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Overall, it was good......somehow different from how I in particular imagined? The club was way busier than either of us expected and there was a mix of different people. Although some were quite pushy and even aggressive, but the majority were nice, especially the few that stepped in a couple of times! We had more I guess you'd call them invites than we expected and after hiding for a while and then watching some incredibly hot scenes we kind of hooked up with another couple. It almost didn't happen, but we ended up going back to our hotel with them and yeah.

Is there one that really makes you uncontrollably horny? Have you fulfilled it? Can't wait? Or just want to keep it a fantasy..... Mine (male) is to attempt two cocks in my wife's pussy. It really gets my heart pumping while we are in the heat of passion. While we are going at it and she says, "Imagine another cock sliding in" I let loose. I think I am starting to heat up at my desk. We have not done this and it may take some time to find the right couple. Of course there are many, many more.

Standard Operating Procedure: Be comfortable with the situation Remove distractions from environment Eat a light meal, or not at all No booze

First, don’t go by how many read your post. Some will never post, they just lurk. More important, don’t worry about squirting. Be happy she cums. I’m sure she is happy. I have never squirted and have many many intense orgasms. I have asked my husband if he has witnessed women squirting and he said he has been with women who squirted but not many. I think the majority of women don’t so don’t sweat what isn’t happening. Focus on what you do is great sex.

We have not been to Hedo, but we have been to Desire RM 4 times. We are not in the lifestyle, but we like to hang out with lifestyle people and are voyeurs. All of the feedback that I have heard about Hedo is that is is like spring break. It is a party, and can be wild and lots of fun. Hedo lets single males in. Desire is a couples only resort. People that have been to both say Desire is not as wild and aggressive, it is a bit more romantic. It can be fun and wild, but no single guys. I would look at both and see what fits your interests. There is a good forum for Desire located at Desire Resort Forums ? Index page

Congrats! See, walking in the door is usually the scariest part of the evening. We expect a complete write up, debrief and Q&A session to be scheduled for sometime today...

I didn’t ask for more. I should have, I just never did. I tried not to let it end. I was on top and I kept trying. With him in me I kept my moving and think I was coming close. He just lost his enthusiasm. After realizing he wasn’t going to help I gave up. I tried kissing and doing things but I didn’t say give me more. I gave up at went to the bathroom to clean up and pee and heard the other rooms and heard my husband going strong. I went back to the room and he was sleeping. I tried to wake him up. I gave up and about an hour later maybe longer I tried again. Believe me I tried. I used all the ways I know to get him up and tried to get him to do what he did pretty well before. He responded a little, he got bigger just not hard. He even came a little which made it worse for me. The weekend wasn’t a complete dud. The next night was wonderful.

Not sure what either of us was actually expecting, but overall it was good and we most definitely watched some pretty hot people doing even hotter stuff! lol

There was some pushy people, both couples and single guys......but thankfully there was also some people that came to our rescue! Boundaries were pushed, but we were virtually joined at the hip!

I agree, videos seem like hard work for little benefit. I declined requests for video chats in the past, even those that came from people I was attracted to (and subsequently met, and had a great time with).

As an Ass-loving wife, I find that I have loved analingus since my college days. I have found that if I see a perfectly hard and tanned ass, especially with a sexy ass tattoo, I go for it full force, I get wet, my pussy gets so wet and I have to tell the guy or gal that "I want to suck you ass", which most couples and singles are cool with that. Luckily I married an ass lover who also has a 4" tongue and also appreciates a good, hard and tanned ass like me, so we make more friends with our tongue and ass play.

