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Honestly, it can be age, booze, nerves, or anything else including and up to he's simply been cumming too much - especially if he's using Cialis or similar as an assistant. I can see how it'd seem personal but from the male perspective, when I've had a weekend like that I'm still just happy to be hard and using it. I'd hate to think a woman was disappointed that I screwed to exhaustion without getting off.

When me and my wife were chatting about the no kissing rule I said to her "I don't have a massive cock, I don't have a ripped body, one of the things I'm good at is kissing , by ruling out kissing you are actually crippling my chances of getting anywhere in this lifestyle" she said ok then go for it haha

So here we are been talking about entering the LS for some time now.. Been married over 25 years she's 47 and I'm 48 and high school sweethearts both of us have never had another partner. I guess most would wonder why even brought this up? Our sex life in incredible we at least have some sort of sex 5 or more nights a week sometimes it's spontaneous. I could be watching tv setting on the couch and she will just walk over pull my shorts down and start blowing me and never say a word!! I'm always running my hand up her skirt feeling her soft satin covered pussy while we are out at diner etc.. We are not ken or barbie but in decent shape and run a half marathon each year for the last 15 years.I'm no porn star below the belt but always make sure she is satisfied. I always want to leave her smiling and toes curled up from having the best sex we can. She has always poked my side when we are out and say would you like to have sex with her or what do you think about that lady over there so she's been giving me suttle hints for years finally clicked in my mind!! I asked her several months ago while she was using her magic wand with her back pressed up against my chest sitting upright my mouth so ever close to her ear both of my hands busy caressing her boobs, as the wand worked its magic, I whispered in her ear would you like another man eating you out while I hold you just like this her response sent cold chills down my back "oh god yes please" asked her would you placed both hands on his head and guide him like you do me to that perfect spot that sends you overboard? "Please tell me more" her breathing growing faster and faster the more details I whispered in her ear of another man bringing her to a orgasm.. several minutes later its a wonder the kids upstairs wasn't scared out of their minds LOL never heard her that vocal coming before!! She gathered her self and turned around and buried her head in my neck and said I'm sorry should have never let myself go like that please don't be mad about me coming to another man!! I said honey I want you to have the best and would never be mad.. She stated Ive always wanted see if another man was attracted to me and what it would feel like having someone beside you touch and caress me. I'm like wow over 25 years marriage and Im just now find out about this LOL.. Over the last several months she/we had been so researching the LS and reading the posts here its like a switch has been thrown with her its incredible.. Told me so many stories positive and negative ones, positive ones gets her so wet!! She been showing me club dresses and has ordered several and modeled them for for me. She will ask do you think will I get any attention with this on and I'm like sure you will poor me will be left out LOL..I then let my hands start to rub all over her while she grinds me dancing in our bedroom she says would you be ok with me dancing with someone like this? I said just feel how hard I am LOL.. Conversions have progressed to what we are comfortable with and both agreed start with a couple local cubs this month just flirt/dance and not to expect anything or push our comfort levels.. Then this morning she said I'm ready to see you penetrate another woman never thought I would hear such from my wife LOL... We are excited/nervous to see where this journey takes us.. Sorry for the long post hope to update with exciting news over the next several months... Charlie & Ally

So my husband and I were with a couple for a second time and had a good time. The wife encouraged the husband to ‘finish’ me off and he proceeded to do that...it was great. He came and then he kissed me on the neck. It threw me a bit because no one ever did that before. We connected on social media and likes most of my posts, but should I be concerned that he 'likes' me???? If you know what I mean.

In the past year I have had three male partners have difficulty or not cum at all. They have been in their mid 50's, in good physical shape, and all have said they don't always. They tell me not to worry and still come back again. Any insight? I don't draw attention, they are the ones to end playing (I am fully satisfied). Sometimes my oral skills will do the trick but not always. I have multiple, amazing orgasms and wish they could feel the same.

