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When we started it took me a couple of years of me playing alone and MFMs with my husband before I felt comfortable enough to let him be with another woman. It also helped that I chose the women. Just be patient and see what little steps can be taken. For instance, suggest having same room sex with another couple without any swapping. Or doing a couples swap where she can do anything she wants, but you're limited to just doing something soft, maybe even just being there with the other woman watching, then having her do a second round with you.

We think either OP is a fool or cuck who is going to end up alone soon, or is getting off on stringing other users along with a giant line of BS. More likey the latter.

LOl so what other things has she done to make you understand that her new BF is not only better then you but she does not care? lol i think your a cuck and you like it. that's great for you - but do not lead us down the garden path. Like your wife and her new lover are doing to you. with your full knowledge.

All of these are HUGE It sounds like SHE decided to open up your marriage so she could have this affair...I don't hear where you really had any option in the matter and that you are perusing an open marriage yourself. You 'almost separated over it a few years back'...what is 'it'. Is it this guy? In which case this has been going on longer than you have implied. The STD excuse is nothing more than an excuse to not reconnect with you. As stated, if she was really concerned about it, she would have already been tested. I would recommend looking up 'cuckold' and 'bull' and doing some reading. It sounds like this is what she is involved with: a strong bull calling the shots (including not having sex with you) and she is obeying his orders. Could be wrong, but even if I am, what she is doing isn't treating you with respect or love. I think everything THO has said is right on. This NEEDS TO STOP NOW (although it sounds like it may already be too late and trying to get her to stop will just be giving her an excuse to leave). This is not looking like it is going to end will. It most definitely NOT SWINGING. Good luck and let us know how things continue.

Amen brother. I like it when I can take all of it down to my nose in his pubic hair

I noted on the original blog that I thought your marriage was in BIG trouble. I did not have time or perhaps, because your foolishness was so obvious, the inclination to go into a more specific response. Tahoe covered it quite well. You should follow his advice TODAY but it's probably too late.

When you're in a club with another couple, the assumpiton by others is that you're a foursome. They will probably treat you that way until proved otherwise. The way to combat this - if you wish to - is to split off from your 'regular' couple and circulate. I would wonder what the expectation of your other couple is. Do they expect they'll be playing with you and that you won't be playing with anyone else? If so, you're on the way to becoming a 'semi-committed foursome.' Now you mention that the couple knows other people. Do they expect to be playing with others, that you may be playing with the clique - or with others - as well? I think you need to understand the desires of the other couple.

Why even wait until the morning after? Talking about what just happened is one of the hottest things (IMHO) we do. Comparing notes on what someone did that was new or spectacular (or not so great) is exciting and fun. If you are having problems with communicating with each other, there could be a deeper issue here. Who is having the problem and in what way?

This has happened to us several times on SLS. Sad to say but we've had better luck on Craigslist.

First, talk to her (outside of a sexual environment)! You can start by telling her that it was really hot and ask if this is something that she wants more of. It sounds like she is trying to share her fantasies with you...let her do this (and you should share yours with her). More and better communication only helps make a relationship stronger. It may feel odd at first, but it's just play! Mostly it sounds like she wants you to be more dominate in the bedroom (and you sound like you aren't comfortable with that). That she is feeling close enough to you to share these secrets is a very good thing. Since it seems like something she wants, wouldn't you LIKE to have her do the things that you have kept secret? As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, and both parties are consenting, there's nothing wrong with this...go for it and enjoy yourself. Don't be afraid to open yourself up to her, after all she is the most important person in your life.

Mrs. E has always been this way, that she's wet and ready to keep going until she doesn't get any more attention and cools off. Invariably, she cums gently when a man enters her and cums hard when she feels a man finish inside her. She's finding that having another man waiting is a big attraction of the whole swinging concept.

Feeling and hearing a man groan/tense up and bust a nut either inside my ass or down my throat is amazing. LOVE bringing a man to orgasm through a handjob too. Something so erotic about seeing a big, masculine man be so vulnerable laying there, shooting his load because of me.

I love the idea of group play. If there is a man in the play then I also want to give him pleasure. Feeling that rock hard cock and knowing I am giving him so much pleasure that soon he is going to shoot his load.

For me it's making him orgasm. When a guy says, "I'm going to cum" I start bobbing my head up and down faster until he explodes. I love the sounds and face he makes when I go all the way down. My best to date is being able to deep throat a 9". It made my eyes water but I did it. My wife gags on my 6.5". Hopefully some day we find a guy that we can trust enough to let him cum inside my ass.

Yeah, you're right about control. And as I've gained more bi experience over the years, being controlled by a masculine, rough man has really fit my sexual likes well. As weird as it may sound, I got tired of mostly dominating women and when I started having sex with men, it was amazing to find a ton of bi men who wanted to continue their dominance with me. I had NO IDEA what I was so submissive. Giving them oral sex, bending over and taking it, riding them etc and just pleasuring a man is without a doubt, my favorite thing sexually.

Absolutely agree with Sirramm's original post. Joining a couple and having the wife get turned on watching her husband as he orally pleasures me his a huge turn-on for me. My experience has been the most sexually satisfying MFM's have been with bi/bi curios couples. Absolutely love when all three are pleasuring and being pleasured at the same time.

OM Gosh THAT is what I am talking about. FINALLY someone who gets it! My husband and I are with you 100%, we hate the whole Cockhold thing. It is not about anything related to that. Great job Sirramm.

Absolutely agree bi oral is really hot. Prefer when his wife watches and joins in. Looking for sensual bi couple in Beavercreek, Ohio area.

I got hard just reading that. I must say the moaning, groaning and body tensing up while I'm pleasuring another man is the hottest thing in the world to me. I usually have my left hand slowly moving up his lower abdomen towards his belly button (along the "happy trail") gently pressing harder and harder as he tenses up while my right hand is playing with the balls and jacking as I bob up and down on his cock w/my mouth. The HOT (literally) cum hitting the back of my throat is an unreal feeling. So I definitely agree, the cum is an awesome part of bisexual make play. It always turns me on when the curious ones will say "oh my god, I can't believe I'm getting blown by a dude...this feels so good". Makes me work even harder

****WARNING: GRAPHIC IN AN EFFORT TO EXPLAIN!**** For me (the male)/us it's the 'scene' of her watching me suck him and tasting them mixed together and anticipating feeling his hard cock pulsate in my mouth as I greedily take his entire thick load into my mouth where I swish it around, savoring the texture, flavor, heat, and most importantly taste, before gulping it down. Hearing him moaning and groaning under me as my hands grope and feel his tensing body with pending explosion coupled with hearing them BOTH telling me how much my efforts turn them on and how they love to watch me. Hearing my wife express her desire with the under tones of his grunting how he is about to blow his cum down my cum hungry throat just amps me up beyond any imagination! Before anyone says one of the words of many I hate the most: CUCKOLD. I'm NOT, nor is she, into that! For "US" it's not about humiliation, forcing, or domination it's about the exploration of turning each other on while enjoying the moment, the act, the outcome, and more importantly the experience TOGETHER. Turning someone ON to the height of total ecstasy is a power, feeling, emotion that is beyond words. So in short...go enjoy cum!!!