I know what he should have done. He didn’t. He started as a wonderful partner. He did what I enjoy. I need romance and he was romantic. This was the first time we had been together like this. The couple is friends of our first ever couple. Alone we did all the kissing, touching and our playing was really good. We had plenty of fun and even complimented him on his oral skills. He loved mine too. He even stopped my at some point. I know I would have enjoyed more oral by him after he finished. I gave him time to recover and tried to arouse him with my hand and mouth. He should have done the same he didn’t. I had choices. I could have joined my husband and our friend. I know he enjoys her and I didn’t feel right joining. On top of that, I know she enjoys having sex with me. She is very good at oral. I’m not that excited being with her or any other woman. I have in the past but not my favorite thing. My other choice was to join my partners wife and our friend. Again, I’m not into joining a woman and I figured the next night I was going to be alone with him. That is something I looked forward to. I didn’t want that to change. Just so you don’t feel bad for me, the next night was fabulous. The decision I made was to just ride the night out. I don’t know if he is always like this. It wasn’t discussed except on the way home I told my husband. He said he felt my pain. Lol. No he didn’t. He said if it ever happens again I should join him. I said I would but I don’t think I would. I know he likes watching me with another woman.

Believe it or not there are "angel couples" out there who bring first timers along. Our first experience was with such a couple and we will be forever grateful. They were both very attractive and skilled. Each act was presented in the form of a question and approval/consent. Everyone had a great time.

Peacock - wear something that will draw people to you. It doesn't have to be anything elaborate and it needs to be something you still feel comfortable in, but if you can do something to draw people to you so that they make the first move you'll have an easier time and be less likely to try to attach yourself to the one couple you know. How to start conversations: Hey I love your...... (boobs, outfit, etc) Hey your ______ is so hot (husband, wife, outfit, ass, etc) Is this your first party here, too? This is our first party here and it's a little intimidating (most people will respond favorably to this type of approach, it creates vulnerability and opens doors - and really in the end the goal is to get about as vulnerable as we can - aka. naked). Move around - don't plant yourself too long in one place, especially not alone, it makes you look bored or scared. If you look either of those people are less likely to approach you. Look for other people who look as uncomfortable as you feel and do them (and you) a favor by approaching them. Think of it as doing a good deed.

I would host a group of people that I know, and maybe allow people to bring friends on a limited level (basically - the friends I know and trust the most I'd be ok with bringing someone). I would not host a party at my home that was wide open for many reasons... not wanting strangers in my house for starters, but from the standpoint of wanting a good party, having a closer knit group of people that I've already vetted just means a higher likelihood that everyone will mesh and have fun.

My thoughts exactly. He may have gotten off fast but he should have realized that while his penis was finished for the night, he wasn't. He's still got fingers and a mouth to work with and should have done so.

I started a thread about this a while back https://www.swingersboard.com/forums/topic/59658-why-do-the-men-cum-so-fast-with-my-wife/ Funny thing is my wife brought this up a few days ago. She agreed with me it is no fun for her when it is in/out done.

You are lucky that this is the first time you were in this predicament. This is always a possibility if you want separate rooms. I’m trying to think what I would have done. It is not an easy place to be. You wrote that you are thoughtful of others. Putting pressure on him would have made it worse. I am pretty sure I would have urged him to go down and do more. I also would have tried to get him back up. You say you like the romance and kissing might have helped.

I find it's always easy the next day to think "I shoulda". But at the time, in the moment, one does what their base personality allows. Your actions in this situation show that you are very concerned about ensuring everyone has a good time. You want no stress, no drama, just the good parts. And that's cool. It's pretty common. Looking back, it would have been perfectly fine to get up and say, "Well, I'm still ready for more, I think I'll go see if my husband could use a hand". But that could have started something so you just dealt. As with all things swinging, communication can smooth out the edges. Had you spoken about the events to come and how things may unfold, setting the boundaries, you may have been more comfortable getting up and joining your husband. Probably if 4 professors got together for a swap, they would discuss the options till the sun came up. Most of us though, just go for it and hope for the best. Live, learn, enjoy!

I (the husband) wants to hear all the details and I'd be desperately disappointed if she didn't enjoy the experience! So yes I'd want to know and I'd be ok with that.

