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OK, compared to most of your responses, this may seem tame. But the one thing that we did when we were involved with swinging that we really never did before was to talk about sex. I mean, really discuss it seriously and openly. We were finally able to say what we really enjoyed and what we could take or leave. It improved our own sex greatly. And I'll admit that, as much as I loved that young gal I fell in love with and married, I found a woman that I thought was the simply hot as hell!

I have always been shy about having sex. That’s not to say I never talked. I had a friend who asked me if I ever did it. At the time I was a virgin. She kept pushing the topic knowing I had a boyfriend. I did tell her about my first time letting him get to third base. She was experienced at was like a coach. Looking back I must have sounded so stupid. Later I still remember a girl I knew came over to me with a bent finger. She knew I slept with this guy who had a kink in his dick. I didn’t know how to react. In college there were times some of my friends were very graphic about their sex lives. I usually didn’t say much. I did find the stories funny. I asked my husband what guys talked about. He said he never talked about anyone he dated. In HS the guys would brag about the easy girls. He said he knew of eight guys that were with one girl, not at the same time. Now I have been with a few men and I never talked about them to anyone except my husband. I couldn’t talk openly about it. That’s why I love this board, it’s a place to chat.

You will always find at lest one that kinda looks like "oh man why me" lol But for the most part girls are less about the cock and more about the person - and i have to say many guys are the same way when it comes to choosing a girl play partner - if your fun loving and can get hard - you got it made!!!! I tell you a little story - we once did a couple and the guy was hung - but when he heard his wife having some fun with average Joe here he lost that hard on real quick. ( there is more to the story but i'm to lazy to post it now lol )

Have no concern. Others will. Women are attracted to personality traits more than to secondary sex characteristics. Outstanding secondary sex characteristics are a nice bonus but do not drive the initial yes-or-no decision.

So here we are been talking about entering the LS for some time now.. Been married over 25 years she's 47 and I'm 48 and high school sweethearts both of us have never had another partner. I guess most would wonder why even brought this up? Our sex life in incredible we at least have some sort of sex 5 or more nights a week sometimes it's spontaneous. I could be watching tv setting on the couch and she will just walk over pull my shorts down and start blowing me and never say a word!! I'm always running my hand up her skirt feeling her soft satin covered pussy while we are out at diner etc.. We are not ken or barbie but in decent shape and run a half marathon each year for the last 15 years.I'm no porn star below the belt but always make sure she is satisfied. I always want to leave her smiling and toes curled up from having the best sex we can. She has always poked my side when we are out and say would you like to have sex with her or what do you think about that lady over there so she's been giving me suttle hints for years finally clicked in my mind!! I asked her several months ago while she was using her magic wand with her back pressed up against my chest sitting upright my mouth so ever close to her ear both of my hands busy caressing her boobs, as the wand worked its magic, I whispered in her ear would you like another man eating you out while I hold you just like this her response sent cold chills down my back "oh god yes please" asked her would you placed both hands on his head and guide him like you do me to that perfect spot that sends you overboard? "Please tell me more" her breathing growing faster and faster the more details I whispered in her ear of another man bringing her to a orgasm.. several minutes later its a wonder the kids upstairs wasn't scared out of their minds LOL never heard her that vocal coming before!! She gathered her self and turned around and buried her head in my neck and said I'm sorry should have never let myself go like that please don't be mad about me coming to another man!! I said honey I want you to have the best and would never be mad.. She stated Ive always wanted see if another man was attracted to me and what it would feel like having someone beside you touch and caress me. I'm like wow over 25 years marriage and Im just now find out about this LOL.. Over the last several months she/we had been so researching the LS and reading the posts here its like a switch has been thrown with her its incredible.. Told me so many stories positive and negative ones, positive ones gets her so wet!! She been showing me club dresses and has ordered several and modeled them for for me. She will ask do you think will I get any attention with this on and I'm like sure you will poor me will be left out LOL..I then let my hands start to rub all over her while she grinds me dancing in our bedroom she says would you be ok with me dancing with someone like this? I said just feel how hard I am LOL.. Conversions have progressed to what we are comfortable with and both agreed start with a couple local cubs this month just flirt/dance and not to expect anything or push our comfort levels.. Then this morning she said I'm ready to see you penetrate another woman never thought I would hear such from my wife LOL... We are excited/nervous to see where this journey takes us.. Sorry for the long post hope to update with exciting news over the next several months... Charlie & Ally

I think you will find most guys once out of the play ground / high school, just do not talk like the girls do - And really unless you can feel the difference of every "size and shape" you have ever had then whats to tell? I mean for me being a average Joe ( half a foot lol ) most chicks feel the same - i think i could remember two or three that were lets say out of the ordinary. Now fun couples to be with - we may say oh so and so were fun but that's about it.

I made a casual comment to my wife, “if those guys only knew what I was up to this past weekend.” She replies, “why don’t you just tell them? You will no longer need to have a concern that the truth will get out.” I proposed to her that if I mentioned at the lunch table that I was the only man in a hot tub with four naked women, they would never believe me.”

