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They haven't been back since 3am on the 18th (later that night?). Maybe it was so great, they are still in a coma from the event...

I agree it does not make to much sense to myself either - and after most of her other posts i am really confused now lol. She seems to be a wife that loves her husband in other posts so why all the put downs about him now? "My husband has actively and aggressively been working on making his cock bigger for the past year." Well yes from what the guys say it takes a long time "When we started opening up to multiple partners I think he became self-conscious about his cock size." Well his size is bigger then a lot of guys so why would he get this idea? why do you think he wants a bigger one? "Not a day goes by that he doesn't pump, hang, tug, pull, or something. And he has gained in length and girth." Well again i think they have to - so the gains do not go away. "So of this is my fault because I've definitely started leaning towards the more well hung men." Oh what does this mean? so you only go after them now or you let him know you only want bigger men now? what does that mean? "I've never said a thing to him directly about his size in any way but is there a point that I should." Why do you need to say any thing but good things about his size - does it bother you? did you not know he was his size and now your not happy? "Yes he's made gains but he'll never be my dream size though we have friends who seem satisfied with it." WTF? are you saying he does not satisfy you - it sounds like your just putting up with it until something better comes along. actually this is a big red flag lol " I worry that at some point he'll harm himself and a broken dick is probably worse than a small one." maybe not you will then have nothing to worry about because this will be your ticket to getting all the bigger cock you want and you will not have to put up with his small one any more - "Or should I just let him go at it? He seems to be happier with the improvements." Up to you what do you think. "I'm a big gal and understand being insecure but how do I voice my opinion about his." Well just talk to him - Eg: Honey you know we have been together x amount of years and now that we a swingers and we communicate well - i want to have a talk about you tiring to get a bigger willy. I'm worried you will hurt yourself, now it bad enough that i have to put up with that little thing and thank GOD i can get big cock from others, but if you hurt it then we will not be able to go together to the swingers ( put in where you go ) and that means I'll have to go alone - which you know i'm a little insecure about right. Any way you should stop because your never going to be my dream man - so why oh why even try!!! I really think you should be happy that at lest some one likes your dick - but you will never be any real use to me so stop now please. Wow.

My husband loves to eat my pussy while another man is fucking me. When the man cums I sit up over his mouth and give him a very wet cream pie. I also like doing that with another woman while a man is fucking her. Deb

My wife and I met in our late 40s and when I turned 50 she decided to take me on a special trip. She knew I was into BDSM and strap on sex and actually screwed me with a strap-on dildo over my couch for the first time when we were dating. She definitely did not allow me to screw her ass but was surprised when I licked her ass and gave her an orgasm. So for my birthday she decided to give me a treat and give me a good ass screwing. We stayed in a beautiful hotel with a walk in shower that would be perfect for screwing me. Needless to say after we came back from dinner and drinks she took me into the shower got me sudsy strapped on the leather harness and 8 inch dildo and went to town screwing my ass with me bent over holding my knees. She claims she never used a dildo before but she screwed me like a pro. My prostate was never the same for several days. She gave me one of the tiny blue pills and we went to bed and screwed several times during the night. Truthfully she doesn’t like doing the work that it takes to screw me with a strap on adding that she got zero feelings while she was screwing me with a dildo. She decided to eliminate strap on sex from her sexual repertoire crossing that off her bucket list. She knows I enjoy anal penetration and doesn’t mind me doing myself in the shower.

My wife is 4’10” on a good day. She does not want a big p. Sometimes you don’t know what they are packing till the clothes come off.

I have seen far more looks of pain from women on too big than lack of pleasure from too small (as in never on the second one)

We are total exhibitionist. we love being watched and watching others. Once in Amsterdam, I fucked 10 men on the stage of a club and it was so intense, I would love to relive that experience. we both love to be in front of a camera also and we love to share.

Anyone else wondering what happened here? I was anticipating a full report or at least a summary. The OP disappeared instead!