We completely agree, communication is key and we're totally happy talking about absolutely everything except it appears after the deed has been done? Its all down to the unknown, but I'm sure that will change!

It's more important (to me at least) that the woman enjoys herself than I enjoy myself. Making sure that the woman has a great time is the easiest way to make sure that I have had a great time. Even if it was quick, there' s other ways to please a woman...

What bryonboru says is correct. If a guy ejaculates and decides the night is over, he is either insensitive or inexperienced. There are at least 999 different ways continuing after an orgasm.

In our opinion your new playmate was selfish. Sometimes the new guy has anxiety and can not get hard, other times they do not last long. Either way he should of continued the fun another and made sure you enjoyed yourself.

Why even wait until the morning after? Talking about what just happened is one of the hottest things (IMHO) we do. Comparing notes on what someone did that was new or spectacular (or not so great) is exciting and fun. If you are having problems with communicating with each other, there could be a deeper issue here. Who is having the problem and in what way?

We've been hosting parties at our home for 15 years, many times with 12 or more couples. We only invite people that we already know and feel that they will fit in with our style of group play. The parties have always been by invitation only and are never publicly advertised. Guests may recommend someone new as long as they have actually played with them and feel that they would be compatible. So far it has worked out well for us and we prefer house parties to hotel parties.

We had a party of eight people once . . . house wasn't big enough for more. We knew two of the couples, one was new to us. We had a great time.

Wow, so many hot fantasies that you filthy folks have! Love it and thank you for the inspiration. We have a few fantasies we would like to share. Hers: a weekend in a cabin in the mountains with me and her BF. She wants to be naked the entire weekend and service the men when they "rise" to the occasion. Shared: a sex party with 5 or 6 hot couples all naked and entwined. Everyone is free to watch, join in or whatever, no hangups and inhibitions. Anything goes. His: tied to a chair and blindfolded and she brings a hot couple into the room. The three of them proceed to have their way with him without letting him cum. He doesn't know who's mouth or pussy is on his dick. At one point he's getting a blowjob and feels a dick being pushed into his mouth and tastes pussy and pre-cum. Then the man explodes inside his mouth. These are all fantasies and don't think they will be fulfilled. However, it's sometimes the pursuit of your dreams that is the most satisfying!

We started out making sure condoms were used. Neither of us really like them. Then we were with the same couple a few times and only them. We had swapped partners and my husband was pumping the woman bareback but pulled out and shot his cum all over her. I licked it all off her mmmmm! Then her husband started on me after I had sucked him. I could feel him better and after a few strokes he said "I do. I have a condom on is that ok"? I moaned yes as I erupted in my first of many orgasms. His cock was smaller than my husband's so after a few orgasms, I said to him 'do you want to fuck my ass?' I turned over and offered him my other opening. He got so excited he came right then!!! Damn it! I wanted his small cock in my ass. The funny part of this is my husband did not know he had fucked me bareback for weeks. He wanted details and wanted to know if he came inside me. I said no, but later I thought hmmmmm, there was no cum on my bottom? I had cum so many times and was dripping wet anyway, so I think he did shoot some of his juice in me. This turned my husband on even more later and wanted a guy to fuck me until he cums inside me so my husband could eat me then fuck me after. Then it happened. The guy was fucking me hard and fast as my husband was fucking his wife. The idea of know this guy was going at me bareback and my husband is watching made me insane with lust. My husband came in the woman then he moved back and I started to eat the woman's pussy after my husband had filled her with cum all the while the guy was pounding me bareback from behind. Then The guy tensed up and emptied a large amount of cum in my pussy and the woman was cumming while I was lapping her pussy. I kept eating pussy and my husband replaced the guy and started to finger my dripping, cum filled pussy, then he ate me then shoved his hard again cock in my cream pie and came again in about 45 seconds. I mounted the woman so she could eat me and when I did this my husband got down and ate her pussy. But I told my husband he needed to clean my cum off the guy's cock. OMG he stopped licking her pussy and started sucking the guys cock!!! This was hot to watch and he did it long enough for the guy to cum in his mouth! Damn it! What a time for all.

