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Well, it was... Interesting. And, while being a bit of curve ball, ended up being hot. All three couples were a bust. Couple One: we didn't like the way they related to one another; it was uncomfortable. Not at all our cup of tea. They also smelled like cigarette smoke, which makes my nose itch and my throat scratchy. I don't care if people smoke afterward, but, before and during sex? No. Just no. Babe finds that unappealing, too. Couple Two: they were nice and pleasant to talk, but the conversation was bland. It wasn't a match. We all kept it brief and kept moving. Couple Three: were corralled into a corner by couple one before we could chat and remained ensconced in conversation all night long. More power to them! But, we ended up having some sexy fun, anyways. Babe turned a lot of heads. We ended up in a very free-flowing conversation with two other couples (one from the "core" group; one new) conversation that had other people float in and out of it, which moved to the dance floor. It turned into a six person bump and grind, which was a lot of fun. Babe loved it. But, then we lost track of the other couples so we migrated to a play room with several couples in it and started an extended, hot, sweaty bout of vigorous sex. Babe was super-turned on and responsive. One coupled moved right up next to use so they could politely perv on our action while getting it on themselves. The woman reached over and grabbed my bicep when she came. When that couple left the two couples we'd lost track of showed up. I wouldn't call it a "swap" per se, but we all had sex with our own partners in very close proximity to one another with a lot of wandering hands and mouths. It was extremely hot. We both loved it. Afterward, when we were dressed and grabbing snacks and re-hydrating, I had a feel good moment. I have some body image issues and Babe telling me I'm good looking hasn't really sunk in. She's my wife. She has to say that! Anyways, there was a triad at the party who are regulars. One of them is a tall and fit Asian gal who is just sensational. I turned around to find her discreetly checking me out. I'm still new enough to find a woman clad only in heels and a micro-thong novel, titillating, and startling all at once. Our eyes met and she gave me a giant grin before sauntering off. It made me think: "I'm not hopeless." So, we'll be back after the holidays for another go!

You said, "I'm still new enough to find a woman clad only in heels and a micro-thong novel, titillating, and startling all at once." I'm still new enough to find that engaging as well. And I've been doing it for decades. If you ever get jaded at that, wheel yourself to the hospital . . .

Fantastic to hear that even though your night started less than perfect, it ended well! Reading here someone people have absolute horror stories while attempting their first meet, I'm glad yours ended up being a good experience.

I have never had it done to me. I do enjoy doing it to Babe. She loves it and freaks out about it all at once.

We plan to stop when other couples are no longer interested in seeing us naked.

I, njbm, will have 68 years later this month. Cannot go as hard or as long as before but still going well enough. I think you can look forward to going at least as long as this. I just hope to not loose my mind. That would be the worst. Wishing you and everybody the best right up to the end.

I recently turned 70 and I find myself considering whether its worth the effort. My wife and I have a fulfilling sex life. Perhaps that’s sufficient at this point. On the other hand a few years ago I had an MFM scene at a party with a couple who were in their mid-80s and had been playing at least since their wedding night — the year I was born!

Vunderbar! I hope the second encounter is even better for you both than the first!

You asked, "Is normal to be more nervous on the run up to a second meeting with people you've already swapped with?" That's not odd at all. Even though you had a successful first run, you're anticipating how the next one is going to go. It's normal to have butterflies. Enjoy yourself, good luck!