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Some couples enjoy both watching and being watched. It is part of the thrill. Have also noticed that some women don’t like to see their husband with another woman. The majority of the men we have met truly want to see their wife playing. To most couples who have been doing this for some time are less inhibited. We have met a number of couples that are new. Some wives hold back in front of others.

some times i think we as a group tend to make everything we do about swinging - for me i do not want to go out swinging on a spiel day - those are for us - i'd rather be with my family celebrating the b/day and so would my wife - swinging is not what runs us - its just something we have a hobby in.

When we look for others your body is less of a problem than your attitude, that is to say I can and do find something in a chick no matter what her size is if I can make a connection of some type - we are playing for the novelty of having fun with others - not looking for a goddess to take home a keep forever lol.

I hope that you don't worry so much that you can't rise to the occasion. Are you so big otherwise that perhaps proportionally you feel off? Going bald makes it look bigger. Please don't get a lack of confidence that gets the best of you

For the first time last night we have been with another bisexual guy whom I have been seeing for a short while. This was the first time that the wifey watched me with a guy in person. She joined the action and we both took turns fucking her and me and wifey sucked the guy, she was riding him while sucking me and he was licking her while I was sucking him off. It was a great experience. We are meeting the guy again tomorrow.

Darling don't worry about it, there are swingers of all shapes sizes and ages, there is someone for everyone and most are very accepting of anyone. And in my experience there are many men, perhaps even the majority, that actually want and prefer curves on a woman and some padding. Just relax, be confident, and enjoy yourself, this is the most important thing. Don't waste energy on what you think others might be thinking, especially as you're probably wrong. If it gives you any extra confidence my weight fluctuates and my waist measurement can range from a size 14 to 20 (UK). My hips are between 46-49". I always have a tummy and sometimes a belly. I have never once had any problems, been turned down, or been disappointed. Often guys are lining up for me and I'm always getting compliments on my arse. But I'm not a small girl, at all. Also, one of my friends frequently swings, she's very big, size 28 I think. She doesn't have problems, she's not for everyone but she's never been left disappointed either. Lastly I've seen and been with pregnant girls on occasion at a party and once or twice in a club, and they usually have a queue of men behind them going out the door and down the street! And loads of swinging women have had kids, sometimes lots of then, it's fine! Have confidence, and have fun!

from Oklahoma, Skullsaw. I think most people think their "bits" are not up to par, Ma'am. It doesn't seem to be your problem, so I'd suggest you swing into life! My late wife loved the months of her pregnancy. No matter what she did, she couldn't have gotten more pregnant. All those months brought about memorable experiences, including a friend who mentioned that he'd never had sex with pregnant woman. His wife had never had sex with me, so...