May not be that wild, but... There is a manager at work that is very good looking. I hadn't thought about him before, but some time ago I was sitting next to him with my legs crossed at his desk going over some stuff and I was wearing a somewhat short skirt and some heels that day, and I thought I might have caught him sneaking glances at my bare legs. I wasn't too sure at first but when he stood up to grab something as he was coming back I saw an unmistakable bulge in his pants and he clearly had an erection. We were being professional, but I couldn't help but be turned on by the fact that he was clearly hard for me and maybe even fantasizing about me. I had this daydream about him placing his hand on my leg while we were chatting and working his hand up my skirt, and I immediately just swung my legs over him and straddled him sitting on his lap and unbuttoning his shirt while making out. I'd slide down and open his pants and pull his cock out and give him a long wet blowjob until he couldn't hold back anymore and then he would stand up and spin me around and push me over his desk, lift my skirt and slide himself inside me and thrusting himself hard inside me. He'd wrap his arm around my upper body and pull me up close to him as he would speed up his thrusts as he was nearing the point of cumming and I would start to moan and breathe heavily and finally he would just explode inside me. I'd turn around, give him a kiss, pull my skirt down, adjust myself and leave the office like nothing had happened and walk out in front of everybody, knowing what we just did, but no one else knew....unless they heard me moaning... That was my fantasy. We, of course, stayed professional and parted ways like co-workers, but I had that entire fantasy while we were sitting next to each other. I really wish I knew what his fantasy was at that moment.

Giving my wife an ultimate sexual experience. Doing all the wonderful things she loves to have done to her all at once by several people. She would be the center of attention. Both her nipples gently sucked and played with and her clit being licked all while getting fucked with long slow strokes. Throw in some soft kisses and multiple hands gently caressing her body too. It's all about her pleasure.

I do fantasize that one day, my husband will learn to dance. Still holding my hopes up on that one

Hmmmm, so many! Mine has been for my husband and I to have a 3-some with another female. I would like to run my hands all over her, taste her pussy, lick her clit and guide his cock into her wet pussy. I would also like for she and I to kneel and take turns sucking his cock. I am fairly submissive, and I have a leather collar that I like to wear sometimes. I fantasize about having it on, which for us means doing whatever he tells me to without question or hesitation, and having him tell me what to do to her. That would be very sexy! I think I also might like a foursome but that's more questionable. I usually fantasize about a female not a male (other than my husband). But I think sucking a cock while being fucked would be really sexy.

my fantasies.... to lick a pussy while my hubby fucks her to have my hubby and another willing male partner to DP me to watch couples having sex in the same room as me to have others watch me in any of the above situations

Another fantasy my wife has is to have a couple of muscular men come to cook and clean the house. As far as I am concerned, they could mow the lawn too......

I want to do a full swap and be lying underneath my husband and another woman while he takes her on her knees so that I can see his cock slide in and out of her wet pussy. Their juices will drip on my face. Meanwhile, I'm being fucked by her husband while I'm on my back watching the action about. That's just one brief fantasy.

MFMM two cocks in her pussy and one in her mouth. Our shared fantasy by the way. Unfortunately it is too hard to find a single male let alone two.

I have two that take on similar themes. (Hubby knows and approves, it just hasn't happened yet....!) 1) I am lightly tied down, blindfolded by R. Then, a knock at our hotel door and a sexy couple comes in. (I can't see of course, but in my mind they are very sexy!) Then, the 3 of them ravage me in as many ways as possible! 2) This involves another couple. (Or maybe 2 others.) Hubby and I, along w/ the wife of the other couple are enlisted as "slaves" to the other husband. (R could me the "master" and the other husband takes the "slave" role, that would be fine.) We are all required to do the bidding of whatever he asks for with each other, and then I and the other woman take care of him! Pretty wild for a newbie? Renee

Our wildest fantasy is for us and 2 other couples to rent a vacation house for a week in Orlando. One with a private pool and at least one hot tub. All couples will be bi and the would be little rules except that if a door is closed, don't enter but if its open, join in. We can all enjoy sites and sex as everyone just cums and goes. A week of uninhibited sex with friends.

