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This is recreational sex…sex for fun! What you described doesn't sound like a whole lot of fun to me!

Hopefully, Padoc, they live in Egypt, Louisiana.

In New Jersey prostitution is illegal but not a major crime. Post a bond and be home before the sun comes up. Im guessing that in Egypt the jails aren't very inviting for those charged with prostitution and I'd guess the police wouldn't be too happy with the husband accepting $$ for the wife's favors. The OP might want to consider moving to a more liberal country before pimping out the wife.

Be careful asking to get paid. Prostitution is illegal and though you most likely won’t get arrested there are stings out there. We enjoy picking men up at a hotel. Mike stays on the other side of the bar and watches me pick up men. Men think I’m a hooker but I never ask for any gifts.

We're not here for infinite variation, just an occasional change, so we don't have a problem with just seeing one other couple. We only see each other about once a month so it doesn't really get stale. For us, FWB is what we want, learning another couples wants and needs, not endless variation. At the same time, it's different strokes for different folks and what works for one may not work for another. Just because you can have endless variations, doesn't mean that it should always be tried. Some things just don't go together...like tuna fish in green jello, orange juice and mint ice cream, or popcorn and catsup. Just because you can have some variations, it doesn't mean you always should.

She's FINE! What is her current going rate? I was once told a long time ago to never take a hobby and make it a business...it ruins both.

We all get turned on by different things. As long as you are in agreement go for it. Be up front about it though. Don't lead guys on though and then spring the escort thing on them after you've got them expecting something else. That's not cool in my opinion. There are escort sites where she can "advertise" herself as such and play in that arena where everyone knows what's expected. If it's that much of a turn on for her she'd probably love a site like that.

Hey, whatever you want to do is fine with me. But . . . When she's doing it as a hobby, she can pick and choose her lover and control the experience. When she's getting paid, she's an employee and her job is to pleasure her employer. She loses some control.

"Why judge when a high majority of cpls weren't brought into it, being without issues". We ALL judge. That's how we decide who we meet and with whom we get naked. People judge things every day…do I have enough time to make this light? is the sushi in the Race Trac too old to eat? is that dog friendly? Most swingers value honesty in their playmates and reasonably JUDGE cheaters as being dishonest. If a guy's wife doesn't want to swing, he is (or should be) pretty much outta luck he made vows and promises. I'd suggest that you don't lie to your wife for a chance to fuck mine. It's just simply dishonest.

Many of us on this board embrace openess and honesty, that doesn't fully happen with cheaters. Sure they are open with perspective new partners. There can be many reasons why a marriage becomes sexless and someone feels the need to cheat. I just don't want any part of it. Perhaps there should be a swinging cheaters site if Ashley Maddison is too traditional for them.

I don't think we would decline. We are both pretty open-minded, and discretion is of big importance to us. We have met a few singles that were attached, some were honest about it, others I personally have been contacted by the gf, or so. Our priorities are to answer to each other, there simply isn't enough free time to run background checks, and play P.I. Life's too short. If I am comfortable with couples, or singles, my so leaves it up to me. Generally speaking, as long as the drama doesn't come around to us, not our concern.

We have gone to alcohol free swinging activities. I never realized how important it was. We had a couple two weeks ago at the club I’ve had bad experiences at and definitely had success with zero alcohol. I was worried the whole time walking back with the lady. But I got hard and the confidence went way up. I’ve been on cloud 9 since. I don’t need liquid courage anymore. To socialize, without alcohol, is something you have to learn, but, it’s definitely worth the learning experience.

We have really good friends that got us going. Luckily they had friends that accepted us a play partners. Up until we started playing I didn’t need any variation. I thought I was the luckiest man in the world to fuck my wife’s best friend. My wife who is now acting out he bi side told me how she gets so excited when she knows she is going to be with someone new. At first I was self doubting that she needed variety. Now I say why not enjoy.

This is true. Many years ago, my wife and I accepted an invitation to a meeting at a remote mountain cabin from a man and a woman who were married -- just not to each other. We accepted the invitation and subsequently had a couple more nice play dates. About a year after the first meeting, a call came from the woman saying he had been found out. We wished her the best of luck in future endeavors and knew we would never hear from either again. So here is the thing. We made it clear that if either or both got caught that they should not expect either of us to get onto a witness stand and tell lies. They understood and seemed to have already considered their risks. We considered ours. If we encountered a situation like this again, we would consider it on its merits. We have encountered and heard of other married-but-not-to-each other pairs. Although not having played with these others, we don't walk circles around them or treat them like outcasts in social situations. Unless you know the whole story, how can you judge,

Ok people... This next week or so is about to get crazy. We are meeting a couple on Saturday (second meeting-first was just dinner) to have drinks and do some dancing the night before our flight leaves for Hedo for the week. So Saturday night we are staying in the same hotel and seeing where it leads. Then we go off to Hedo until Friday. It's about to get real.

We go to Mexico three or four times a year now. Generally we stay a 7 to 9 days. We like Hidden Beach Resort, El Dorado Royal, El Dorado Maroma, etc. We simply have never had an issue with travel to and from the resorts from CUN. We do use Lomas Travel for transportation and line it up before leaving home. For quite a few years now we have not left the resort to go shopping, bar hopping or restauranting like we used to. Day trips to Tulum, etc. not a issue, but we avoid the real Mexico towns, bars, restaurants now......... Julie