Absolutely, L often gives me coaching when we are just us together. It was just the way she verbalised that was so different to anything we have cone across in all the time in the lifestyle. Very erotic in its own way.

I don't know if it was intentional, but we've both stopped to watch the other finish and then gone back to our business. Likewise, I'll sometimes give Mrs. E some encouragement/instruction. If it's the wife's thing to talk dirty and coach her husband that doesn't seem odd.

Well,he did last about ten minutes more really going at L very much as his wife instructed. I got the impression and so did my wife when we spike later that this was as much for his wife as mine. After he finished, we both got back to our business which was extremely hot

Interesting. Did she let the two of you go back to what you were doing, or was that it?

I'm not against it but I don't intentionally play music while bonking. Thoughts or opinions?

What are some ways to make the less experienced partners feel more at at ease and comfortable? If you were nervous, what were the things that helped? (or not, as the case may be)

I think you need to tell your husband how much you like being kissed on the neck.

I am very interested in the lifestyle. My wife isn’t so much. She hasn’t told me this but I think it is more about her being judged. She has lost a lot of weight and has some body image issues. How much of the lifestyle is based on image?

No such thing as too much sex or too much information.

Yikes! (An educational aspect of this BBS that I did not expect, but nonetheless....) I'd be inclined to confront them, but that is just me. My tolerance level for rude behavior (including bullies) is pretty a low, and it can get me in trouble sometimes. Consider it a character flaw. (And I frequently have to remind myself: "Never argue with a moron, people who are watching may not be able to tell the difference.") I'm not suggesting public humiliation. That will not likely help. But maybe opening with something like: "This is kind of awkward, but (explain the facts)." You may want to give your closer male friend, who initially brought them, some notice beforehand. Since it was a really inconsiderate act, be prepared for a really inconsiderate response. A leopard does not changes its spots. I cannot imagine ever again welcoming someone like this back into my home. They probably at least need to know this. As mentioned: Once? OK, Maybe a fluke. But twice!!! And they are obviously aware of it. WTF??? I've been taught pretty much my whole life, everywhere I've been, that it is a common social courtesy to clean-up after yourself, especially as a guest. (If I'm paying someone to clean-up after me, I guess that is a bit different. But I still think it is no excuse to trash the place.) Once again I'm reminded of the old saw: "If you loan someone $20 and never see them again, then it was probably worth it." By politely confronting these people, and resisting the temptation to escalate into a mutual angry situation should they react badly, you are at least letting your frustrations be known, and clearing the air (at least), and keeping your dignity. If these folks ignore you the rest of your life, it does not sound like you will loose much. There are over 7.5 Billion people on the planet right now. Surely you can find someone to replace them as friends / acquaintances if they do not measure up. However: I get the awkwardness brought about by small, relatively closed social group (as a Swing Club and this lifestyle in general would qualify IMHO). Even with that, I doubt you will do any other future hosts any favors by just ignoring this situation, and letting them slide. I guess another approach would be to ask around in your mutual LS community. You may find some allies. But you may also be blowing the whistle on them (if you reveal their identity in the process), and if it gets back around and they feel blindsided, that you went behind their back on the whole thing.... It all sounds pretty messy. (Oops! Now I did it.) :">

Why would any man suck a cock without a woman? To each their own. If you have never sucked one then you will not understand the need. I prefer women but I like to join them in sucking. I posted this in the bisexual section of a swinger site. Am I missing something?