I love to suck cock. The differences between cocks is amazing. I swallow and don’t like a facial. I only bottom and love when he cums deep in my ass

The best time to reconnect is RIGHT NOW! Make the time, call in sick, miss a party, this is and always should be WAY MORE IMPORTANT than ANYTHING else. Reconnect using a condom if it makes her feel better. Her not wanting to reconnect even if you do wear a condom is just another red flag. The longer it takes to reconnect, the greater any potential damage is done. Do some research on 'cuckold'. It could be that he has told her not to have sex with you, only him now. You need to take back what is yours from him. The longer the delay, the more we are concerned about your relationship being damaged. Don't put this off any longer!

Male response here: Depends WAS it better? If yes how and why? If it was just better this time I would say your "frisky" response was adequate. THIS time it really worked for you. Next time maybe not. This has nothing to do with your husbands ability and would not be a problem with me. IF this is a big issue for you in that you truly prefer this guy. or IF this guy is just generally superior in some way your husband can not or will not match, then there is need for an honest , all cards face up discussion. I could probably deal with a bigger equipment issue more easily than "I like him better" If you are happy with your husband and could walk away from the other guy for keeps then an honest and functional answer would be " He rocked my world this time. You guys really got me worked up."

For us what you’re talking about in this post isn’t swinging, it might not be cheating being you knew about it, and if it doesn’t qualify as an affair it damn sure borders on one. You can’t spend a week alone with another person, have continual sexual relations with that person, and spend a considerable amount of time with them without at the least some kind of emotional connection and involvement. In our relationship for either of us to spend a week with a stranger isn’t something that would happen. There are so many ways that can go wrong, not the least of which would be her safety. Taking somebody to bed for a romp during a party or something before coming back to me is one thing, spending a week with them is something all together different. What concerns me the most about the OP is the fact that after your wife spent a week with another man, there hasn’t been any reconnection sex. My wife and I engage in that as soon as we can after any encounter she has with another man. It’s inconceivable to me that if there was no emotional involvement on her part that she wouldn’t insist on reconnecting sexually with you immediately. For me that would be a big warning sign. As for me if that would have been my wife, I don’t care what else I have on my schedule, we’re going to have sex on the first night she gets home and she’s going to tell me all about her week, in detail. To me you both seem to be far too cavalier about this. The only answer I can come up with for that is that one or both of you aren’t treating this with the urgency that you should be. If you don’t have a problem with her having an affair that’s your business, but if you want to maintain a relationship with this woman you need to be more involved in her activities. The other thing you mentioned in the OP is that they burned through, “almost thirty condoms.” Now it’s true I don’t know how many almost is, I do know that thirty would mean she would have had to have gone through more than four condoms a day for the whole week. I’ve known some horn dogs in my day and I don’t think there’s a man that’s walked the face of the earth that is capable of sex four or five times a day for seven days straight with the same woman. Now that leaves you with two possibilities, either this man has the libido of a Greek God, in which case you’re not going to compete with this dude. Or your lady was having group sex all week and she was supplying the condoms. In either case you two need to talk before it’s too late.

Please keep us updated! Your story reminds us of our relationship and we have been swinging for a few month so far with fantastic results both in our relationship and our sex life. We are having the time of our lives, dating other couples like teens, paying even more attention to grooming and health as a side benefit. We very much enjoy seeing one another enjoy every aspect of it, and jealousy has never been an issue with us with our open communication. Have fun and we'd love to hear details! Oh, and btw, finding the right couple is difficult, so try not to get discouraged. Just let the anticipation and dating of the couples be your enjoyment and the sex, IF it happens, a perk.

We get all the concern about std's. However, if the selection process if well refined and you're past the age of procreation, what's the point?

I always fantasize about being hog tied with my sight and sound blocked out while being dped. I love bondage as the submissive with no control and the less senses, the more intense it becomes. I've gotten half of this fantasy with a toy, but a girl can hope that they can get it all.

My wildest fantasy is something that I plan on making a reality this year or next year at the latest. The first I'm going to do is take my wife to the AVN xxx show. There will be hundreds of disease free male pornstars in town looking to have some fun. There are few men, even gay ones that would ever turn down the opportunity to have sex with my wife. I've always wanted to have a group of guys pass her around like a party favor and then turn her into a giant cum dumpster. You know that these guys are tested constantly so it's my only means of ever safely making this happen.

I would never want to have a fantasy that I didn't believe would come to fruition. My fantasy/goal is to see my wife ravaged by a party full of guys. They would pass her around like a party favor while I get the whole thing on video.

There are SO many, how to restrict it to just one, LOL. Fortunately for me, my wife is open to almost anything and we have done a lot of things, or tried to do a lot of things, in our 2 years in the lifestyle. Since this is 'wildest' fantasy, though, I would say: having a gangbang with her in the middle of 10-15 hard cocks. I'd love to watch one guy after another fuck her and fill her pussy with cum and then I would slide into that sopping wet pussy and we'd stare into each others eyes as we finished the climaxing together.

