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I mostly have sex without my husband nowadays. In the past, he did like to watch, but I always felt a little self-conscious. Curiously, I did not have a problem at clubs or parties, where It was a bit mor anonymous and I was having sex in a room full of strangers. I did not particularly like watching my husband when he was havin sex. I know that it is not fair, but I would feel a little jealous.

This is sounding better and better!!!4 couples always seemed to us to work better than 3. Your odds increase and hell…that means EIGHT boobs to fondle! We've found swinging to be an erotic adventure. It sounds like you guys are about to have one. We'd all like a full report!

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Recently, we played with a couple and the guy was a bit on the small side. On the upside he seemed to stay towards the walls of my vagina which gave me more sensation (and I'm guessing him as well), unfortunately he also pounded away. At first this felt good as it was pounding my clit and felt pretty good. However, after a bit I had to tap out as it was making me really freaking sore and left me feeling a bit bruised. That said, there are times when I like to get pounded, but I don't want it to go on for a long time. There are times I will ask for it and it's because I know it will drive me over whatever edge I'm on or because I'm getting tired and I know it will drive him over his edge. Short answer: pounding really depends on the situation, pounding away forever is never a good thing.

This would be my thought as well. Granted there are all sorts of options in this situation, but should you not hit it off with this couple it would leave you guys feeling "odd man out" of sorts, since everyone is there to play and the other two couples are good to go with each other, and you are only good with one couple. If they couple is too far away to arrange a face-to-face meet prior to the weekend, then I'd suggest a skype chat (with the 6 of you) and then depending on how that goes with just you and the new couple to get a feel for your attraction to them. If they totally turn you off then I wouldn't waste the time doing the weekend thing as a 6-some. As to your original question (which has already been answered) there are endless ways to meet others, and you should find ways that feel the most comfortable and natural to you.

For me personally if I thought too hard I'd probably say no, too many people, but if like you say we throw caution to the wind.......I guess it might be fun?? Both of the new couples are attractive, which definitely helps, but yes it would probably be nice to say hello first and see if we connect?

We've done it often but with toy & cock only...she loves it.

I've never noticed any hesitations on just giving a woman oral sex after someone else has done the same for her, or even after she's been penetrated by someone else, but I think there is a lot of "it depends" involved too. Giving a woman oral simultaneous with penetration or after he's cum in her if it's bareback sex, i.e. creampie, then I think that's a bridge too far for many guys. On all the scenarios, I suspect it's a subjective mental thing on how much "separation" there is between the male and female. If her pussy had a cock in it 10 minutes ago, then not a problem. If he just pulled out two seconds ago, then problem. Where that line gets drawn, if at all, just depends on the individual and their preferences.

Some couples enjoy both watching and being watched. It is part of the thrill. Have also noticed that some women don’t like to see their husband with another woman. The majority of the men we have met truly want to see their wife playing. To most couples who have been doing this for some time are less inhibited. We have met a number of couples that are new. Some wives hold back in front of others.

I’m not big on porn, but in real life I enjoy watching and being watched. In the middle of an intense sexual act I tend to get pretty much into my partner(s). I recall being at a party and fucking on the floor with a woman (it was a hotel suite and crowded) I’d met earlier that evening. As this partner and I were getting started I had noticed a few feet from us a couple chatting with a third guy (a host of the party). They didn’t even seem to notice us as I slipped into my partner’s pussy. We’d been fucking for some time and at one point I glanced over and noticed that the couple had stopped their conversation and were both languidly masturbating as they watched us. It was an incredible turn on and within a few seconds I began to orgasm.

Watching is a massive part of the experience for us. I can't say I particularly like being watched, but I do appreciate that my husband enjoys it, so I try not to dwell on the fact at the time. I wasn't sure if I'd even like seeing my husband with someone else, let alone actually enjoy watching him. So I understand people who aren't in to it, but for both of us its most definitely same room or not at all.

Over the past couple of years I have occasionally played, sometimes even at a swingers' cub, with a transgender person. All of the secondary sexual characteristics are there but, more significant for me, the impressions that this is a woman in a woman's body. And she really, really enjoys sex. Modern surgical technique is remarkably well developed in this area. This woman, very happily, also has a remarkable support group who surrounds her.

We have a vanilla friendship with a MTF TS. I can tell you one thing that may help: Do not call them shemales. Most transgendered consider this to be a pejorative term.