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Connection On-line: what a blast of nostalgia. It's now my turn in the confessional both. I once set up a bogus profile. Like you, I had an intention. I was suspicious about a couple whom we had met and who wanted to get down and dirty with us. So I made a fake profile that included, "We have herpes and we're looking only for other people who have herpes." The people with whom I has suspicions came up immediately to take the bait. I quickly and forthwith deleted the fake account. How many Hail Mary's do I have to say to receive absolution for my sin?

None of the above, but more of a combo of those. I just love meeting new and similar minded people from all walks of life. One thing I think we can all agree on is that no one is perfect in every aspect, and with that its what makes us all interesting and fun - even the most initially seemingly boring or physically unattractive people can turn out out to be amazing in some ways. My man loves it in this order: her legs, bum, breasts, face, personality, in that order. Typically younger women. As the saying goes: most men are mostly attracted to physical attributes, and most women are mostly attracted to social attributes. Myself, if we're talking "perfect" here: at least some decent sense of humour, at least somewhat confidant in himself, an average amount of athletic bodily muscle just not huge or ripped, I'm not overly bothered about his dress code as long as he's not a tramp, and if we have some similar interests. Age is just a number but generally I prefer older men, being 27 the sweet spot for me is 35-45ish. Sexually: 7-10" long and thick, can go mostly fast/hard for over 15 minutes? I'm not turned on by excessive violence bondage BDSM etc though I love having my hair pulled from behind. - that is if we're talking "perfect".

There was one single guy that was emailing us. I think it was on an older site, Connections OnLine. This guy was all over us for a month or more. My wife was into his profile, but every once in awhile he wouldn’t email us back for a few days - perfectly fine, but a little disconcerting. He knew that the first meeting would be drinks only - we always said that, even though we very often invited the guy over if she liked him. And it was stated up front that I’d be in the room to watch them. We finally set up a meeting for a Friday night. She got all dressed up and we headed to the bar. We left forty-five minutes after he was supposed to be there, a typical flake. An hour later we got a text that said he got into a car accident or some such. He begged us for another chance. My wife really liked what she saw, so against my advice she said okay. Another weekend night, another meeting. A few minutes after the proposed time, I see a guy come in the place, he looked sort of like the pictures we had. He takes a look around the bar as if he was looking for someone, and looks directly at my wife, then walks out the door! WTF, you couldn’t even come over and say, ‘No thanks’? So I put up a fake COL profile. A series of smoking hot pictures of a lady I ripped from the Internet. I wait, sure enough the same guy reaches out to the fake lady. I tell him that I’m ready to take him out and fuck his brains out - how does he know I’m really an old white guy? I suggest we head for private email, and I start sending him pictures of the lady screwing people. He sends pictures of his cock, which wasn’t that much to brag about. I tell him to meet me at a hotel bar, I’ll have a room, as soon as he gets there we’ll go up and fuck. Of course, I don’t show. The day after the fake meeting, the fake woman gets an email. ‘What happened? Where were you?’ So I write him back and tell him I’m actually the husband of a woman he stood up. He was livid. Said he’d never ever stood anybody up, wanted to know my real screen name, After a few emails back and forth I deleted the fake COL account and email address. I wonder if he ever stood anybody up again. Probably . . . MORAL FOR SINGLE GUYS Be honest. When you agree to show up for a meet, do so. Be polite. If this guy had done that, he probably would have got laid.

I just read this on another site. "The sexiest curve a woman has is her smile" Yup!

We have, believe it or not, detected this more than once. It contradicts the common perception that it is always a guy pushing a woman into a situation.

I'm going to say what you don't want to hear "Don't Push". Anytime you push someone you are just more likely to push them away. She is already heading towards what you want, if it's going to happen it's going to happen naturally. She knows your fantasy, she's let you know she's not ready or not interested. Enjoy what you have. There are so many others who wish they had what you have and you take it for granted.