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My wife and I have discussed going to a club and exploring our sexuality for years. Talking about bisexual encounters gets us going in bed. We were in town for our night out over the holidays, and she brought it up again. She either wanted to go to a strip club or a lifestyle club. I chose some options presented them to her for some research and she chose a local lifestyle club. I then sent her some etiquette information and a post or two from here to review. The info on this board is very instructive. We had our talk last night, talked about fears and desires, and set our rules. I told her this first time was all about her and she appreciates that. Then, at the end, she said that she was actually worried that she would love it and go all nympho. That could be fun. Then we fucked like rabbits. The sex life is defiantly better fantasizing about swinging. Can’t want to see what it is like after our first visit next weekend.

It's been a while since we were there and it wasn't on a Friday, but all in all, it's a well run club so I expect that some of the single male problems you might run into other places won't be an issue there. I'm with you, you've got it all set up and you both are looking forward to it, so don't sweat the details and just enjoy a night out together!

Thanks to you both! We are keeping plans to go. You probably know how much of a pain it is to arrange someone to watch the kids.... So yeah.... I'll report back after the experience.

I suppose perhaps my definition of poly is not accurate. The overall theme of responses here is indicating that Poly means that all players are equal. With that I suppose we are just elevated swingers. We will never put other people at the same level. We do have an emotional connection with them and it grows stronger every day but we won't ever forget who we are in this.

If you call them "Tranny", you're going to have a bad time, and not much success.

We have a vanilla friendship with a MTF TS. I can tell you one thing that may help: Do not call them shemales. Most transgendered consider this to be a pejorative term.