My philosophy is that if you regularly fantasize about something than you should never deprive yourself of seeing it become a reality. I like to think of my fantasies as yet to be fulfilled sexual endeavors. In the next year or so I would like to take a trip to Las Vegas with my wife on our anniversary to renew our vows. After the ceremony we would go back to the room where there would be 4 guys waiting for her. She would take them all on while still in her wedding dress. Eventually she would be drenched in their cum. After we would all hop in a limo to go clubbing for a while. They would be free to have their way with her, whether it be in the limo or the club etc... When we finally got back to the room we would make love all night. The second is pretty simple but it would be such a turn on none the less. I've always wanted to come home and walk in the door and find my wife fucking a couple of guys on the couch. She would be riding one guy reverse cowgirl while the other stood to the side so she could suck him off. She would just say "hey sweetie just give me a minute" and go back to what she was doing. The last is just to see how many guys she could take one after the next. She doesn't have to do anything but lay there on the side of the bed and keep her legs spread. And her mouth open to fluff the guy on deck. I'm hoping for a baker's dozen but we will just have to wait and see.

my wildest fantasy came true last week - we were on an 8 day cruise aand I was in our room on the patio when I heard the door open and in walked my wife with a young man she had picked up in the disco. She had no idea I was outside and I didn't want to spook him so I watched as they played on the bed from outside (through sheer curtains and it was dark ) I had a live porn show start to finish and after they finished she let him out the door I snuck in while she was in the bathroom and surprised her. It was totally unplanned and I got to see everything from a different point of view (fly on the wall -so to speak) Couldn't have worked out better!!

It would be to allow my wife fantasy of being gang banged by a large group of young guys, to see how many guys she could handle in one night, and all of the guys get to fuck her bareback. And my fantasy would be that she would let me film it, so I could show it to some of my friends.

We regularly enjoy double-vaginal. A major fantasy fulfilled and one that exceeded our expectations to the degree that the thought of life without it is unbearable. We'd both highly recommend it! Our current greatest fantasy (and unlikely to be realised, we know) is for Su to be the centre of glory-hole situation, whereby she would be on her knees with a triangular screen around her and suitable cut-outs for the guys to insert their penises and testicles. She would always have three cocks to hand (pardon the pun) but would not be able to see who's she was attending to. The number of guys would have to be at least half a dozen and it woud be nice if we could have reflective glass peep screens so we could see her beautiful face and gorgeous body but she couldn't see ours. Maybe a like-minded group of couples could let the ladies take it in turns to enter the glory-hole booth. Afterwards, it would be to have Su blindfolded while the guys (and girls) all took turns to lick &/or enter her and be blown/licked by her so that, again, she was unable to see who was who at the time. We could even play "Guess the group member's member" type games, lol. The final aspect of the fantasy is to film the entire event with two or three cameras from different angles and have a professionally edited film made of the event for personal viewing and stimulation later (at which point she would then finally see who had done what to her and when). Having just off-loaded that to you guys has made us horny as hell.

I thought of another fantasy since posting the one a couple of posts above this one. I love to watch another guys hard dick go into my wife. It's that first bit of penetration that turns me on. I love to see the smile on her face as she gets fucked, and the look on her face just as another guys slides in is indescribable. She enjoys it so much. My fantasy is to guide the guy's hard dick into her pussy. I guess this is part of my wish to have her have the best time possible, but for me to participate also. I wonder if anybody else has this same kind of thought?

Well, my latest fantasy involves the all female crew of this Russian diesel submarine I bought on E-bay... My all-time favorite fantasy was to attend a bachelor party where no one knows that the woman serving as our entertainment is my wife. My wife was very assertive in public but enjoyed being very submissive in private. She got off being used as a fuck toy by men - the more the better. Her fantasy was to have a group of guys fuck her several at a time with guys lined up to fuck her next. So both of our favorite fantasies were fulfilled when we attended this party at the home of a porn actress. My slutwife asked our hostess if she could get gang-banged in one of back bedrooms. The guys at the party couldn't turn down such a nasty invitation. None of them knew she was my wife and both of us acted as if we had never met. So she fucked and sucked a dozen men as I watched and participated. It was so incredible for both of us...

We LOVE sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths, etc. Gets Seleana so hot she is almost uncontrollabe. Hell, it does the same to me. When it is your wife you are getting the sloppies from, that is exquisite. Nothing sexier. Well, almost. Just our thing i guess.

We're with you!

My wife get extremely excited when we've done the sloppy seconds thing. So do I. In fact, one of her fantasies is to have a group line up where each guy cums in her and the next guy just jumps right in. Every time I mention it, it makes her VERY hot.

Walking my wife into a room lit only by firelight, with ten or so men and women - all strangers - with her wearing a blindfold and dressed in an elegant cocktail dress, stockings and stilleto heels. Then, with her standing in the centre of the room, I unzip her dress and allow it to slide from her body, revealing her glorious nakedness. And then I step away from her, effectively giving her to these people, so that they might pleasure themselves with her, and at the same time, pleasure her to her capacity. Typing that out has definitely warmed me up at my desk.

Wildest fantasy? My wife wants to do a creampie line up (when a bunch of guys cum inside a woman one after the other with no clean up in between).