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We just returned from a very nice 8 night stay at El Dorado Royale. We met three other couples there. We had met with the couples previously at other resorts or hotel parties. At the resort we all chipped in to have 3 patio parties with 4 standup cocktail tables, snacks and a bar. Our room butlers served and the resort provided a bartender, waiter and food personnel. Each of the 4 couples invited "friends " they met during the day and our neighbors in the 40, 41 and 42 buildings. Robb and I invited the 6 cousins and sisters in the three rooms next to our swim up room, all nurses, PAs and teachers. During the day, about half the women, topless, sunbathed or hungout in the lazy river in front of our rooms with no problems. At the three cocktail parties, dresses ranged from dressy resort wear to really really revealing club wear. There was no total nudity but lots of nipples and boobs were visible as evening came on. Some touching, etc went on but all play was taken back to the rooms. One of the "sisters" ended up in our room two nights after cocktail parties. She is/was the rare unicorn. Very rarely do we have FMF or FFM encounters but this was seriously fun! We like El Dorado Royale and will be back again, but with friends. Julie

Youre outstanding for taking the timne to respond. Thank you.... check I agree, really feel like if I remove it then there will be those who pass up because it wasn't laid out for them. Great suggestion...easy, got it! Yes, nuff said!

That's ... Odd. At least to us. We purposely do not 'do certs' (give OR accept), unless asked -- and we never ask, ourselves -- because we expect discretion from everyone. We make it a point in our profile on SLS to say we won't 'kiss and tell', nor do we want to advertise whom we may have met or played with. Until 'swinging' or 'open marriages' are the norm, or no longer grounds for termination of employment for some people on 'moral turpitude' grounds, we consider a large-ish number of 'certs' a red-flag in our searches. [Edit: spelling corrections. Also, it's 'whom', not 'who'.]

First time we did it included a friend and a lot of wine. It ended up being a very interesting and erotic threesome. To summarise as my friend (late 40s and a recent divorce´) began to thrust harder without protection he tried pulling out and my wife grabbed his hips and pulled him back in to finish. She ended up, and mind you he is very "Not her type" but in the heat of the moment told him "fill me with your seed, spray it deep inside me, I want to feel you cum"... and he did, he looked at me in shock I nodded it was ok. Otherwise when we do it is almost always protected.

Condoms don’t feel good to anyone. STDs don’t feel good, either.

Personally condoms never felt good to me. I love the feel of semen hitting my cervix, it's one of the only things that makes me orgasm.

From a time investment standpoint, I'm not going to meet someone and not have sex. They could be horrible at sex, and I need to find that out sooner than later. I almost always have sex the first meet and then if the sex is good and I want to see them again, I might look into doing vanilla stuff like drinks or dinner. Sex then hanging out in that order

When Mrs Doc addresses a newbies concerns about a nude beach she says, "there's always someone older, shorter, fatter than you, there is also someone younger, thinner with bigger boobs." That's how I feel about cocks. At a club or a party, there are always some bigger than mine and some smaller too. We had an early experience at Trapeze where we met a very attractive couple. When we went back to play, she discovered that his dick was less than 3 inches long soft and didn't get any bigger when erect. That was a night where I had a waaaaay better time than she did. She has since asked me to try to avoid "stubbies". She also prefers less than 10 inches, any more and it hurts. Fortunately, her preferences fall within the normal range so I have thankfully not had to become the penis inspector in our marriage.

The most I've had is three guys in one evening on several occasions. (I've only had sex with four guys in my life.) That's before Lora got divorced and Walter stilled played with us; now it's just hubby and Red. I have done it serially and DP, but don't like anything in my mouth while I'm trying to orgasm - I can't breathe. Since Clair and Lora were there I didn't always get freshies from all the guys. That makes a difference, it takes a guy longer to cum the second or third time, but that can be a good thing. Not as much semen to enjoy though.

We don't have a problem finding the guys. We play with 4 other couples, so it always involves them. In our little group, it is almost anything goes (no toilet, pain, etc), so everybody gets ganged at one time or another. It is a bi group, so the guys get ganged too. Some people talk about having very large groups for a gang session. That might be overwhelming. Ali says any more than the 5 guys in our group would be more about me satisfying my own voyeuristic interests than her sexual desires. Also, the number might be determined by the activity. If it is an anal GB, you may want fewer guys. She doesn't like more than 3 for anal GB. She has done 5-guy facials but thinks 2-4 is the best number to enjoy. We prefer to GB with our own little group. We think it is safer and more enjoyable. Plus, we can do bareback with them. The other couples feel the same way. We recommend couples considering GB, try to form a close-knit group, where everyone enjoys each other. It is an awesome experience, with the right group.