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My father said he dated a woman with everything a man wanted. A beard, a mustache, a hairy chest...

Yes it will look weird and comical if you have hair everywhere else. If a woman doesn't like hair on a man they probably won't be back for a second date. Some women think body hair on a man is sexy. Some women think it's very unattractive. Just be natural and let the woman choose. Ask a woman how much maintenance is needed to shave your body everyday:) I prefer women to be natural. I love hairy pussies. I think hairy armpits are sexy. A woman with a mustache is not very sexy at all! I understand shaving for a "clean" look in their bikini on the beach in the summer. Smooth legs are sexy to see.

Key in swinging, you don't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with... including shave. Personally, like you I have a lot of body hair. I'll trim, so that my pubes are roughly the same length as the rest of the hair in that area but that's all. I feel it makes me look presentable and I haven't gotten any complaints. My wife doesn't shave at all, and a lot of guys compliment her on it.

I'd rather see a few pics that really look like the couple than a ton of pics that force me to pick and choose. One thing I've noticed, too, is that the more pics a couple has posted the more likely there will be bad shots. So we'll start off looking at a profile thinking "yeah they are hot" then a few pics in get hit with a pic that's a bad angle and it's like "well is that a bad angle? Or were the other ones just really good angles?" In the end, some live interaction whether via camchat or actually meeting seems to go further for giving you an idea of what you are dealing with than a ton of pics (IMO).

Our first thought was no, there's no such thing as too many pictures...but you have too many pictures (56). Cut that in about half and you should be good to go. There are more than a few pictures that don't bring anything to the party (example: 3rd picture that's B&W is too dark and too much like the much better 1st picture) Some of the shots are repetitive like the 4th and 5th picture at Bliss Halloween, just one is further back than the other...the further back one is a better shot, pictures 13 and 15 (either is fine, but both are not needed), and pictures 38 and 42 (we like 38 better), pictures 45 and 49 (49 is better). Some just aren't needed (pictures 9, 23, 24, 30, 31, 37, 53, 55, 56) Pictures 21 and 22 should be closer to the start, they are good pictures of the two of you. Hey, you asked...just edit down to the really great pictures (pictures 1, 10, 22, 38, 39, 40, 44, 49 are our favs, but that's just us). Shoot for less than 30 really great pictures and swap them out as you get new great pictures. Oh, and she is absolutely STUNNING...we'd do you.

Welcome to The Swingers Board. Quite an opening post! I think others here will be much better at advise on this situation than me, but I'll offer my $.02. The hardest part of swinging is finding 4 people that get along well and have some chemistry. It sounds like you have that part. Now it's just working out the details. Beware though, that it sounds to me like the husband will agree to anything but will again try to get your wife alone. Boundaries not only need to be communicated, but also enforced. Good luck and let us know how it progresses.

I already have to keep the Hitachi under lock and key...this would be bad...very bad.

Waterproof? I'd expect so, our home made one is. Made sure of that. Compared to our Magic Wand? Just no comparisons. This wins hands down.

I've been meaning to call and order one, but what with this rotary dial phone, I keep making mistakes and having to start over. It probably doesn't help that I can't see to dial by the light of oil lamps. So I just gave up.

Although we have a few small toys at home, we are not a couple that is very big on toys to start with (we like to use our biological tools rather than the powered kind!). But we have been to a couple of house parties where some has brought a Sybian, and one time the Mrs. was persuaded to go for a ride. From the sight and sound of her, she seemed to very much enjoy the experience! She needed a guy in front of her and a guy behind her to keep her from collapsing off the thing, and she was a little weak in the knees and shaky afterwards. Would we get one for home use? No, and primarily because it might be tough to explain it to our daughter living at home with us! But I think we would not get one even if we had an empty nest, unless we thought we would bring it along with us to a lot of parties.

No. Well sort of no, sort of yes. About $2200AUD out here so it's a pretty steep ask. Love all my "Toys", and I'm referring to the power tools in the shed. So Googled about & figured I can make something like, perfect shed project for those vanilla weekends. Time to start collecting parts. First up a mini sander, no built-in speed control required, perfect one as $30.00. Universal light dimmer, mounting block, plug & socket, makes the perfect speed control. Test that bit out & we are on our way. Bit of a dig in the toy drawer to locate a Vac-u-lock adapter & something floppy to fit on it. Trip to the hardware store for some timber supplies & the project begins. Some hours of cutting, screwing & sanding later and things are taking shape. Final touch was an exercise mate for the covering & jobs done & was ready for it's test ride.