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Just a few days away now. I'm a little nervous. My wife is excited! We are just going to mingle, dance, and then play with each other in the back. Trying to just get acclimated. She's a type A personality so she gets an adrenaline rush out of being nervous. I'm not a type A. LOL. She's great and coaxing me along though, so I'm looking forward to it.

After we decided to make a real attempt to have the first guy to join us for a evening and have a little bit of adult fun and we were both slightly shocked by the enjoyment the evening brought.

Still waiting for my chance to come off the bench and play one year in. Guys what was it like for you the first time you entered a woman with your wife right there in the same room? Were you nervous, excited, worried your wife would get jealous, etc.?

... but he's the exception.... he's gotta be because he's special. Oddly I've gotten the same from couples on my SF account where I stated that I was only interested in single males. ANd now that I have another couples account we get the ones from single males.

It is quite awesome. Have only done it 3 times and each was amazing for all of us!

There will be many people in your age group. We’ve been on 2 Bliss cruises. One big tip is to reach out to other Bliss cruisers on SLS. Tell the other people your room number and open your pictures. Keep a list of prospects where both sides seem interested. Leave a note on their white board and try to meet for coffee, lunch or dinner. There are meet and greets, speed dating and massage classes (sign up early). Also, get seated with other people for dinner. And try to go on land excursions and meet people. We also like trivia contests or name that tune, if they have it. Small quiet groups. Bring business cards with your picture and cabin number. If that sounds too intense and goal oriented, do relax, have fun with your spouse and let things happen organically. On the November 2017 cruise, my member needed a splint. In March, 2017, we only played once. Like all swinging events, circumstances and luck play a role. Have fun and enjoy the vacation and enjoy your spouse above all.

In fifteen years of lifestyle activity, I've never seen it.

Personally I find desperation extremely unattractive and that is one of the reasons I felt that our online were a waste of time.

Hi Well it sounds like your on the right track for what your looking for - and as long as you keep that (above quote) then you two will be fine. Good luck to you all.

Here's a follow up to my original question. I used STDcheck.com to arrange for the testing. They offer a 10 panel test for $198.00, covering HIV type 1 & type 2 antibody/antigen (4th gen), herpes type 1 & type 2, hepatitis A, hepatitis B & hepatitis C, chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis. After setting up an account and making your online payment, you choose Quest or Labcorp for your blood draw, and then you print a certificate for that lab that describes the tests to be done and to indicate you've already paid for the tests. Because it's a simple blood draw, you don't need to schedule an appointment (which can further protect your identity, if that's important to you); you can walk in, present the certificate, and then wait for your blood draw. I scheduled an appointment just to be sure I wouldn't have to wait. I went to Labcorp, presented the certificate, and they did the blood draw. Total time there was less than 10 minutes. The medical assistant was very nice (and chatty). I received my results in my account mailbox the next day. (All clear!) That was surprisingly fast but it may be because I live in a major city and lab facilities are abundant. While the cost felt a bit steep, the experience was easy and quick.

Preparation (waterproof bed cover underneath the sheets plus a change of sheets and/or a couple of very large and thick towels) and forewarning any lucky gentleman/lady is a sum of pretty much the best ideas. Our group had a couple of ladies who were known as squirters and celebrated as such without being mean to the women. Any regular guys just knew that playing with that the women would or could result in a spray. I also had occasion to perform oral sex on one visiting milf lady whose watching boyfriend warned me of the pending deluge. I loved having my face flooded by her even to the point drenching my t-shirt front!

I love them myself but if you're in someone's home just advise your playpartners to have a towel handy, it's going to be a wet ride!