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A problem for sure, which is what you might expect when mixing LifeStyle and vanilla relationships. I think I'd have a talk with him. Either he needs to keep his hands off your wife (and vice versa) or he needs to confess to his girlfriend.

We bought a lifetime membership on SLS a lifetime ago, so I'm not sure what their prices are these days, but I'd guess it ain't that damn much. If you had success as a free member, then throw the site owners a bone and buy a membership. You'll help them and you'll probably be even more successful.

There have been a few nights when, after we beat a hasty retreat due to a total lack of "doability)Mrs Doc says to me, "I shaved for this"?? Our selection process has improved markedly over the years so I hear that a lot less now. This is recreational sex which is in large part predicated on sexual attraction. If it's not there, we cut our losses if it is, why put off the recreation.

Don’t know if you really had sex on the beach but we never saw any sexual activity. Gunnisons is a clothing optional beach not a sex beach. While I am not going to say sex acts never happen I will warn you that the Federal Rangers are on the constant look out for possible lewd acts. The biggest lewd act are guys playing with themselves. I have heard of some gay contact though I never saw it. The beach is federal lands. You may think it’s fun to have sex on the beach, you should be aware that if you are caught you may be screwing up your life. It will cost you plenty for a lawyer and may end up with a big fine. You can go to prison for lewdness though I doubt a first time offender would. From your posts you seem very sexual for someone your age. You have experienced more than most on here. Just wondering.

Oh ffs! Are you really that cheap? Some sites give couples the option to prohibit non paying members from viewing their profile. While we have, we generally do not meet s/ms from SLS but if we did, we'd never even look at a free members profile. If you refuse to pay for full access to a really good sight, we'd fully expect that you wouldn't spring for a drink or split the cost of a room.

If it worked for you just become a paid member. It’s not an outrageous price. A drink at a club is more.

Maybe owing to the fact that there are very few practical alternatives.

If you don’t like it, don’t use it. If you use it, pay for it to support it and let the owners make it better. There is no free ride. They are a business, not a personal benefit for users.

There are a lot of couples on both sites from around the country. The sites are a target rich environment for swingers. Of course there are a lot of flakes and fake profiles. That is what YOUR selection process is supposed to weed out. We do that and find a couple a year which we report to the sites. They promptly remove the offending profiles. My entire point was not directed at the site, it was directed at the OP who seemed to be determined to get a service of relative value for nothing. That seems indicative of a cheap, probably inconsiderate, and possibly dishonest individual and NOT someone to whom I'd introduce my wife.