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A quote from the late Mrs. Alura: "I never question my husband's taste." Love doesn't make us blind, it enables us to focus more sharply. That's why your husband sees your beauty without even noticing the Mommy Tummy. Men with whom you swing won't have that love, but most will have experience with mommy tummies and won't care one whit.

What are the real, true thoughts (mostly from men) on the “Mommy tummy” most women have? This can attest to stretch marks, a little loose skin etc. from pregnancies over the years. My husband says he doesn’t notice it much or pay much attention to it. Obviously women will critique ourselves the most and we notice it far more extensively on our own body’s, but for husbands/play partners, in an honest opinion, does it bother you? Do you even notice it all, is it a slight turn off or not at all just something that’s there but not worth a second thought. I just don’t fathom has it cannot NOT be bothersome to those looking at it. I work out daily, am in pretty decent shape (26 inch waist) but that dreaded skin is still there. It drives me nuts, and oh the jiggle it has when I’m on top of my husband trying to enjoy myself...when I feel it begin to move, I immediately focus on that and hiding it. Please don’t say “believe your husband” because despite me knowing he is saying the truth on his stance, he is also blinded by the love he has for me and the fact that it’s my skin that gave him children. However, that does not make it a desirable attribute. It makes it there.

Well, box well and truly ticked!

This was our first mfm in a hotel room after a while wife changed to her lingerie and she said why don’t you guys get comfortable and put your robe on, and I did and sat next to my wife saw corner of my eyes our friend was taking he’s very clothes off me and wife were talking and all of sound my wife was frozen watching our friend naked and very large and thick cock, definitely bigger than me, so she really enjoyed it at some point she was riding him like he was my size, which he wasn’t and my wife started to tell him she was gonna cum again if he wanted her to gush all over him, it was very HOT, I was worried in the beginning that I hear some men have eraction issues at first time , so it could happen to me as well, but that night i orgasmed 7 time and mrs I forgot to count after 12, it was very sexy and erotic

Congrats on getting that first time out of the way. It seems like Friday nights at the bigger clubs are always a little more reserved in a way, less mingling, etc. It's like people are more comfortable mingling when they are forced to by proximity. Everyone wants others to do the approaching, so do yourself a favor and if you see someone you'd like to talk to approach them. They'll be grateful, you'll be grateful, everyone will have a better time.

OK! So we went to Trapeze. The food was great. We went on a Friday night (single males allowed), and so I think the vibe was a little different. There were single guys scattered about, but all of them were respectful. I think it was because of this that people weren't really mingling. We ate, drank, and people-watched for quite a while as the place filled up. Not many couples were talking to others. We had a great time just talking to each other, having a few drinks, and dancing. One thing that was really great is that you feel really free to dance dirty in the club for obvious reasons. Around 11:30 we got out of our clothes, charged into the back like a boss, and had crazy good sex with each other in the couples room. Anxiety about PDA, being around people in the lifestyle, and having sex right next to others is now gone! It was a great suggestion from the group that we do this prior to our Hedo trip. I wish we could have interacted more with people, but it didn't seem like that kind of a night. We are going to make a return trip on a Saturday night (couples only) to see if that changes the vibe.

I always felt that women five years plus older than me were more experience sexually and open to experimentation. I dated my massage therapist who was seven years older than myself who opened up new avenues of pleasure I never imagined. She knew how to use her hands on my genitals in ways that could not only delay the pleasure of orgasm indefinitely but massage me in ways that made me cry out with passion. She also had a Darkside and knew how to become a dominant bitch to encourage me to do her will whenever needed. Experienced with a strap on dildo she would take advantage of my submissive side and have me pay for play face down getting screwed with her dildo. She really knew how to massage my prostate with a dildo like no one else.