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Thinking about it some more, how many gay guys do you think say to one another, "Let's find a woman who will let us put our dicks in her vagina together. "?

It's not gay if it's a three way: Ok, back to our regular serious programming. D

Deep breath and no pressure. IF anything happens, then just go with it. If you put pressure on either of you, then it becomes less fun and more work. Go and have a good time and then go home. Instead of pressure or nerves, think antici...pation and excitement. Also realize that during and afterwards, your brain will most likely be telling you that this isn't happening when in fact it is. Just live in and enjoy the moment of spending time with someone you love.

Happy to have you with us and glad you started right in with a question. Asking a question like this is exactly what this Web site is designed for. I hate to answer a question with a question. But I feel I must in order to understand. You have said what your husband wants. What do you want?

While we have been active swingers where we both have played with other couples together or in separate rooms, there have been situations where my husband has just watched me with the other man. In fact, recently we have been moving to more of a hotwifing or cuckolding lifestyle. My husband seems to get more pleasure watching me with other men than having sex with other women himself.

Welcome to the Swingers Board, we're happy to have you here with us!

Hi! We are also very (very) new to this whole thing and we did discover something interesting. It started on a vacation to Florida where we stumbled upon a nude beach. My husband and I had never been to one (or ever thought about it). At first I was sooooo nervous at the thought of taking off my clothes in public! What I realized when we were there was that everyone else was naked so it was more normal to take my clothes off than leave them on! Same thing in a swing club. When we entered the back area and everyone was touching and playing, we attracted less attention when we engaged in playtime of our own. I think that's my take on it. Only you think and feel it's weird, the people there think it's totally normal! That thought process should take the edge off. Good luck!

Welcome to the Swingers Board. Enjoy the joys of an open marriage!

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I remember my first kiss at age 12 with tongue. A boy who touched my breast at 13. How many times did I have to push his hand away? We progressed to him unhooking my bra. He was my boyfriend for a year and he never got my pants off. Any touching was through clothes. A few times he tried. I was almost 15 had started dating an older boy, he was 16. He got to third base in about a month. On my 15th Birthday we were at his house. His parents were at work. My first time naked and seeing him naked. I chickened out going further. We dated for months and got naked together plenty but we never went all the way. I finally did it with another boy on our second date. I was not 16.

Well, we have only watched season 1 and 2 so far but regarding action we liked episode 5 of season 2, Nikki and Daniel from Dallas. We found them both hot to look at, although Nikki was a bit too pushy and Daniel was or acted shy. What ever you do, don't choose season 1, episode 4 (Mark and (another) Nikki) unless you want to see full unreasonable drama with lots of yelling. We could not finish watching that wreck.

Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. If you decide you want to be gang-banged then it is up to YOU to set the rules for what happens and make sure that they are expressed to the guys involved. Here are a couple of other topics that you might want to read through: Gangbangs for him or for her? Gangbang Advice