We talked about rules long before ever even making the first attempt of just going to a club. Kissing was one of the first things that was brought up. My wife wasn't sure she would be okay with watching me kiss another woman. My response is that we are both very passionate in our own sex life and kissing is an integral part of getting turned on but it doesn't have to necessarily mean we are crossing an intimacy boundary, we are just getting ourselves warmed up. She seemed to accept that answer and relax some. She loves being kissed so I think when she visualized it more as herself rather than me she understood better. We agreed that kissing was OK but also agreed that if it made us uncomfortable we wouldn't stop it at the time but would revisit it at an appropriate time. Incidentally, A while back there were three couples sitting by us in the club. There was lots of kissing going on back and forth across couples as the night progressed. My wife was very observant of that. Up to this point we had only played very lightly, not even really soft swap in the club, limiting any real play to just ourselves. After that last night we agreed we were ready to take another step if the opportunity presented itself. We talked about the rules and she mentioned kissing again but this time she said after watching the way those three couples interacted with playful kissing and how that was a turn on to watch she was more confident it would be OK. Fast forward to our first swap. She was really into the kissing and actually made the first move on the other guy. It was passionate and enthusiastic. I could tell she enjoyed it and got turned on by it just by the way she leaned into him and grabbed the back of his neck the way she does with me. I have no problem with it and she doesn't now either. To answer the original question. 1) Same room. 2) Condoms for penis/vagina penetration. 3) If anything happens that we aren't comfortable with or prepared for we have the right to stop it, no questions asked. However, we agree it's probably best to let it continue unless it's a health or safety thing and talk about it at a more appropriate time and adjust accordingly. Things can happen and we can get caught up in a moment, perhaps one gets a little too romantic, passionate, animalistic, whatever, because we might be feeding from whoever we are with at the moment and it feels good. I'm not going to stop her in the middle of fucking just because she says, "Oh God, I love your big hard cock" and she's never said that to me before. I'm going to let her enjoy her big hard cock and later in the week bring it up in an adult way. Maybe I'd say something like "you might not even remember saying it but it was a little more than I was comfortable with hearing you tell Bob you loved his big hard cock". Just for the record I'd never say that because I loved hearing her say just that during our swap. It's just an example of how we have agreed to handle it. I made a point, on Wednesday, after our first swap on the previous Saturday to find some quiet time and ask if there was anything we needed to discuss about the weekend like adjusting our rules in any way or if something happened that she didn't want to happen again. Her first reaction was to ask, in a concerned tone, if there was something I needed to talk about. I told her absolutely not, I loved every second of it but it was a question that I felt would always need to be asked and she could count on it being asked again. That answer from me got me a nice blow job and a quickie:-) I figure it's a good idea to wait a few days to allow ourselves to digest the events, come down from the high or recover from the disappointment and know we are going to have some time to talk.

My husband is averaged sized (although a little above average for an Indian guy), so approximately half of all men are better endowed than him. It does not seem to bother him in the least when I enjoy a bigger cock than his. In fact, he encouraged me to try much bigger men, and even helped me "prepare"by using BBC dildos on me.

The only thing I'm looking at is if she is happy and having fun and enjoying herself. If she is achieving all of those things with a guy who has a big cock, then great. Same goes for guy with average size cock, same goes with guy with small cock, etc. It's not just about the cock, it's about the whole package and the experience.

We haven't crossed this bridge yet, but I can tell you that my wife has had all sizes prior to marrying me 20 years ago. One of her previous boyfriends was very big. Bottom line: there is a whole lot more to attraction and pairing up (mating) than size of the unit. Most women look at the big picture and how all the elements add up from personality to humor to body and everything in between.

This spring, my wife and I decided that we could play separately. She is definitely a 10 in the looks department, and I am lucky to be considered a 7. So, obviously she found it easy to find a guy to play with, and I have not. I have tried finding girls on tinder, SLS, and a few other sites. No luck! Should I just reside to the fact that I'm not going to find someone? Seems women are not that likely to play with a married guy in the way guys are willing to play with married women.

The only time it has come up was with one our first experiences. The other lady had a DP fantasy, she brought it up, and we all did talk about maybe trying to make that happen. All involved were new to swinging though, so even just your run of the mill full swap didn't quite come off as well as hoped, so never even got close to trying for the DP thing.

One of our playmates is a total exhibitionist ... she even hosts a forum and posts pictures for "butterscotch" types (these aren't really vanilla people, but they're not folks she swings with either). I sometimes get nervous when being watched, but in my fantasy-land, I'm a total super-porn-star.