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ok first off...WOW this forum and especially this sub-forum have opened so much up to me, I don't feel like such a head case or outcast, it is really great to know that there are others like us out there. So thank you all for your knowledge and judgment free attitudes. So here's the deal...and sorry in advance for the long-winded post. I absolutely LOVE cum, well actually both the GF and I do. The taste and feel of it, the way it looks when it's on a beautiful woman's skin, the way it looks on my GF's lips and tongue. The fantasy started about W years ago when we first started dating. I had been thinking that the idea was hot for a while and one night during sex I stopped right before orgasm and just came a little giving her just a little on her lips and tongue to 'play with' then we continued making love as we fantasized that it was someone else's cum that we were sharing. We both felt as though it was one of the hottest things that either of us had ever done and it became a semi-regular role play thing for us. I actually got really good at having more than one orgasm so we could kiss and play with cum, all the while pretending it was from another guy. We even bought an ejaculating dildo and experimented with homemade recipes...haha So that was fun and hot and we learned what we wanted. We decided together that the next step was to play with cum from another guy. We found a guy who wasn't freaked out by the idea and we had our fun...it was the most sensual thing I have ever done up until that point, and to this day, almost a year later, I still regularly get myself off thinking of that encounter. We managed to pull it off again a few months later with the same guy but this time she actually spat it into my mouth and I proceeded to clean all of it from her lips and face with my tongue while we made very passionate and sweet love...god it was so incredibly sexy that I get hard every time I think about it. So how common is this? I know guys like to taste their own but do 'straight' guys ever want to try this? Let me first say that I am 99.9% certain that I am 100% straight haha. I am not attracted to men at all, don't want to find guys on my own, have no desire for anything considered traditionally gay, am not turned on at all by gay or bi porn, etc. I love the term used on another thread in this forum "situationally heteroflexible" and feel that it most describes me. For instance, seeing a cock in my GF's mouth is so sexy it drives me crazy. I want to help guide it in, and I want to put mine in with his (and we have ). The thought of double vag and his hard cock rubbing against mine inside of my GF drives both of us crazy. But that's pretty much where it ends. I have zero desire to be with a guy by myself, in fact oral, penetration, pretty much anything touching other than our cocks and specifically inside her, is a turn-off for me. I know I'm a huge perv, and I love it. I don't like labels and don't give a shit what people think about our sex life but just curious how others feel about this. Is it hot or is it weird? And please use this thread share your cum sharing thoughts, fantasies and stories with me! and I loved this quote from another thread:

Exact answer I would have given. And there you are...... T

Not for a few days, although we look forward to the play date, we wouldn't want it to take priority over our own sex life and connection. We would usually not have sex together on the day of the playdate, partly to build up the anticipation, but also to reduce the chance of a performance issue with the other couple.

So we had our first hall pass experience. A male that is part of a couple and we have played with got a hall pass so he asked if DD could play separately. We discussed it and figured why not. I've been working a ton of hours so they had their encounter while I was at work. Dd took the lead and laid out the plan. She wanted to walk in, bend over the back of the couch, get nailed and leave, no small talk or anything, just sex. Dave (not real name) asked if she could wear a sundress with no panties for the meeting, so DD went and bought one for it. It went well and according to the plan, and both had fun. I was concerned how I would feel about it but I was fine, no negative feelings. Now DD wants to set something up for me, she started trying to pick a woman out for me, luckily I like her taste in women. Lol. Never thought we would end up playing separately; while fun, we both prefer same room full swap since seeing each other have fun is a big part of the fun for us. Just thought I would share a success story as opposed to some of the negative stuff on here sometimes.

My ex-wife and I use to really get into cum-play! She use to have the best orgasms when I'd go down on her while she was full of her lover's cum and believe me I loved it! My current wife, running hot and cold on the swinging scene (see my other thread/post), also has amazingly powerful orgasms when I go down her and eat my cum out of her but I'm dying to eat someone else's out of her. Or have her kiss me with a mouthful of his cum and let me eat it all! I can't see how guys won't eat or play with their own cum. I mean we expect everyone else to take our loads but as soon as it's 'out' they get freaked out. It baffles me but I TOTALLY get "To Each 'HIS' Own!" but thankfully I for one LOVE cum!

Lascivious L&L, You summed that up beautifully! I couldn't agree with you more. Just enjoy every pleasure that human sexual responses create. No tags or labels. Awesome!

We'd like to thank looking for using our quote, even though our thanks come a year late! For us it's always been about intimacy and sharing. There is nothing more arousing and intimate than sharing another man with her. Watching his cock slip into her mouth, or her pussy, going down on her while she's being fucked by another man, and enjoying the resulting orgasms of both. For us it is an intimacy, the connection between us, that we share. It can be an intimacy shared by the third, or it can be mainly an intimacy between us. I have shared sucking on a cock with her. She suggested it, inspired me, and helped me suck the man. It was quite obvious that it aroused her greatly. It aroused me also, being within that storm of sexual energy and intimacy. The man came in my mouth and my wife told me to swallow his cum. Of course I did, the sexuality of that moment was enough to ensure I would swallow. I found that the squirting of a cock in my mouth was very hot in and of itself, a male sexual intensity equivalent to the female sexual intensity of inspiring a woman's orgasm with my mouth, yet different and new. It aroused my wife so much that she became quite aggressive in fucking me. Yes, we've done it more than once. Does it mean I'm bi? Who cares! What it means for us is that there is new to share even when you think you've shared so much of what is possible within sexuality. It's always about sharing.

Practice makes perfect, bogeyman. I've overcome the problem by having my wife just sit on my face immediately afterward. Once I experienced it without a choice it became part of a routine that I enjoy more each time. Like Pavlov's dogs, I guess.

We agree that cum is a sexy thing to play with. He likes to lick cum off her body. He has also had a guy cum in his mouth. However, much like the original poster, he's not much interested in a "traditional" gay relationship but more as an additive to our intimate relationship.

We went through the same thing... I don't know that there is really a way to bring up the subject and then attempt to save face if he declines. We called our friend one evening and asked him if he's ever done anything like a 3some etc. He answered with a simple No. We told him we were considering one, and asked if he would be interested. He declined again as he is just gotten into a serious relationship. Since then, we still talk regularly, go out, etc. If you ask your friend, be prepared for the rejection. You must also be prepared for the awkward meetings that will insue until everyone has put it past them. Overall, you'll never know if you don't ask him...