So I'm brand new here, only been swinging for 6 months. But I've/We've had a good deal of interactions. I suppose the one that sticks out at the moment for me was after my daughter's soccer game. We are good friends with a couple whose daughter is also on the team, we've swung with them once at a part we went to very early on. After the game the girls were all going for pizza and that kinda left us parents with some time on our hands. Now honestly sex isn't always on our brains or anything but I guess K (the dad of the other girl on the team) was thinking about it all day. He said it was because of my sports top, a long sleeve spandex purple crop top. My stomach was showing a bit, little bit of a muffin top i'm still trying to get rid of. I'm not a busty girl at best a B but more an A cup. He invited us over to their house which was just a few blocks down the street from the fields so we walked. It was really hot out and so we were all pretty sweaty when we got inside. K invited me into the kitchen for some water while his wife J and my husband L went to the bathroom (not together just to actually go). In the kitchen we chatted about the game, drank some water and then K, as bold as I've ever seen sat in a dining room chair and asked if I'd ride him. I was stunned to say the least. I mean we are still really new to this life and hadn't been so very upfrontly asked something like that. Well it was why we were there after all so, blushing like a little girl, I started to take my top off. He told me to stop and keep it on. It was stained a bit with sweat and really clinging to my breasts, I wasn't wearing a bra so my nipples were poking through. He told me he loved seeing my breasts bounce when I was cheering on the girls that's what gave him this, and he pulled down his track shorts. K isn't especially long, maybe like 7 inches at best, but he's thick. And wow he was as hard as I've ever seen a guy get. Well i pulled my yoga pants down, i was wearing some simple seamless purple lace panties with a wide waist. They were kinda sweaty too. Honestly at this point I still wasn't used to the whole, other man inside me thing. It was still and still is like some kind of strange dream. He told me to leave the panties on too, so i straddled his lap. He pulled my panties just enough to the side to see my vagina and complimented it. Telling me he loves how smooth and tight I looked for a mom. Surprised me a lot but was kind of a turn on. His penis was straight up and so he very gently but firmly put his hands on my bottom, half exposed in the panties, pulled me to him and lowered me on. I told you he's thick so it was intense. I'd only had sex with him one time before and that was after I'd had a load of semen inside to help lube me up. Now it was just me, my sweat, my already warming juices and him. His eyes were locked on his tip pushing my lips open, entering me, slowly sliding in. I'm kinda tight so it was slow, pushing in a little sliding back out then going further. It took several minutes but soon every inch was in me and it was soooooo intense. He was long enough to just tickle my cervix but it was that girth, stretching me that was making me shiver. K just sat back his hands on my bottom and slowly helped me rise and fall on him. Going about halfway up then down, hitting my cervix. Then almost all the way up to the tip and back in slow. He kept that pattern and pace up for a while. He'd alternate watching his penis slide into me and watching my breasts gently bounce in my top. We were already sweaty from being out in the heat at the game but this worked up more of a sweat, like we were dripping on the floor more than my juices, which themselves were dripping down his balls to the floor under us. My tummy was bouncing a little too as I rode him. He has some incredible staying power and I think we were like that for nearly ten or more minutes before I couldn't hold back anymore and I orgasmed. I'm a little bit of a crier when I orgasm so I teared up whimpering, crying, body shaking and vagina squeezing down hard on him just making the orgasm more intense. I'm not sure if it sent him over the edge or he just let himself go because right in the middle of my orgasm he pushed deep into me right up against my cervix and blasted thick streams of semen. He's a very heavy thick ejaculator and i felt it splashing inside so hot it was amazing. We just sat for a minute after that, dripping sweat and now some other fluids. Then we saw the clock on the wall. Our girls were due to get done with the pizza party soon so we were going to need to pick them up. K pulled out of me and put my panties back over me before anything could drip out. He patted my stomach and kissed my stretch marks and said he loved filling a mom's tummy. Totally made me blush. I put my pants back on went to check on my husband and J. I walked in on L orgasming onto J's beautiful C cup breasts. She kissed his tip and thanked him, waved to me and got up. Gave me a kiss on the cheek as she walked by going to take a shower. I left with my husband to go get our car and pick up our daughter and the entire ride home my vagina was FULL of semen. My panties were a total mess! I'm just glad it didn't leak and show through my yoga pants. That's a stand out experience for me.