beside you touch and caress me. I'm like wow over 25 years marriage and Im just now find out about this LOL.. Over the last several months she/we had been so researching the LS and reading the posts here its like a switch has been thrown with her its incredible.. Told me so many stories positive and negative ones, positive ones gets her so wet!! She been showing me club dresses and has ordered several and modeled them for for me. She will ask do you think will I get any attention with this on and I'm like sure you will poor me will be left out LOL..I then let my hands start to rub all over her while she grinds me dancing in our bedroom she says would you be ok with me dancing with someone like this? I said just feel how hard I am LOL.. Conversions have progressed to what we are comfortable with and both agreed start with a couple local cubs this month just flirt/dance and not to expect anything or push our comfort levels.. Then this morning she said I'm ready to see you penetrate another woman never thought I would hear such from my wife LOL... We are excited/nervous to see where this journey takes us.. Sorry for the long post hope to update with exciting news over the next several months... Charlie & Ally

Sounds like you are well on your way. I can assure you that there are many many men on this forum somewhat Jealous of you and the relationship you have with your wife. Great job and keep up the communication.

from Oklahoma, Charlie! Thanks for a great introductory post! We're glad to have y'all with us!

This is 100% normal!! The first time my husband and I set out to swing we met a very hot couple. My husband is very over sexed (well, we both are) and he was really excited to have an opportunity to be with this woman. We met them at a club and went back to their hotel room. As soon as we got through the door, the other husband started taking my clothes off and we got right down to it. My husband could not get an erection. Just like you, no matter what he did, it was not happening. We left and he was mortified. He spoke to some men in the lifestyle and they told him when you are in a situation with another couple, be the first one to get down to business. Do not watch your wife or it will distract you. Concentrate on the woman you are going to play with, and drink very little alcohol. This couple gave us a rain check and he followed their advice. He had no problem the next time, or there after. Good luck!

We've found that going down this road has actually increased our body confidence, people pay compliments and heck some of them even want to sleep with us Haha, we aren't perfect but it's not long before you realise nobody is, and then you kind of think you know what I'm happy with what I've got

No harm meant.just having a little fun.

Actually that is part of my husband's problem too. He's only been able to come twice with a condom on and it took a lot of work and effort. But unfortunately in the LS they are a must.

One of my favorite memories is the time that my wife and I had her first full swap with another couple. Up until a certain point in that night, we had to been having a soft swap out with the other couple. Lots of wandering hands And oral between both couples. At one point my wife looked up and said "all right now, I don't care whose dick it is but somebody is going to fuck me now! " it was so hot to hear my wife be so blunt and into the experience. I promptly obliged and began to slide inside her briefly. I then watched another man have fun with my wife for the first time :-)