Three of them. 1. A Strip Poker game with three couples, as described in the Erotic Stories in the story file. That was a hot story, and it was just such an excellent way to have variety a little at the time, and be a participant and voyer. 2. At a swing club, two games. First, the six or seven women take turns sitting on a straight back chair, and the blindfolded men take a turn sampling the women, and the man who gets the most correct guesses, gets an hour with the lady of his choice. 3. At a swing club, second game. The same couples, but a different weekend. The men, using coke crate and mile crates to equalize their heights, have their cocks through a hole in a hanging piece of fabric, and the women have two minutes to sample the men, and then guess who is who? The woman who has the most correct answers geta an hour with the man of her choice. Otto & Eileen

I enjoy the roleplay fantasies. i.e. You and the boss are working late shes wearing her business suit skirt set. I keep watching her cross and uncross her legs and she has no panties on...she notices me looking, spreads her legs wide, and tells me to crawl over here and taste her...mmmmmm I like that.

Ok...secret fantasy... don't think J knows this or not... I really get off on seeing pics and videos of it and would love to have it... Double Penetration... Mind you, I am a anal virgin, but have had playing in the area. My goal in the whole swinging thing, is someone showing me the ways of anal sex, and maybe eventually, a double penetration with hubby inside me and someone else in the other (anal) side!.

I'm usually a little jealous so...this doesn't make sense but to have my husband tied down with lots of men and ladies licking him and giving him head! YUMMY

Condoms are used by any male who enters me, except Ted. Our motto is " If you don't play safe, then you don't play at all", or at least with us anyway. IMO, everyone should use condoms, they are not 100%, but they are the best we have right now. Teresa

OhioCouple, Well, it had been a fantasy of Ted's and mine to try and one that we thought would never come to be, due to the fact that most men would not want this because of the close proximity involved. But, as luck would have it we had made plans to play with a single male friend of ours and when talking to him on the phone to give him directions to our house (all kids were gone for the night)him and I got to talking about our past experiences and he brought up the subject as it being one of the wildest things he had ever done. I asked him how he felt about it and he said he was cool with it, it had nothing to do with the other man and him, but it was for the womans pleasure. So with an opening like that I asked him if he would be interested in trying it with Ted and I and he said sure, that we could surprise Ted with it. I debated about telling Ted about it, not sure how he would feel about being surprised with this, but decided what the hell, surprise him. Afterwards when I asked him if I had done the right thing with the surprise, he said yes, I could surprise him like that anytime, lol. So, to answer your question, both men seemed to enjoy it, but our freind was doing it just for me and Ted was doing it for both of us and really enjoyed it. We have since been fortunate enough to have done this with other male friends of ours and luckily, none of them seem to think that it has anything to do with being bi or gay in anyway, but just plain fun and have all enjoyed it. Which I am thankful for because I really enjoy it. Teresa

This is our male half. Our girl half's wildest fantasy is to be alone with a Playboy-model-looking girl for a few hours, no guys or audience around, no inhibitions. She has been around women a lot, but always with guys to get in the way and that bugs her. She always wants a guy by the end of it though. My own fantasies are fired more by neurons than testosterone. My ultimate fantasy is for us to find a couple that we're both attracted to who are also both bisexual and comfortable with it. There are lots of straight men around, or curious men that just can't deal with it, and the 'ew, don't touch me!' thing always feels like a party killer to me no matter what fun stuff is going on. A situation where four people are all mutually attracted, that is sexy to me. Everybody has three different people to play with, nobody is hung up over who touches who, that's sexy.